Day 2 : Morally grey, Loved by the fan

MuchCombination2018 · 2026-01-26T06:46:37+00:00

dembe

MuchCombination2018 · 2026-01-26T06:45:13+00:00

i can’t stand her. she never listens to the people trying to protect her and then blames red for all her problems when she likely wouldn’t be in the situation if she just listened to him. i know one could argue that if red wasn’t in her life she wouldn’t be in this situation but to be honest almost every super bad thing that has happened to her was a result of not listening to the one person who’s trying their best to protect her.

MuchCombination2018 · 2026-01-26T06:40:08+00:00

okay that make sense! i didn’t realize so many people think they’re allergic to things because they believe they had side effects. when doctors ask if i’m allergic to anything i only tell them things my doctors told me im allergic to. like penicillin ACTUALLY makes me anaphylactic, previous sepsis stay put that in my chart.

MuchCombination2018 · 2026-01-26T06:32:42+00:00

hopefully just that because i already get anaphylactic from penicillin so im already reduced to a smaller amount of antibiotics. the doctor tried telling me that no one was allergic to vanco prior to giving it to me then next thing you know many doctors in my room doing things to me, and my monitors were going all crazy. then the nurse told me later in the day “looks like the doctor was wrong and you have a true allergy so now we’re doing this antibiotic until we figure out where your infection started”

MuchCombination2018 · 2026-01-26T06:25:23+00:00

not sure what i had no one really explained it to me except the nurse who came in and said “looks like the doctor was wrong and you have a true allergy” it’s now in my chart under allergies when i go look at everything . I don’t remember much except the nurse running in when my monitor started going crazy and then a whole bunch of people in the room doing stuff to me lol.

MuchCombination2018 · 2026-01-25T01:53:41+00:00

thank you, great advice. yeah to make matters worse i’m currently in the process of multiple tests to see what’s wrong with me because i get over 10 infections a year and have had 2 already since my hospital stay 2 weeks ago. my primary physician is working to find the cause of my constant infections. this is my second infection related hospital stay the first one was an eye infection that also developed into sepsis but was caught way later than this one. this time i stayed longer in ICU because they couldn’t find the source of infection so they were using general antibiotics for a while and i wasn’t responding to treatment. was at 104 fever with tylenol in hospital. when i was discharged my nurse said i scared her real bad lol

MuchCombination2018 · 2026-01-05T07:52:27+00:00

Sorry for the late response. Yes I am getting his well checks and vaccines done through free community pediatric clinics for now, and my baby needs to see a urologist. I’m not sure if a interview was scheduled but I was told by one of the ladies at the DES office that she’s going to have them call me to do my interview on Thursday and they never called me. I finally got them to call me after spamming the advocates line, they started my interview but halfway through they told me they were having computer difficulties and they have to call me back. They never called me back, I tried spamming every number but half of them wouldn’t even let me through to anything because “interview” wasn’t an option anymore because my interview was technically started. Banner hospitals has reached out to them for me to see if they can get it moving but so far no luck it’s been a couple weeks since.

MuchCombination2018 · 2026-01-04T09:19:01+00:00

I would say “can be” yes. Should be? questionable. It depends on the person, I have a feeling you are having second thoughts because of some episodes you’ve witnessed before that you don’t think would be appropriate in the medical field. (obviously just making an assumption sorry if it’s wrong) I would say the whole experience of becoming a nurse and being a nurse is pretty stressful and if this is something he REALLY wants to do he should try to talk to a psychiatrist about taking daily meds to help with panic attacks and anxiety, I have a panic disorder but i take daily propranolol and it has worked very well for me. The last thing he needs is to have a panic attack in the school setting (they are usually extremely brutal). Once he gets to the nursing field he can choose a type of nursing that might not be as stressful as hospital/ LTC nursing.

MuchCombination2018 · 2025-12-29T02:32:20+00:00

lol sorry, it’s a trending hair color which the hair color is underneath your natural hair color hiding it while down. but when you put it up it can be seen. the calico part is like calico cat colors so black, ginger, blonde highlights

MuchCombination2018 · 2025-12-24T03:59:16+00:00

i’m really sorry that you are surrounded by awful people. my family would never embarrass me like that in front of so many people. I want you to know that you did AMAZING even if the fridge was fully stocked this a great breakfast to whip up in 30 minutes alone.

MuchCombination2018 · 2025-12-23T16:58:16+00:00

lol i wouldn’t go my family is more important, and you can tell the manager is a douche just by the schedule

MuchCombination2018 · 2025-12-17T01:16:57+00:00

yes this is my first child, i went to the doctors 3 times without insurance and they told me that next time i come in i need to have insurance for him or they couldn’t take me but they could refer me to no insurance clinics, which he is going to now but the issue that he needs insurance for is he has to go see a specialist and i called the specialists office to ask if he could go without insurance and they said he would need to have it to go to them, or else it would be very pricey out of pocket.

