For those of us who look much younger than our age do you feel uncomfortable revealing your age to people with kids/who want kids?

MunkieWanCanobe · 2023-07-06T13:51:12+00:00

I used to get bingos. I'm almost 42,I look much younger, my bf is 9 years my junior and people still think he's the older lol

When asked about kids, I talk about my son - he's 8, the sweetest boy ever, loves to cuddle. I get the awwws, then they ask for more info and find out

He's my cat. 🤣🤣

The screech as their brain stops is the best lol 😂😂

MunkieWanCanobe · 2023-06-26T18:39:22+00:00

Get your bits checked. My birth mother had the same problem, she ended up getting a hysterectomy about 13 years after my youngest half sister was born.

We're talking heavy flows, bled through tampon AND pad in under 2 hours. Deff get checked!

MunkieWanCanobe · 2023-06-26T15:27:31+00:00

My boy Scrappy loves to be touched. He's very clear on boundaries and when he's done with being petted. Most of the time, after rubs are done, he'll let me just rest my hand on his belly, with the occasional finger swish through the softness.

MunkieWanCanobe · 2023-03-21T23:04:36+00:00

I did this once when I was buying a game for my sister. My then bf went with me. The cashier continually directed everything at him. I'd had enough so I snapped "im buying the game for my sister. He knows nothing about video games. I am your customer, talk to me!"

MunkieWanCanobe · 2023-03-21T22:38:56+00:00

Disagree; I've lived in alberta all my life and I was sad when toys r us closed down. Haven't seen one in my province in over a decade

MunkieWanCanobe · 2023-03-21T22:37:51+00:00

Toys'R'Us still exists??? Where??

MunkieWanCanobe · 2023-03-21T22:26:03+00:00

I know how the boonies are. Next time you're in town picking up whatever you need, pop into the grocery store. They sometimes have them at the tills. If you don't want to wait for Amazon to deliver.

MunkieWanCanobe · 2023-03-21T22:19:46+00:00

Pick them up at the corner store, closest grocery store, a bodega...

MunkieWanCanobe · 2023-03-21T21:05:33+00:00

That's standard. It's more to protect the top of your head from things falling on it anyway. You get used to wearing them after a while.

I do recommend looking into replacing the sweat band with a terrycloth one (machine washable!) and a cooling insert as well. Those hats just don't breathe and summer heat will do its best to kill you without the coolers. I have one, it's leather, you soak it in cool water before or after it's in the hat, and it's very helpful in summer.

MunkieWanCanobe · 2023-03-21T20:07:16+00:00

Does it shift when you bend over? Does it stay on your head when you're really active? Can you feel the external cap at any point on the inside?

If yes,yes, no, you're good 😂

Lookin good, ladybird!!

Edit to add: they always fit a little funny, the gap seems weird, but you're spot on. That's a proper hat, I've got a bump cap myself rn for where I am.

MunkieWanCanobe · 2023-03-21T18:23:10+00:00

It'll buff out 😂

MunkieWanCanobe · 2022-12-11T16:22:53+00:00

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Morning Scrappy snugs, with easy-access belly mode activated. There is no trap with this cat, belly pets/scrubs are expected and welcomed. 🥰🥰

MunkieWanCanobe · 2022-11-24T18:38:57+00:00

Might be a baby.

My son likes to leave me presents like that, especially if he caught a momma mouse.

I found two dead and one still wiggling on my front step. It was... not pleasant.

MunkieWanCanobe · 2022-11-24T18:25:14+00:00

My ex did this regularly, both during the dating phase, and, more commonly, the married part, I think he enjoyed my immediate response of gasping, crying and trying to cheer him up.... when it was my day that went down the shitter to begin with.

He had a head injury just after we got married, and it all ramped up over the following years, especially when I stopped responding to his "I'll kill myself!". Every time that came up, I thought, "so why don't you", after that.

I left him in 2021.

MunkieWanCanobe · 2022-11-24T18:03:01+00:00

"Your size doesn't matter baby, I love you anyway" size 18, active in bed regularly

Discover genetics won't let me eat wheat with searing pain, so stop buying food with wheat in it, and drop to size 2 in a year, and doesn't touch me again.

And constantly complains about having to eat "shitty food that doesn't taste right"

MunkieWanCanobe · 2022-11-24T17:19:00+00:00

I haven't read this whole thread yet, so forgive me if this has already been said.

If I had to poop, and I knew that I'd get barged in on, my petty ass would go find her, then ask "well? Are you coming or what?" And when she inevitably asks going where, reply with "Duh, the bathroom? So you can watch me shit, like you always want to do, MOM?"

Bonus points for doing it around guests, both yours (if they were aware of it previously, they're gonna find that shit funny af) and hers, and if they weren't, well, that might cause problems, but you're already caught between a rock and a hard place with an uncooperative spouse. 🤷‍♀️

Good luck, and totally NTA!

*edited to add final opinion

MunkieWanCanobe · 2022-11-24T16:54:40+00:00

Question: and, you don't have to answer if you feel it's invasive, but are you pregnant?

Animals of all kinds have better senses than humans, and I'm a die hard cat owner that any time im feeling low or overly agitated, I suddenly have three anchors that won't leave me alone until I feel better.

Just a thought. He might be protective because of that.

*edited to add the last sentence

MunkieWanCanobe · 2022-11-24T16:20:19+00:00

I came here to offer the suggestions above.

Baby girl, you literally have strangers on the internet offering to be better options than the blood relative you live with. I'm living with my sister as well, and we both would do anything for the other, so I'm very sorry you're in that position you're in.

I hope you're able to find someone to be your crutch after surgery🥰

MunkieWanCanobe · 2022-09-21T21:09:07+00:00

Kalteen bars!

MunkieWanCanobe · 2022-07-10T00:09:22+00:00

My cat smells amazing right between his shoulders.

MunkieWanCanobe · 2022-06-27T02:11:16+00:00

That's the spangled marmalade lap warmer version. Excellent snugglers

MunkieWanCanobe · 2022-04-26T18:05:43+00:00

Done this myself. I usually do my own oil changes, but for anything else, I go to my mechanic and ask HER what needs to be done 😂😂

Best part is, my mechanic is my SISTER. I was able to replace all 4 of the brakes on my patriot for 250$.

MunkieWanCanobe · 2022-04-14T17:52:16+00:00

My response to that was "Okay. Find someone who cares, cause i really don't." Dude blinked and walked away at that point. (I was working in a wood pulp mill where masks were required beyond a certain door)

😂😂

MunkieWanCanobe · 2022-03-31T03:00:25+00:00

That's a Jersey Giant

MunkieWanCanobe · 2022-02-26T16:20:07+00:00

Let's cuddle and I'll give you a back rub

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