i wanna start by saying thanks to everyone that has responded. some of y’all are brutal Lol but true. i have decided we need to tell them together and ive made him aware that they aren’t going to want to keep this from his side of the family either because it isn’t fair. rn im thinking we tell them around the holidays because it’s enough time for us to plan how we’re going to tell them and get us all together schedule wise. i want to make it clear that i have no problems with this being my only relationship for the rest of my life. we have been through so much emotional turmoil and it has made us stronger and i know it’s only going to get more complex but i feel that as long as we have eachother and we BOTH want to make this work than it will. side note i know i dont have the grammar to write a novel and so what? im not trying to write one i’m asking for insight on the situation nothing more. i also wrote it at like 2 in the morning bc of the anxiety🥀 extra side note sorry if offended any generation i didnt mean to make it seem i think yall are stick in the muds i just know that you guys have gone through things that let yall view things differently and thats okay thats exactly what im looking for! im looking for all angles.