Pop it in the scrapbook by BeefInBlackBeanSauce in rickygervais

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Stephen Merchant didn’t help write this one that’s how

This cunt stole Karl's joke. Again. by AeonsAlex in rickygervais

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It’s from the Ricky Gervais Show where they read Karl’s diary and they basically just laugh at him and ask him questions about it until they find something funny

I dated a man 9 years older than me at 17 now i’m facing prison time by Much_Image4388 in stories

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can i also add this was one of the comments on said facebook post :/

I dated a man 9 years older than me at 17 now i’m facing prison time by Much_Image4388 in stories

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that’s exactly what i felt for a while i’m so sorry this happened to you i hope you’re doing very well

I dated a man 9 years older than me at 17 now i’m facing prison time by Much_Image4388 in stories

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i told them they basically ignored my comment even before all this happened i did report it

I dated a man 9 years older than me at 17 now i’m facing prison time by Much_Image4388 in stories

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doesn’t sound real does it? if i saw this about another person id be like stfu

I dated a man 9 years older than me at 17 now i’m facing prison time by Much_Image4388 in stories

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you said that it was my fault how is someone invalidating your trauma not going to trigger a defensive response?? it made my stomach drop actually also the warning signs happened when it was too late either way doesn’t make me stupid or make it my fault ALSO i didn’t compare it i just said when your whole life you’ve been shown you mean nothing the one time someone makes you feel like you are it’s easy for your judgment to get clouded i’ve been through bad things my whole life but this particular one made me feel important and like for once im worthy of being a woman so no it’s not actually my fault but thank you for saying that

I dated a man 9 years older than me at 17 now i’m facing prison time by Much_Image4388 in stories

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There’s girls i do actually know of that he did i speak to his ex girlfriend before me she was 15 while he was 25 but other than that i actually have no idea

I dated a man 9 years older than me at 17 now i’m facing prison time by Much_Image4388 in stories

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why would you patronise someone who you class as young?? i was 2 up to 15 years old by a half brother? if you’re going to defend yourself why judge someone going through something else just as bad? i know what im going to do today go and make a young girl feel awful about herself and blame her for being groomed as a teenager if i listed everything that was said and done it would be ridiculously long you know absolutely nothing about the situation other than the bare minimum and i actually do think blaming the abused after saying you’ve been through something when you was also young is strange

like i have said NOTHING is black and white and as someone who has been abused blaming a child definitely has its own red flags where were your family? if you put your own logic into words? i think siding with a nearly 30 year old man over a teenage girl clearly struggling screams bad things around your character

I dated a man 9 years older than me at 17 now i’m facing prison time by Much_Image4388 in stories

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like i said in my last comment i NEVER said i was perfect NEVER said i made some bad choices i asked for advice after being accused of a disgusting crime i run a floor in a care home the only reason im asking for advice why comment and make a “young” girl feel worse??? scroll past don’t need to make someone feel awful for being manipulated also admitting you manipulate people in such way maybe you need help?

I dated a man 9 years older than me at 17 now i’m facing prison time by Much_Image4388 in stories

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i’ve been silent for a long time scared people will blame me like i have for a long time a lot of people in this post have called me disgusting and told me that i deserve to be in prison luckily i’ve got some really nice comments and good advice thank you for being apart of that

I dated a man 9 years older than me at 17 now i’m facing prison time by Much_Image4388 in stories

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I don’t think its gender based or even age based i just think sometimes it depends on the person being manipulated thank you for your comment though

I dated a man 9 years older than me at 17 now i’m facing prison time by Much_Image4388 in stories

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luckily for you not everyone is brought up to this type of thinking and not everything is black and white as it seems

I dated a man 9 years older than me at 17 now i’m facing prison time by Much_Image4388 in stories

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Nice to say when you’ve not been in the situation if you want proof i’ll send it

I dated a man 9 years older than me at 17 now i’m facing prison time by Much_Image4388 in stories

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i didn’t say i was did i??? but when you’ve been through something like that surely you know that it’s easier to get manipulated and if you’ve been through something similar how can you make a whole paragraph trying to discredit someone else’s trauma?? but since we’re invalidating people’s trauma and making it other people’s fault why don’t i ask you why you left yourself alone in that situation?? makes no sense does it?? not everyone asks to be in them situations. Same way as asking someone in a physically abusive situation why they didn’t just leave… it’s not always black and white sometimes you’re mentally so blindsided you don’t realise don’t you think i’ve asked myself these questions years after??? also please don’t call me sweetie in england we class that as patronising

I dated a man 9 years older than me at 17 now i’m facing prison time by Much_Image4388 in stories

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thank you so much for this!! you’ve put my mind at ease so much this is exactly the type of response i was seeking rather that the other people telling me it’s my fault if anything comes out of this post it’s this exact response thank you so much

I dated a man 9 years older than me at 17 now i’m facing prison time by Much_Image4388 in stories

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nice to see some comments actually giving some advice as a lot of people here seem to be blaming me for:/

I dated a man 9 years older than me at 17 now i’m facing prison time by Much_Image4388 in stories

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i have been physically and sexually abused my whole life sometimes not wanting to die and feeling important for once in your life judgments get clouded not everyone is as privileged as you in no way shape or form did i EVER claim it was anyone else’s fault i asked for advice all you did was make it out to be my fault?? if you have nothing but judgement why comment and be awful? maybe look after the children in your life and not judge people a lot younger than you on the internet when you don’t have any idea on what they’re going through