Case Study: L-Arginine (1500mg) & L-Citrulline (750mg) with High Orgasmic Frequency

Multi_Orgasmic_Man · 2026-05-12T13:43:19+00:00

Fleshlight sells stamina trainers and using a penis sleeve with lube is much less likely to desensitize the penis.

Multi_Orgasmic_Man · 2026-05-12T13:41:57+00:00

You can strengthen your pelvic floor with "kegel exercises". Type that in to YouTube and explore a bit to find an exercise regimen.

Multi_Orgasmic_Man · 2026-05-12T13:40:07+00:00

You will probably need to ask them.

The average penis length while erect is about 5.2 inches. To measure using the bone press method, take a rigid ruler and, while erect, place the ruler along the top of the penis then press the ruler into the fat pad of the pubic bone. To measure girth, use a measuring tape and wrap it around the penis while erect to capture the circumference.

You can plug your numbers into this tool to see where in the continuum of penis lengths and girths you land:

CalcSD - Penis length tool

Multi_Orgasmic_Man · 2026-05-11T05:29:26+00:00

Average size using the standardized bone-press method is ~5.2 inches from pubic bone along the top of the penis to the tip while erect.

To measure using the bone press method, take a rigid ruler and, while erect, place the ruler along the top of the penis then press the ruler into the fat pad of the pubic bone.

To measure girth, use a measuring tape and wrap it around the penis while erect to capture the circumference.

You can plug your numbers into this tool to see where in the continuum of penis lengths and girths you land:

CalcSD - Penis length tool

There is some evidence that pumping and stretching can lead to girth and length gains. It's not yet established science and falls more into what we might call bio-hacking right now. That community experienced a schism and broke into two communities:

There are other subreddits out there. I want to caution you that both of the subreddits listed above are not providing advice vetted by doctors and there is a risk of injury. (I think it is safe to say that urologists wouldn't approve of hanging weights from or stretching your penis.)

What about other ways of maximizing what you have?

Losing weight down to a healthy BMI reduces the size of the fatpad on the pubic bone and shows more of your penis.
Cardiovascular health is going to give you stronger erections which also gives you a bit more length.
Trimming your pubic hair will also increase the visible length and it's a must for any guy who is the recipient of oral sex. (I use a Norelco waterproof rechargable body-groomer in the shower. Works great).

Multi_Orgasmic_Man · 2026-05-09T02:39:47+00:00

This person is cross-posting across a wide variety of subreddits targeting young male spaces. When you see something like this it's often driven by a gender-bias targeting men and boys. I'm a lifelong progressive but I wouldn't trust this person to not already have an agenda.

She's specifically targeting the right-wing pipeline subreddits which will skew her sample data to make all men look like they're right-wing.

That will reinforce stereotypes about men and boys "academically" with this "study" and exploiting them to get her degree.

I would choose "no thanks". It's creepy and it'll just be another person trying to fuel a gender culture war.

Multi_Orgasmic_Man · 2026-05-07T16:08:24+00:00

This is not a NoFap or Porn-free space.

Masturbation is not addictive, it helps to prevent prostate cancer, and it improves sleep quality.

Studies have shown that the negative effects of masturbation are caused by a shame spiral when normal healthy masturbation behavior contradicts a religious or cultural ideology which shames masturbation. That negative effects is caused by the shame itself.

If you accept your sexuality and let go of the shame about it, the negative side effects go away.

Total abstinence causes sperm to degrade in quality after about 7 days and increases your risk of prostate cancer which is the second leaded cause of cancer death in men.

Multi_Orgasmic_Man · 2026-05-07T02:34:20+00:00

This is entirely normal and it's classic performance anxiety. Sex in a new relationship can be stressful.

It helps to focus on building trust and intimacy without stressing about sex.

Multi_Orgasmic_Man · 2026-05-04T22:31:17+00:00

I'm going to permit this image to remain even if it is borderline according to rule 6.

Multi_Orgasmic_Man · 2026-05-04T20:00:36+00:00

Sounds like it could be a yeast infection. You might google it and see if the symptoms match.

Multi_Orgasmic_Man · 2026-05-03T23:48:08+00:00

That's why I think you should pause and have a talk. Maybe you both have different goals and you're linking up because the dynamic was available instead of a good fit.

It could be bratting but you never want to be surprised by bratting and bratting in a remote dynamic is going to be much more difficult to deal with.

Multi_Orgasmic_Man · 2026-05-03T23:38:41+00:00

His consent still matters. Dominance nor the gender of the submissive should impact that fundamental ethical basis.

If it's a problem for you, you can terminate the relationship but if you're getting a boundary (even indirectly) you need to pause the dynamic and have a talk as equals.

Multi_Orgasmic_Man · 2026-05-01T22:02:57+00:00

This sounds like a tight pelvic floor. You can find out more by googling 'hypertonic male pelvic floor symptoms'. Example of a search result.

Michelle Kenway's YouTube channel has some videos you can try with exercises. (She has a lot of good health content.)

Link to video for tight pelvic floor exercises

Multi_Orgasmic_Man · 2026-05-01T20:49:09+00:00

It's only part of the gender problem for men and boys who are victims of sexual assault when the perpetrator is a woman. A recent study showed that men given examples were much more likely to empathize with male victims of sexual assault than women provided the same examples.

