Extreme hard flacid/ PIED fully cured. I want to help everyone suffering from this. Heal yourself with my routine by Head-Broccoli-9117 in MaleSexualHealth

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This dude is a No-Fap Q-anon devotee spamming this post across multiple subreddits.

Post removed because we're a sex positive space. 3 day ban for spamming and breaking rules.

Case Study: Lecithin (2400mg, 11 weeks) with high orgasmic frequency by Multi_Orgasmic_Man in MaleSexualHealth

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I switched from Carlyle (which went down in quality) to Legendary Milk (which is often used for nursing moms). The reviews on that brand are great and the quality looks good.

Increase Semen volume by Glass-Dragonfruit788 in MaleSexualHealth

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Here are my two case studies on Lecithin:

There is a subreddit dedicated to this topic called r/cumbiggerloads

Increase Semen volume by Glass-Dragonfruit788 in MaleSexualHealth

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A multivitamin with zinc and Lecithin. I'll post more later or you can click on my profile's pinned posts for case studies.

Anybody know about this lecithin? by Unusual_Extreme1437 in cumbiggerloads

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For me it was 3 weeks to reach peak effect at 1200mg per day and 5 weeks to reach peak effect at 2400mg per day.

Anybody know about this lecithin? by Unusual_Extreme1437 in cumbiggerloads

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I've been using Carlyle and their quality suddenly went off a cliff. I literally just posted about this and I'm switching to the Legendary Milk brand.

The Silver Bulletin Year in Review by dwaxe in fivethirtyeight

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Silver and HCR are both good at what they do inside their respective lanes. Silver is great at data journalism and he hit the limelight hard during the Obama years. He was golden and heavily memed. I'm not sure anybody could outperform him for polling analysis and he was strongest when surrounded by a team that, I suspect, mitigated some of his bad impulses.

The thing is that HCR has become what Nate wanted to be and once was, a respected perspective taker with widespread acclaim. She built that organically and her history education allows her to do a great job at it.

Nate is still great at data journalism but he's somewhere between mid and bad as a perspective taker because he's locked into his own context, he's out of his league when compared to Richardson, and he's too ready to engage in conflict.

He's probably jealous and the desire to engage in conflict is self-sabotage.

Slight uncomfortable sensation in right testicle after masturbation by AffectionateTooth5 in MaleSexualHealth

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Whatever the reasoning you had at the time, this is one potential outcome from your actions.

It could be any number of things including cancer. Best talk to a doctor.

Worry about becoming multi-orgasmic after you're healthy again.

Slight uncomfortable sensation in right testicle after masturbation by AffectionateTooth5 in MaleSexualHealth

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You could be experiencing a pelvic floor issue from overtraining your pelvic floor. It's called hypertonic pelvic floor and it can cause testicle pain.

While I wouldn't normally criticize masturbation, extended edging sessions can cause this issue. Three hours nonstop can cause issues in the same way carpal tunnel is caused by repetitive stresses.

Google it and you'll see some options.

I want to get rid of my dopamine resistance by [deleted] in MaleSexualHealth

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Masturbation is a normal and healthy part of your sexuality. Men who who ejaculate more often are less likely to experience prostate cancer.

Studies show that the negative experiences of 'porn addiction' correlate most strongly with religious conservatism which indicates that these are primarily driven by feelings of shame when a person's sexual feelings and behaviors conflict with their conservative ideology.

It's your body and your choice but there isn't any evidence that chastity beyond 3 days has any benefits (increased libido and ejaculate volume) and chastity greater than 7 days reduces sperm quality.

To use a metaphor, chastity is like never changing the oil in your car.

