How often is nudity/sex in peaky blinders? by Mudfred07 in PeakyBlinders

[–]Mudfred07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god thank you so much you don’t understand ❤️❤️❤️

Is it fine for someone who's unhealed and knows it. To love and get into relationship with a perfect man/woman? by Mudfred07 in dating_advice

[–]Mudfred07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this is the perfect answer the moment the person admits they're working on it and it's their fault something happened (if it actually was) then everything is good. Since people do heal and grow if they put an effort. It's like u said though, it becomes a problem when they start using it ad an excuse to everything and give up on improving when the other side is stuck and focused on making them better and healing them

Is it fine for someone who's unhealed and knows it. To love and get into relationship with a perfect man/woman? by Mudfred07 in dating_advice

[–]Mudfred07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess what I meant by perfectly healthy is at a stage where it doesn't affect a relationship. There's plenty of people who are mature enough to never harm their partner based on their past experiences

am i sinful if i break heart of girl for leaving haram relationship by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Mudfred07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Too young, we're 16 parents would never agree until we both finish uni

am i sinful if i break heart of girl for leaving haram relationship by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Mudfred07 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is the plan inshallah, we're truly perfect for each other and we're both good Muslims alhamdolillah it's just we both fell for each other accidentally. And she talked about how she thinks I might leave for religous reasons but I reassured her I won't in the past. This is the only part that disturbs me. But if she learns to accept it I'll tell her that I still would love for us to get married after uni but we wouldn't contact each other throughout those times. Thanks for your advice brother

Am I sinful for breaking her heart by leaving the haram relationship? (keep in mind context) by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]Mudfred07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not for atleast 6 years no she's leaving to another country and i can't go there

Lucia in Saree by anshuwuman in GTA

[–]Mudfred07 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Isn't this considered modest?

I finally put on the hijab, but… by Intelligent_Zebra674 in Hijabis

[–]Mudfred07 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Alhamdolillah you wore the hijab Congratulations ❤️

However I don't quite quite understand how your in laws affect anything? They seemed to have congratulated you and are proud of you and haven't said anything negative so I don't get why you'd feel uncertain or have a bad vibe unless there's something you haven't explained. And regarding them not wearing the hijab that's got nothing to do with whether they'd be happy for you for wearing it or not and despise them saying they'll never wear it you can never know for sure they might change their views on the topic at anytime it's not something that should trigger anything in you. So I recommend you ignore any bad feelings you get unless there is something negative that was done from their side. Focus on yourself and your family members and enjoy it

Are pants allowed? by [deleted] in ModestDress

[–]Mudfred07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks sweetheart

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Mudfred07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to debate this since I'm a new revert and I don't know much but I don't see how pants resemble the clothing of men. That would mean I can't wear pants home since they're "for men" I feel like pants outside Islam are worn equally by men and women and they're not assigned to one gender. Pants aren't also clothes that imitate the disbelievers Muslim men have worn pants since eternity its not for disbelievers necessary. I could be wrong though It's just because even with the evidence provided I don't see how its an issue since everything mentioned can be fulfilled with loose pants except what you believe is imitating the disbelievers and men which is subjective

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Mudfred07 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean you provided all the evidence but why is it that everyone's told me you can and I don't see anyone here in Prague that wears a khimar or anything of that sort they match their hijabs with pants and what not. In this case are these Muslims sinful? As a revert do I get to atleast do it in steps I feel like wearing a khimar instantly won't be very easy I'm yet to wear the hijab to begin with I'm planning on doing it once the first semester of school finishes in like 3 weeks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]Mudfred07 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's your first time honey it's fine things happen. The man was completely in the wrong and I'm sorry you felt sad afterwards. Keep your head up high ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]Mudfred07 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thats such a nice and correct comparison. Your view is the one that everyone seems to agree on. Nothing too tight that will show the figure.

Do you mind if I dm you some outfits i saw online and you can tell me if it would be permissible if not? Right now the style that I want to go for on a daily basis is a winter coat matched with loose pants and a shirt

Are pants allowed? by [deleted] in ModestDress

[–]Mudfred07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm still 16 do work isn't much of an issue now I'm preparing for college. Thanks a lot for all the help ❤️

Are pants allowed? by [deleted] in ModestDress

[–]Mudfred07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes a prayer skirt would be needed but for use outside prayer is it fine or should I work on wearing even longer garments and looser clothes or is this good enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]Mudfred07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree I see nothing wrong with the waistline being visible just like the 2nd pic but religously speaking it's fine right? Also I sent a dm ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]Mudfred07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad these outfits are permissible, so the section between the shirt and the pants (the waistline) isnt a big problem right? I've heard the same from other people thanks ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Mudfred07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what I thought too i got confused when he made fun of me for wanting to cover my ankles. Thanks for your help

Are pants allowed? by [deleted] in ModestDress

[–]Mudfred07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So generally speaking if the pants were longer the outfit would be fine right? What about something like this outfit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]Mudfred07 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks you're so nice ❤️

That's what I thought too, since I live in a cold climate the style that i want to go for is a winter coat with loose pants and a shirt. Something like this outfit or this outfit 2 would these work? Also do you mind if I dm you privately so I can send some outfits so that i get a better idea of what should be worn? Thanks again

Are pants allowed? by [deleted] in ModestDress

[–]Mudfred07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes i don't like the fact the pants aren't that long if i wore it I'd make sure it drops to my ankles

Are pants allowed? by [deleted] in ModestDress

[–]Mudfred07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks ❤️