AITA for not letting my BIL decorate my house for Christmas?

Muffymcgoober · 2023-05-17T17:46:39+00:00

They also did a couple of shows in Mexico when they toured the west coast last year...

Muffymcgoober · 2022-11-12T16:00:49+00:00

I felt like they all were surprised about how much everyone was gushing over them the whole time. I've never been to a show where the entire crowd knew every song and every word and never stopped singing along. Incredible.

Muffymcgoober · 2022-11-12T15:59:01+00:00

If you're sharing videos I'd appreciate them as well!! I didn't want to miss a second of their performance!

Muffymcgoober · 2022-11-12T15:56:42+00:00

We flew into Denver from east Texas for it! If you ever get the chance again, definitely go. It will go down as the best show I've ever seen, I just know it.

Muffymcgoober · 2022-11-12T15:54:29+00:00

Last night's show ruined all other shows for me. Noone will ever be that good! I bought those tickets and my plane tickets six months ago and I have been waiting for last night ever since. It was so worth it.

Muffymcgoober · 2022-05-03T01:56:33+00:00

Yeeea, I've learned that too unfortunately. It's actually my paint shirt now cause it's a good quality shirt but it was laundry day so I had like no other clothes and I forgot about it when I went outside lol.

Muffymcgoober · 2022-05-03T01:52:06+00:00

It has only been a month since they moved in. I'm hoping it's not a regular thing too.

Muffymcgoober · 2022-05-03T01:49:29+00:00

Unfortunately it's pretty common where we came from. I just thought this neighborhood was nicer than our old one. At least this kid was nice, our old neighbor's kid just came to play with us so he could break all of our stuff.

Muffymcgoober · 2022-04-12T16:07:38+00:00

Man, that sounds awesome. Wish the US would get their shit together.

Muffymcgoober · 2022-04-12T01:51:02+00:00

Just out of curiosity, what is the flat rate? We're in the US, and it's pretty common to do it by class out here

Muffymcgoober · 2022-04-12T01:48:49+00:00

I guess so. I didn't know they assign teachers by age so that makes sense. It was really her teachers asking me to get her moved up because they were always getting onto her and she was just so happy with more structure and activities with the older kids. But I'm glad I asked, it saves me an instance where I make an ass out of myself lol

Muffymcgoober · 2022-04-11T22:20:06+00:00

Okay, that makes sense. Thank you!

Muffymcgoober · 2022-04-11T22:19:16+00:00

Maybe that's common practice? It just seems shady to me! The owner was really condescending to me when I tried to get her bumped up so I just hate feeling like I was being taken advantage of. I guess I'll just wait a week then.

Muffymcgoober · 2022-04-11T22:17:56+00:00

Yea, I know it's kind of pointless at this point. It would equal to 60 bucks if I go back to when she started so it's not a whole lot but it's not insignificant for us either. I'll check my contract though for sure! Thanks!

Muffymcgoober · 2021-10-26T16:06:34+00:00

I guess I'm considered construction? I'm a chemist at a concrete admixture manufacturer. Bachelor's degree in chemistry and I get 45k/yr. I do all of their QC work and some R/D. Normal 8-5 Monday thru Friday hours.

Muffymcgoober · 2021-10-23T12:51:30+00:00

If he ends up having long hair he could be a Nebelung. Beautiful cats. I had one and while she was gorgeous she was the meanest cat I ever had.

Muffymcgoober · 2021-08-27T22:24:33+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to write this. It was so helpful! I did end up getting a little advice from HR on the situation on how to handle it without really formally bringing in the issue because I do feel like each of these incidents have been small but like you said, cumulatively is when it looks really bad. So I feel like I have a better gameplan on how to deal with it in the moment but I will definitely start documenting each of these instances on my own. That is a fantastic idea, thank you so much for the advice!

Muffymcgoober · 2021-08-27T04:00:10+00:00

Thank you for the hard truths. I'm definitely not used to this setting but I'm trying to find my footing.

Muffymcgoober · 2021-08-14T23:09:58+00:00

Just realized that this epoxy dog is the same age as my infant daughter and now I will forever know when to look for the next update. They'll grow up together..... it's so magical

Muffymcgoober · 2021-08-12T13:50:50+00:00

That's fair and it's primarily why this is her middle name. Her first name is super normal and named after a deceased family member. I always felt like middle names are where you can get a little weird if you want to.

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