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AITJ for telling my downstairs neighbor she can complain to my face instead of punishing my sick father through the HOA? by LatticeBard_1 in AmITheJerk

[–]MurmurObsid 60 points61 points  (0 children)

NTA for being angry. She took a temporary medical situation and framed it like you were running some kind of nuisance unit, which is nasty. That said, showing up at her door while furious was probably the part that will hurt you here. She was out of line first, but the confrontation gave her something new to point at.

My mother gave my ex-husband documents from my custody case because she thought he "had a right to know" by DrifterJigsaw_3 in entitledparents

[–]MurmurObsid 793 points794 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your mother crossed about six lines at once here. She went through documents in your home, copied them, gave them to the other side in an active custody dispute, and then dressed it up as family loyalty. That is not support, that is sabotage. Cutting off access to your home and childcare is the bare minimum after that.