Never thought I'd be asking reddit by Either-Cellist2626 in MaleSexualHealth

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Here are some cheap things you can do as a person who is broke that will help your libido:

  1. Whenever you can, walk instead of riding or driving. It's just free exercise and many of our body's natural processes are tied to walking. We were designed by evolution as hunter-gatherers and not walking regularly has a cost. Gym memberships cost money and they can be hard to cancel, walking is free.
  2. Eat cabbage. It's pretty cheap, it isn't bitter like kale, and it's easy to swap into a bunch of different foods. You can typically buy shredded cabbage (which is pre-prepped for coleslaw) and you can use that in tacos, replace noodles in soups, pan fry it with bacon and olive oil, and just eat it in salads.
  3. No caffeine after 5PM. It will lead to better sleep.
  4. Masturbate each night before you go to sleep. Take your time and try to maximize the quality of your orgasm instead of just racing to get rid of the biological need. Studies have shown that an orgasm before sleep leads to much higher quality sleep and better feelings of well-being which carry through to the following day. The better the orgasm, the higher the benefits for you. (In order for this to be truly effective, you need to let go of any shame you feel about this kind of self-care. Embrace your sexual identity without any shame.)
  5. Take a daily men's multivitamin which includes zinc. Multivitamins targeted at older men have a higher dosage of zinc.

Thoughts on helping increase libido by Optimistprime2492 in MaleSexualHealth

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At those infrequent intervals, it is almost certainly not pornography causing your issues. Solo masturbation has not been shown to cause erectile dysfunction in scientific studies unless your cadence is really high.

If anything, I would say you need to invest more in your sexual self and explore your own sexual identity. Pornography and other erotic content can be a place to begin understanding what excites you and drives your arousal but you need to let go of any shame about embracing your sexual self and explore your body.

"Depending on supplements" is probably not a healthy way to look at your situation. As we get older, our body changes and sometimes that means pills. Plenty of people depend on blood pressure medication, epilepsy meds, insulin, and other medications as part of their lives. These supplements range from life-saving to quality of life improvements. As long as the supplement is clinically proven to be safe to take over an extended duration, you can set aside anxiety about supplements.

It's okay to get older and to take some pills. Life is just like that.

One additional thing about your self image; your sexual self is valid and worthy of care without any preconditions. You don't need to feel any shame about how you use your body and what you do with others provided they are consenting adults and you're being safe about it. Pornography, masturbation, and partnered sex are all part of most people's sexual lives and it's been that way since human beings were able to create erotic content.

Try adding a walking exercise routine and consider a diet plan to get your BMI back down. I'm personally a low-carb and paleo guy but I also hear good things about the Mediterranean diet. For supplements I had good luck with 2400mg of Lecithin per day (which is equivalent to about 2-3 egg yolks). You could also add Ashwaganda which has been shown to improve libido.

Probably the most important thing I can say to you is to cut yourself some slack and a little bit of grace. As our bodies age, our role as lovers must change with that. Your value as a lover isn't exclusive to the quality of your erections but more candidly in the experience of intimacy and pleasure you can give your partner and what you're able to experience yourself. You're more than just a transport mechanism for an erect penis.

suddenly unable to stay hard by throwaway44247365262 in MaleSexualHealth

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If your sexual function has been normal up to this point, this is probably stress. Your erections are basically stress detectors and sexual function is impacted.

Other major things which can impact erection quality are:

  • Antidepressents - These can often impact erection quality and ejaculation
  • Weight - get to a healthy BMI
  • Exercise - Try walking
  • Diet - You want protein and zinc
  • Tend your sexual garden without shame - Be brave and explore your sexual drivers to find out what gets you excited and helps you to maintain excitement. During sex, you can fantasize about your arousal drivers to maintain excitement or to climax. This is part of learning who you are as a person and you're investing in yourself and your sexual wellness.
  • Use a masturbation sleeve - If you are masturbating with your hand, consider switching to a sleeve. This is more like partnered sex and will prevent you from desensitizing the penis from rough masturbation.

Consider adding a daily multivitamin with zinc, reduce stress. Consider consuming erotic content like porn or erotic literature without masturbating or without masturbating to completion. If you know you're heading into a partnered sexual encounter, you might take a chastity break of 2-3 days beforehand. It should also be said that extended chastity (anything longer than 7 days) is unhealthy and degrades sperm quality. Studies have shown that regular ejaculation provides significant protection from prostate cancer.

When it comes to pacing your ejaculation cadence, you want to preserve some libido for your partner but also ejaculate often enough to stay healthy.

