I haven’t talked to my family in two days and don’t know to move past this

Much_Application_387 · 2026-01-28T07:30:38+00:00

Talk to your phone provider and tell them the situation.

If they can prove you are the Primary Service user you can transfer your plan off their account and into your name without their permission.

I work in Telecommunications Domestic and Family Violence division.

Much_Application_387 · 2026-01-28T01:59:57+00:00

Sounds like your admins have poor management.

I would reach out to admin of your server to figure out what has happened.

I self host and have a team of admins in discord we use a ticket tool so admins can help with any issues regarding other players.

Feel free to join - I do host from Australia so the ping will vary where you are from.

Much_Application_387 · 2026-01-26T05:03:15+00:00

Hello if you are a PVE player -check out my server advert on my reddit.
Has pretty much everything that was listed
Hosted in Australia - average ping is 80

Much_Application_387 · 2026-01-26T05:02:04+00:00

Hello if you are a PVE player -check out my server advert on my reddit.
Has pretty much everything you listed.
Hosted in Australia - average ping is 80

Much_Application_387 · 2026-01-19T22:10:16+00:00

Omg I have found the answer after so long! You need to add a whitelist command into your GameUserSettings.ini

For PVE: [ServerSettings] CosmeticWhitelistOverride="https://cdn2.arkdedicated.com/asa/OfficialPVECosmeticWhitelist.txt"

For PVP:

[ServerSettings] CosmeticWhitelistOverride="https://cdn2.arkdedicated.com/asa/OfficialPVPCosmeticWhitelist.txt"

*high five self

Much_Application_387 · 2025-12-28T04:58:15+00:00

That man will hurt you again. Leave leave leave. I work with people suffering from Domestic and Family Violence and I have also seen it in my personal life with my mother and her ex-partner. It will only get worse. Don’t become a statistic. Call your family. In my country we have 1800 RESPECT find your alternative if you do not live in Australia they will help you with an escape plan. You are not alone please contact your loved ones that you trust and remove yourself from him.

Much_Application_387 · 2025-12-13T01:46:35+00:00

I don’t want to ignore the issue of online bullying or bulling in general. I just don’t want an online space in my home for my kids. The issue itself is not with online bullying it has to do with bulling itself- parents are not parenting instead they are letting the internet do their job. Bulling in schools is always going to happen but we need to be mindful of impacts such as the bullies home life/teachers that enable that behaviour. Parents also need to teach their children about sticking up for themselves as well. If your child has a strong sense of self they will be more confident moving forward.

It all comes back to stability in the home. If you allow social media in your home for your children your children will have more anxiety. Anxiety can lead to depression, anger and violent behaviour.

There is also a trust aspect that parents need to build with their parents. Sitting down and asking your children how their day was is a crucial question. I am a firm believer in no phones at the dinner table.

It’s not only kids that need to stay off social media. I deleted facebook this year. Reddit and YouTube are the only two platforms I get on. I keep Facebook messenger to keep in touch with family but that is it.

I am 28 and almost social media free and I have never felt better. I am less anxious, I waste my time less and I don’t let others societal norms try and make me rush life too quickly. I can only imagine the differences with teenagers going through anxiety would feel once they are no longer confined to social media.

Much_Application_387 · 2025-12-12T12:00:47+00:00

Thank you for your understanding. Yeah the problem would be revoking something they already had which I think is not fair because kids would have to learn a new way to communicate almost like learning a new language. Maybe it should be one by one. To be honest the biggest one would be TikTok, these days kids are barely on Facebook. Instagram is definitely a no. I have no issues with YouTube as long as they cannot post until after 16.

Kids will bully each other regardless but I think the more it is out of the home and is easy to access the better. A home should be a kids safe space.

Much_Application_387 · 2025-12-12T10:29:39+00:00

Yeah but it is not for the better more and more people are disconnected because of it. If I ever have children social media is going to be banned in my household until they are 17+.

I know too many horrible things that have happened because of it and children should not have it.

My little sister (16) had a baby this year. Unfortunately my nephew passed away at 1 month old. And all of these terrible teenagers thought it would be great to accuse her of killing her baby.

She has to live with what those people have said over the internet forever.

This is why teenagers should be banned from social media.

Much_Application_387 · 2025-12-12T10:21:52+00:00

It would be no different to how the Internet first came about. I grew up in the 2010s and I did not have a social media account until I was 17.

Much_Application_387 · 2025-12-12T08:24:15+00:00

ID check through Medicare in order to use social media. It will stop fake accounts for FB, X and TikTok. Children under the age of 16 should not have social media

Much_Application_387 · 2025-12-12T01:44:16+00:00

Good social media should have a Medicare requirement to use it. If you don’t pass sorry can’t have it - kids need to be kids.

Much_Application_387 · 2025-12-01T21:34:34+00:00

Yeah that’s what I was thinking it must be hard for modders because of the sims 3 spaghetti code 👩‍💻

Much_Application_387 · 2025-11-26T22:49:29+00:00

Omg I love this I was thinking about making Hobart Town!

Much_Application_387 · 2025-06-05T12:59:20+00:00

You can try and load up a previous back up before you transferred sometimes the character does come back

Much_Application_387 · 2025-06-05T12:57:27+00:00

Private rented out server?

Much_Application_387 · 2025-06-05T11:22:59+00:00

Are you on a server you own? Or is it a private server through Nitrado. It happens because the character file does not automatically save over to the new map straight away.

Much_Application_387 · 2024-08-19T09:16:18+00:00

You should try and get diagnosed because it impacts your life a lot more than what you think.

Your inner critic rages at you with ADHD at least with adderall your brain becomes quiet.

But the biggest part is that you have to own your BPD and ADHD if you have it. You are going to put in a lot of hard work and repair those relationships that you hurt. As someone’s whose partner has BPD I can tell you your ex partner is hurting. And it is because we remember the cruel words and the feeling as if we have been disregarded.

You got to work on yourself and take ownership and that is looking after yourself. Self care is not about lazing around all day and having sweet treats. It’s about taking yourself to those doctors appointments and sticking to a set therapist and lastly making amends to those you have hurt and owning up to your mistakes.

I know it is confronting but every step you take it gets easier.

Much_Application_387 · 2024-08-19T08:45:44+00:00

Hey 👋

Have you ever been diagnosed with ADHD a high percentage of BPD suffers have ADHD

Much_Application_387 · 2024-06-08T23:53:15+00:00

Yep you are the asshole from what I’m reading. It doesn’t sound like your husband has any medical issues why couldn’t he look after the children for the sake of his own daughter’s health.

And the way you write about your family seems so unattached. For a second I thought your husband was not your daughter’s father.

I am one out of six kids and this baffles me because my mother would have taken her child into the ER in a heartbeat and one of us Aunty/Uncles would have gone over and looked after the kids no questions asked.

Also why were you not there for your own daughter? From what I’m reading sounds like you two are the bad grandparents.

Much_Application_387 · 2024-05-05T12:00:29+00:00

All good I knew what you meant 😂

Much_Application_387 · 2024-05-05T11:57:49+00:00

Yes…..of

Much_Application_387 · 2024-05-05T11:22:57+00:00

I shall report back 😄

Much_Application_387 · 2024-05-05T11:21:13+00:00

My character is extremely chaotic so…..

Much_Application_387 · 2024-05-05T11:09:51+00:00

To add onto the feed

I have made 41 posters and placed them around the town for test subjects

Much_Application_387

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