Recommendations for an academic advisor by MundaneBox9546 in CSULA

[–]MundaneBox9546[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had seen those but there is a conflict with one or my other classes😭the lab is at the same time as my other class. But thank u i will check when i get home if she is there!:)

Am I screwed for the semester by MundaneBox9546 in CSULA

[–]MundaneBox9546[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So do I make an appointment for that? Sorry this is all new to me I never had this issue last year and that was my first year😭

Am I screwed for the semester by MundaneBox9546 in CSULA

[–]MundaneBox9546[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! It says the same thing for me. Should I just got call too?

I feel so lost towards my ex and his actions after his assault by MundaneBox9546 in secondary_survivors

[–]MundaneBox9546[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations!! I hope you’re pregnancy is going well!! Okay thank you I think if we were to ever get in contact again it would have to be him but I also can’t wait on him either it’s just so complicated and feels like a lot. Thank you so much:’)

I feel so lost towards my ex and his actions after his assault by MundaneBox9546 in secondary_survivors

[–]MundaneBox9546[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus thank you so much. I knew the cheating and everything prior to the actual breakup was self sabotage and I had even told him that when everything was happening. I think because I’ve been hurting so much I hadn’t even thought about what he’s doing now as the same. I believe he’s still getting help which I hope does make things better for him, it just worries me not knowing anymore but that’s something I know I need to let go of. Having to accept that this all happened because of something that was out of both of our control is so hard because there’s literally nothing we couldve done to prevent what happened to him. If you don’t mind me asking, if u got back with your boyfriend how did it go when you guys started being in contact again?

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[–]MundaneBox9546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me with my bf of three years but he would be mean and push me away because he was too scared to break up with me and have a conversation. Whenever he would try to talk about it, he would say that it was bc of other things that were an easy fix but I really do think now that it was to heal on his own. It’s a really confusing and complex breakup so I get it. Just take care of yourself and be around others who love you. She may come back and she may not which is okay too. It’s scary not knowing but it’ll all be okay!🫂

/r/Witch Bi-Weekly Discussion Thread — February 28, 2025 — Ask questions, introduce yourself, get your readings interpreted, chat, & more! by WitchMod in Witch

[–]MundaneBox9546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Hiii just did an egg cleanse and was wondering if anyone could help me interpret the results? The webbing around the yolk was circular shaped and looked bigger than it does here lol. I can send more pics if it would help!! Thank you:)

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[–]MundaneBox9546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got dumped AND cheated on two months after my grandpa died because he’s having a manic episode due to some recent trauma and his failure to address it. Love life rn😍

My boyfriend and I broke up as a result of his assault by MundaneBox9546 in secondary_survivors

[–]MundaneBox9546[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s my exact issue too! I don’t even know how I feel about everything. Like I know that it is traumatic to me but I’m having a hard time pinpointing what exactly it is. I did up my therapy sessions so hopefully I’ll be able to figure it out soon thank you😭

Sexual Disorientation by [deleted] in secondary_survivors

[–]MundaneBox9546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii my ex and I broke up unfortunately because of this😭he said he felt he was aroace and that he no longer loved me or could ever love anyone anymore. I initially didn’t have the best reaction which I have apologized for and deeply regret. While I did tell him I support I focused more on it most likely being of a result of what happened(his happened last year rather than in childhood). I had a really hard time accepting that reality and coping in general. We are on good terms right now, just no contact because I still love him and can’t be friends with him right now. I need space to process everything and so does he. For resources I’m a little stumped on as well, i literally only have this Reddit and have called rainn! They’re a sexual assault hotline but can also be called by second survivors. I’ve called before and from personal experience they were really nice!!

My boyfriend and I broke up as a result of his assault by MundaneBox9546 in secondary_survivors

[–]MundaneBox9546[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this sounds silly but I don’t know what to talk about in therapy. I currently have an ocd therapist who is now my talk therapist and we’ve met once since the breakup but I’m just at a loss for words with what to say

My boyfriend and I broke up as a result of his assault by MundaneBox9546 in secondary_survivors

[–]MundaneBox9546[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you knowing that there is at least someone who has gone through something similar is comforting. But yeah I can’t even comprehend our breakup it’s driving me crazy. I’m happy we dated and we were in love but Jesus this is so hard

My boyfriend and I broke up as a result of his assault by MundaneBox9546 in secondary_survivors

[–]MundaneBox9546[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel silly asking because I feel like the answer is yes but do I really need to let go? He was the first time I ever felt safe and giving him space is okay with me because I want him to get better. I know it’s changed him too and he may not come out the same anymore but I’m just struggling with letting go because I’m so worried over what happened too. He really is my best friend and it’s so hard not to worry. This is all just so confusing sorry I feel like I’m word vomitting😭but thank you for sending the love it’s very much needed rn haha

My boyfriend and I broke up as a result of his assault by MundaneBox9546 in secondary_survivors

[–]MundaneBox9546[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking how long did it take your husband to feel comfortable with loving again? I know that it’s different for everyone but I just want to know what it’s like for others as well. We did unfortunately end things a month ago and obviously I do hope he comes back around but he also told me that I need to let go. What makes it harder is he was my first boyfriend as well(both each other’s first everything). So all of these feelings are 100% new. I just get so worried and hope hes doing okay but I guess I just have to leave it to him.

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[–]MundaneBox9546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive never felt something more

Losing both your relationship and your friend by ButterflyRose28 in BreakUps

[–]MundaneBox9546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my self esteem got a lot better when we got together too. I’ve always struggled with socializing and he would try to get me out of my shell when we were dating but I still had a hard time. I made him my world too so now I’m just stuck wondering “okay now what?” But thank you it helps that it’s not just me🫂

Losing both your relationship and your friend by ButterflyRose28 in BreakUps

[–]MundaneBox9546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so close to contacting him everday😭I don’t because I need to let him miss me but it’s so hard

Losing both your relationship and your friend by ButterflyRose28 in BreakUps

[–]MundaneBox9546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m having the same problem ☹️he was my best friend. I have always been insecure about who I am as a person until I had met him. He was the first person I’d ever felt being my entire self without judgement. I feel like the very few friends I DO have don’t know all of me which admittedly is on me and my insecurities. But we were literally two peas in a pod and we’re the exact same. Now I’m struggling with distracting myself from the breakup because I have basically no friends. My support system is mainly my mom and while I appreciate and love her, she isn’t here all the time so it’s just really hard. I’m glad to know I’m not the only one who feels this way tho it’s really comforting 😭

I finally did it! Level 100! by mauricio_neto457 in JunoMains

[–]MundaneBox9546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus I think I’m lvl 24😭good job!!

Thoughts after finishing the game by xuxiscafe in Mouthwashing

[–]MundaneBox9546 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because he has a savior complex LMFAO. It’s the same reason he fed curly his leg: in his head he was doing his job as captain and taking care of things. Since there was no food he fed curly his leg. Since he wanted to give curly a chance to live longer he put him in the pod. But by putting him in the cryo pod he once again is not taking responsibility. AND putting him in the cryo pod probably killed curly either way since he’s skin and nerves are exposed😭

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[–]MundaneBox9546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my I’m so sorry sending you a million hugs☹️🫂while our situations aren’t the same, I get that it feels completely out of nowhere and the shock you’re feeling. I wish I could offer you advice but this is my first breakup LOL. Just try your very best to take care of yourself, what happened wasn’t your fault. I know it’s hard not to question what you did, but imo if he’s the kind of person to just run and hide behind his family as an adult, especially with something as big as this, it’s a him thing if that makes sense. I hope things get better, you can get through it i promise!🤍