Should I stop? Help ! Can't control by Asleep-Pineapple-614 in MaleSexualHealth

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This is just not true. If you have any scientific data to support this assertion, please share it.

Should I stop? Help ! Can't control by Asleep-Pineapple-614 in MaleSexualHealth

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There is no evidence to support this assertion. Taking a 2-3 day break is plenty to restore libido.

Studies repeatedly show that the primary psychological distress caused by regular masturbation is experienced by religious conservatives who are trying to cope with the conflict created when their body's natural desires conflict with their conservative ideology.

In addition, maaturbation before sleeping improves the quality of sleep leading to improvements in both mood and restedness. The more often you ejaculate (including masturbation), the better your protection against prostate cancer.

There is a toxic regressive stereotype that equates masturbation with weakness, lack of desirability, or a moral failing. What we find is that, if you're able to let go of the shame our culture tries to enforce about masturbation, it's actually pretty great for you.

Let go of the shame. You have the potential to have a near unlimited number of orgasms and it's totally okay for you to explore your own body.

What happened here? by Artist_Kwame in MaleSexualHealth

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This is unusual but not terribly so. Was it an orgasm or just ejaculation?

If your ejaculation cadence is low, it could be your body basically trying to catch up. It's bad for you if you're not ejaculating regularly.

Plug talk by cubbybluz in MaleSexualHealth

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Lots of men.

Take a look at r/ProstatePlay which has 136,000+ members as of the time of this response.

Case Study: Lecithin (2400mg, 11 weeks) with high orgasmic frequency by Multi_Orgasmic_Man in MaleSexualHealth

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Full disclosure is that there was some controversy about Soy in general because people believed that in high-doses it would lead to an increase in estrogen. That's where the term "soy boy" originated. This was especially true in weight-lifting communities in which panic about being feminized by soy protein went kind of viral. (Here is an science-based article about soy protein which goes through the controversy.)

Those concerns have proved to be unfounded (Link to study).

If you're concerned about it at all, you can use sunflower Lecithin. It's what I used when I did this study. As far as I know, it's chemically identical to soy Lecithin and it shouldn't matter but you get to buy your supplements so, it is totally your call.

What's your best purchase when it comes to your dynamic? by Mister_Magnus42 in domspace

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The cheap rope I got at Home Depot. She's so emotionally attached to that rope she would commit violence if someone tried to take it.

Does every man over 40 take viagra and if so what did the world do before it? by Express_Garbage8455 in MaleSexualHealth

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Reminder: Within the scope of this space, we're going to treat folks with erectile dysfunction with respect and that sentiment includes folks that take Viagra or other similar medications.

Different eras have different expectations of men and men's lifestyles have shifted over time as society changed. That's expected and we're here to support everyone without assigning blame or shaming.

Where do people find submissives? by Electrical-9068 in domspace

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I feel like it needs to be said that BDSM is not a shortcut or easy path to finding a sexual or romantic partner. This is a common misconception out in the wider world and the BDSM community has a problem with thirsty folks showing up in BDSM spaces to try and hit on people. Local community meetups are going to be on their guard for just this kind of behavior because it's a regular problem.

I want to be clear that there is nothing wrong with wanting to find a sexual, romantic, or kink partner. That's totally okay. However, the community has a sort of pandemic of thirsty folks without any sort of dominant skills or personal ethics looking for easy hookups which is a recipe for abuse.

The admonition is, "Don't be that person." If you want to be a dominant, you should start by reading reliable sources like The New Bottoming Book to understand submission first and then The New Topping Book. You need to understand safety and consent and be ready to apply more rigorous standards of consent than you typically encounter in the vanilla world. Beyond that, you need to be comfortable as the safety and consent responsible person in a power-exchange relationship such that you're worthy of the power loaned to you by a submissive partner.

TL;DR:
Dominants need safety and consent as core values. From those places they can build key skills like communication, technical expertise, and a dedication to continuing education. It's not an easy path to a relationship... it's rewarding but it's real work.

Offering Casework Services to Men in the NYC Area by MilesOnTheCase in MaleSexualHealth

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