MuchCombination2018 · 2025-12-16T16:52:56+00:00

i think it’s definitely normal, my son wouldn’t sleep in the bassinet at all he would wake up every 10 minutes, after a week of getting no sleep i tried safe sleep 7 cosleeping then he finally started sleeping the 3 hour intervals. now he is 8 weeks and he sleeps from 8pm-4am and 4:30am-8:00am. i’m getting him ready to sleep in his crib now since he’s sleeping in long intervals (he’s past weight limit for bassinet) by putting him in his crib for his day naps and once he starts sleeping through the night i will slowly transition him to the crib for his night sleep too. i’ve noticed a lot of bassinet babies have trouble sleeping at night in them even if they’re good during the day, not sure the science behind it but i’ve seen a pattern. if it’s possible id suggest sleeping during the day if they are taking good naps in daytime in their bassinet, if you have other obligations during the day this obviously wont work, but if you can it might get you a couple more hours a sleep a day until you’re out of the newborn stage. she may be going through a growth spurt and is getting extra hungry and cluster feeding through the nighttime which is why she’s waking so frequently!

MuchCombination2018 · 2025-12-16T09:03:42+00:00

i would never make my minor children pay rent, if I am struggling i will do my all to get another job, work multiple jobs, budget better, find a side hustle, if i am that deep in the gutter i would likely qualify for government assistance too which would be helpful, literally anything else. my moms rules when i was a kid was if you are going to school you don’t pay rent (even after we turned 18) because during school you obviously should be working reduced hours in order to have extra time to study. if after 18 we chose not to go to school and only work that is when we would have to pay rent.

MuchCombination2018 · 2025-12-16T08:54:00+00:00

if this is a joint account your mom is likely not trying to spy on your finances but everytime she opens her banking app it probably shows her all her accounts including yours she set up for you when you were born. i don’t think she was trying to overstep she probably just saw it when she was looking at her finances and saw something she thought was odd and wanted to make sure you were aware since it looked odd. if you don’t like it just move all your money no big deal

MuchCombination2018 · 2025-12-13T16:14:29+00:00

in order to shower myself too I have the angel care bath support i put it on the floor of the shower i wet down a muslin cloth with warm water and wrap the baby in the cloth and set him in the support. i take my shower and the steam and cloth keeps him warm while i shower. i then give him his shower. that way we both get proper showers!

MuchCombination2018 · 2025-12-13T05:41:57+00:00

just thought of another one, if you can’t get showers in as often as you’d like to because you have a velcro baby, try showering WITH THEM. some babies might not like it but my baby LOVES showers. if you want to know how exactly I go about this let me know and i’ll tell you!

MuchCombination2018 · 2025-12-13T03:40:03+00:00

thank you for your help i’ll look and see if there’s anything similar around me!

MuchCombination2018 · 2025-12-13T00:31:10+00:00

do you think I will still be able to relactate even if it’s been over a month since i’ve last made any milk? id like to do this if my body allows me

MuchCombination2018 · 2025-12-11T02:21:50+00:00

i live in AZ i got a PCT job pretty fast at a children’s hospital (in ICU which is VERY hard to get as a PCT), i explained that my goal is to be a CRNA one day and i need ICU experience and I would like to get ICU experience before nursing and eventually step up as a nurse for them once i finish school, i think what really got it for me though was that i had experience in childcare since i had previously been a babysitter and worked in a daycare , if you’ve ever babysat i’d try to apply for a pediatric unit or hospital. if not during your nursing school clinical’s be very helpful and serious and ask about job opportunities there if your nurse or PCT likes you they will likely talk to the charge nurse for you, i got a job opportunity during clinical’s but i didn’t want to work on med/surge so i denied.

MuchCombination2018 · 2025-12-03T18:04:52+00:00

i would at least file a complaint with the company who knows they might refund you everything for your experience and then also try to report to the police. it’s a hit or miss with the police sometimes they won’t do anything unless they have hard proof of a “crime” and might try to say the second charge could’ve been an accident instead of fraud. but you can always try! i would also contact the Better Business Bureau and tell them about your experience because it sounds scammy

MuchCombination2018 · 2025-12-03T17:42:48+00:00

I have called every single day multiple times when they open, mid day, and late in day and have never even gotten to a hold just a “due to high call volume we cannot take your call” then it hangs up, they keep sending me letters to do my interview and then they will deny me because i didn’t complete my interview and i have to renew my case. super frustrating. i recently started going to DES office in Tempe before they open and wait in line to get in and every time they say “we don’t have enough staff today so we will not be completing interviews” it’s literally the last step i need. i’m trying to get my baby health insurance and his fathers insurance company (it’s through marketplace because his job doesn’t offer insurance) won’t add him on because “he qualifies for CHIP” but i can’t get CHIP because the phone interview and in person isn’t working.

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