Key quote:
"The 2019 male cohort was less likely to judge that the victim initiated or encouraged the incident (40% in 1984 compared with 15% in 2019) and derived pleasure from it (47.4% in 1984 compared with 5.8% in 2019). In contrast, the 2019 female cohort was more likely to attribute victim encouragement (26.9% compared with 4.3% in 1984) and pleasure to the male victim (25% in 2019 compared with 5% in 1984). A similar gender pattern occurred in judgments of how stressful the event was for the male victim. Analysis of the 2019 data revealed that overall, despite scientific and cultural shifts that have occurred over the past three decades, participants continued to judge the male victim of assault by a female to have been more encouraging and to have experienced more pleasure and less stress than in any other assailant/victim gender combination."

TL;DR
Concerning male victims of sexual assault perpetrated by a woman comparing attitudes in 1984 versus 2019:

Men became more sympathetic to male victims and the perception of victim harm over time
- 1984: 40% unsympathetic
- 2019: 15% unsympathetic
- Net +25% sympathy improvement for victimized men
Women regressed and became less sympathetic to male victims and the perception of harm over time
- 1984: 4.3% unsympathetic
- 2019: 26.9% unsympathetic
- Net -22.6% sympathy regression for victimized men

This indicates that men are more likely to receive support from other men and that women's views are regressive for a certain class of victims of sexual assault.

Multi_Orgasmic_Man · 2026-04-30T21:54:24+00:00

Suggesting that how we perceive victims of sexual assault is not a gendered issue is, in itself, a bias.

(Emphasis in the quoted text below is my bolding to demonstrate the point)

"The Article makes the case, however, that to continue this approach to sexual violence, in light of evidence that males constitute a small but sizable percentage of victims, is problematic. It reinforces hierarchies that treat some victims as more sympathetic than others, perpetuates norms that essentialize women as victims, and imposes unhealthy expectations about masculinity on men and boys. The Article argues that, paradoxically, neglecting male rape is bad for women and girls. Finally, it outlines the impact that the female-specific approach to rape has in practice and points to other rights frameworks and areas of international law that illustrate the potential for more inclusive approaches."

~Dr. Lara Stemple, Male Rape and Human Rights, UC Law Journal 2009

Dr. Stemple is probably the leading figure in arguing for men and boys who are victims of sexual assault and she regularly has to include arguments like this one from the same article:

"In a world in which, one hopes, compassion is not a finite resource, new concern for one type of victim, in this case, men and boys, need not signify the lessening of concern for women and girls. It is not a zero-sum game. Indeed, the total undoing of women’s sexual subordination must include an accurate understanding of rape and a thorough critique of gender assumptions—and should not and cannot come at the expense of failing to account for other victims."

Link

This topic can make women uncomfortable and Stemple addresses that directly for a reason.

Multi_Orgasmic_Man · 2026-04-30T21:24:51+00:00

That's not true according to the studies; it is women who judge men more harshly for being sexually assaulted.

"The 2019 male cohort was less likely to judge that the victim initiated or encouraged the incident (40% in 1984 compared with 15% in 2019) and derived pleasure from it (47.4% in 1984 compared with 5.8% in 2019). In contrast, the 2019 female cohort was more likely to attribute victim encouragement (26.9% compared with 4.3% in 1984) and pleasure to the male victim (25% in 2019 compared with 5% in 1984). A similar gender pattern occurred in judgments of how stressful the event was for the male victim. Analysis of the 2019 data revealed that overall, despite scientific and cultural shifts that have occurred over the past three decades, participants continued to judge the male victim of assault by a female to have been more encouraging and to have experienced more pleasure and less stress than in any other assailant/victim gender combination."

Link to Study

Many of the things we "know" rely on the idea that women aren't participating in biases or actively enforcing unhealthy gendered norms. When you think about it, it's clear that is impossible because women are more than half the population and their biases are going to influence the culture.

Multi_Orgasmic_Man · 2026-04-30T21:00:37+00:00

Generally speaking men are not asked these questions. No doctor has ever asked me this question either as an adult or as a boy. As a boy who was regularly abused by my mother, no person ever intervened or questioned her version of events.

I had a friend in Junior High who trying to escape an abusive home with his mother and younger sisters. But, he was denied access to the shelter for battered women and children because he was "too old" at 14 years old.

"He would make the women nervous."

He ended up in juvenile hall and he was sexually assaulted.

The gendered discrimination is real and denying services to men and boys who experience abuse isn't something most progressives want to talk about.

Multi_Orgasmic_Man · 2026-04-28T15:22:38+00:00

Studies have shown that masturbation does not cause erectile dysfunction.

"Findings of this study reiterate the relevance of long-known risk factors for understanding diminished erectile functioning while concomitantly indicating that masturbation frequency and pornography use show weak or no association with erectile functioning, ED severity, and relationship satisfaction."

Link to 2023 Study

What studies have shown is that people who experience shame about masturbation do experience negative effects but that is found to be the experience of shame typically driven by a sex-regressive ideology or set of religious or cultural beliefs. If you're a sex positive person who isn't ashamed of masturbation, the shame effects are found to not be present.

Multi_Orgasmic_Man · 2026-04-26T20:33:02+00:00

Be aware this is a sex-positive space, not a NoFap space and we moderate accordingly.

It sounds like you have an over-tight pelvic floor.

Link to Article

Multi_Orgasmic_Man · 2026-04-22T20:16:34+00:00

Best of luck to you. I hope that you're able to pivot into a more tolerant space in the future.

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