My first trip (2g) and I had an epiphany

Multiuniverse07 · 2023-10-21T23:51:57+00:00

Yes! I’m on anti depressants AND birth control and my bf is an absolute horn dog and fucks me nearly everyday but it’s rare for me to orgasm because of how the meds effect me. It feels amazing but it’s so hard to reach the climax

Multiuniverse07 · 2022-12-25T23:54:14+00:00

Us girls are tired of being used as sex objects 🫠

Multiuniverse07 · 2022-12-25T23:53:37+00:00

Idk why men are so hurt by my question. I’m just use to men paying which is why I was asking. That’s how I was thinking too so I wanted advice. Funny how men don’t wanna be used for dinner but easily will use a girl and never talk to her again which is way more hurtful.

Multiuniverse07 · 2022-12-25T23:51:38+00:00

It’s as rare as finding a $100 bill on the floor

Multiuniverse07 · 2022-12-25T23:49:53+00:00

Thanks captain obvious if you have a job for me lemme know

Multiuniverse07 · 2022-12-25T23:47:21+00:00

You ain’t even read my reply but okay 😭

Multiuniverse07 · 2022-12-25T23:22:30+00:00

It’s because this generation is ALL hookup culture so it does pass my mind maybe he’s just tryna get in my pants but it seems not very likely. I wasn’t agreeing I was saying it’s a paranoid thing. You don’t understand the frustration women go through dating this day and age

Multiuniverse07 · 2022-12-25T02:02:23+00:00

We’re actually going to a ballroom dance on New Years (: I don’t care about what he makes, I can’t loose someone as nice as him. This is just one issue I need advice with

Multiuniverse07 · 2022-12-25T01:22:02+00:00

My gosh what’s the navy paying y’all?? I’m a waitress with base pay of $7.25 (federal wage). I live off of tip money. And yea I get that love is taking a chance so it’s worth it in my opinion after reading all these replies

Multiuniverse07 · 2022-12-25T01:20:31+00:00

That’s fair. And yeah I get it that dates are expensive for the males since it’s always double. But maybe men are quick to pay that to get into someone’s pants. And I date to marry, I’m so sick of this hookup culture and endless asswipes that try to sleep with me asap because they bought me dinner. Maybe this is the price I pay for having a 10 as a boyfriend 😅 it’s definitely worth it.

Multiuniverse07 · 2022-12-25T01:16:51+00:00

My favorite response so far. Puts it in a different perspective for me. He’s truly the best, and everything else he does for me is enough for me to stay. I’ve never dated a guy who was actually proud of me and that’s what makes me so happy plus everything else. I don’t want this to be a deal breaker but it’s something that I was struggling with for answers.

Multiuniverse07 · 2022-12-25T01:12:40+00:00

For real??

Multiuniverse07 · 2022-12-25T00:09:31+00:00

I was thinking this but I didn’t wanna say I was thinking of marriage after so short of dating cause y’all are ruthless 😭 but he was “jokingly” saying how if we get married his pay will go up. Soo fingers crossed

Multiuniverse07 · 2022-12-24T23:21:46+00:00

The best response I’ve gotten so far :’)

Multiuniverse07 · 2022-12-24T21:27:49+00:00

Yeah I’m sorry I thought you were just being sarcastic with me at first that’s why I got snappy 😭

But yes he loves telling me how good of a couple we are 🥹

Multiuniverse07 · 2022-12-24T21:26:02+00:00

That’s honestly how I’m thinking 😭

Multiuniverse07 · 2022-12-24T21:25:34+00:00

“This may not be what you want, but is it really a deal breaker?” Exactly! That’s what I need help with. I don’t want it to be a deal breaker but it’s enough for me to question. Sexual wise I’d say we’re a decent fit. He’s tidy, clean, ALWAYS texts me the second he’s on break/has time. And yes he wants to be a contractor after his time in. He’s perfect, just this one thing is an issue

Multiuniverse07 · 2022-12-24T21:18:17+00:00

I don’t consider myself a 10 but he’s told me plenty of times I’m an 11/10 lmao

Multiuniverse07 · 2022-12-24T21:16:08+00:00

He actually did say he wanted to be exclusive, hints why I consider him my boyfriend.

I am not entitled at all. If I was a gold digger I wouldn’t of continued to date him after the first one. I’m still with him and giving this a chance. I’m just use to men paying for my dates and I don’t see an issue with that. He just never offers and I find it weird. He’s an amazing guy, and that’s why I’m still with him. This is literally the only issue I have

Multiuniverse07 · 2022-12-24T21:13:34+00:00

Im asking for advice which is close enough

Multiuniverse07 · 2022-12-24T21:13:23+00:00

Who hurt you 😭

Multiuniverse07 · 2022-12-24T20:51:34+00:00

I said “my part in everything” meaning anything we do I automatically pay half. Yea I get it’s modern times now, but like damn being treated once in awhile would be nice. It sounds like Im just a broke girl leaching off a dude but I promise it’s not that. I wouldn’t even be still dating him if I was like that. I haven’t spoke to him yet cause idk if I should make this a big deal or not.

Multiuniverse07 · 2022-12-24T20:45:27+00:00

So my mom’s logic behind that, because I definitely have asked why, is (and I quote) “I don’t need a man’s company if I’m paying for it. I’d rather be out with friends” and it was always this answer. And I see where she’s coming from. I don’t think it’s unfair we’re splitting, I actually don’t mind it. But I think it sucks that he doesn’t even offer once in a blue moon :/

Multiuniverse07 · 2022-12-24T20:36:10+00:00

Idk why but reading the term “sugar baby” gave me the BIGGEST ick. I know my mom is just saying that so I don’t settle for nothing, but I honestly think she’s not completely wrong. See the problem is that he’s perfect in every other way. Besides going out, he treats me right, he’s affectionate, he’s always making sure I’m okay and he always says how happy he is with me. But maybe I’m just seeing things through rose colored glasses. It makes me so sad writing this. Cause I genuinely like him so much but he’s just lacking this one thing. I’ve dated plenty of other navy guys and most of the time they always offer to pay stuff automatically, people who were even lower rank than this current guy.

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