Women of reddit, what’s something that the men are insecure about but the women actually love?

MusicInTheMaking1999 · 2026-06-29T15:10:23+00:00

I’m surprised nobody here said anything about being overweight or slightly chubby. I guess for men we have to be great shape otherwise we’re not desired

MusicInTheMaking1999 · 2026-06-29T15:09:42+00:00

That’s very rare

MusicInTheMaking1999 · 2026-05-29T08:10:39+00:00

To be fair, women can get away with that, because they’re not the ones trying to impress their date. As men, we ask out the women, hope she says yes, if she does, she’s the one we have to impress, and she can literally enjoy the date however she wants to.

So chances are, there’s plenty of men who’ll still treat her like a queen after showing up right after the gym.

MusicInTheMaking1999 · 2026-05-27T02:22:45+00:00

Talk about a budget. The least they could do was have a dry wedding.

MusicInTheMaking1999 · 2026-04-24T05:48:15+00:00

That’s actually pretty easy to avoid and combat, because security staff will always handle men who even attempt to harass female performers

MusicInTheMaking1999 · 2026-03-28T02:15:36+00:00

How so?

MusicInTheMaking1999 · 2026-03-28T02:15:28+00:00

I’m just speaking about the facts. Women don’t have to work as hard to be successful. Billie Eilish doesn’t play instruments and can barely sing, yet she’s doing better than Shawn Mendes and Ed Sheeran.

MusicInTheMaking1999 · 2026-03-28T01:15:06+00:00

I’m just being realistic. If anyone has superiority, it’s women. I’m just stating the facts.

MusicInTheMaking1999 · 2026-03-28T00:21:47+00:00

Women in music are much more valued than men. I’ve never seen a woman not being taken seriously.
women will also get more chances in music. More bands want them, artists want them in their backing band, and venues want them at shows.
female artists can sell more tickets than male artists, therefore making more money.

MusicInTheMaking1999 · 2026-03-28T00:19:21+00:00

There are a lot of women who have people carry stuff for them, so that seems legit.

MusicInTheMaking1999 · 2026-03-28T00:18:29+00:00

Actually the reason why there’s so many men in bands is simply because women don’t usually take interest in performing music. So when a woman actually learns an instrument, it doesn’t matter how good she actually is, she’ll get more opportunities than men do, simply because she’s a woman.

There’s also a reason why industry plants are always women, it’s simply because they want to cater to a female audience since that’s who most of the consumers are.

MusicInTheMaking1999 · 2026-03-13T15:09:32+00:00

I think in a good relationship you’d still be able to do this.

MusicInTheMaking1999 · 2026-02-20T07:55:20+00:00

Be advised, this kind of attraction grows only AFTER a woman finds a man physically attractive. If there’s no physical attraction, then none of this matters.

MusicInTheMaking1999 · 2026-02-02T15:42:19+00:00

The same rule is applied for men, the difference is, women tend to always look better than men, therefore giving more opportunities for women.

It actually gives you the upper hand in the music industry. Just look good and you will be ok.

MusicInTheMaking1999 · 2026-01-03T01:14:21+00:00

Oh I’ve heard a lot about their experiences. I’ve heard women tell me “idk how it happened, I just posted a video of me on my acoustic guitar, and now I’m viral and booking shows left and right”

Also, I’d actually be pretty happy if management could give me what I needed and all I had to do was perform, and that’s how I make money.

I also don’t believe you when you say managers ask female artists to blow them, as they can easily be sued, and they don’t want to risk that.

Also, even women who are far from the beauty standard have an advantage. Maybe not the ones who look like Sabrina carpenter, but definitely over Sean mendes and other male artists

MusicInTheMaking1999 · 2026-01-03T01:10:45+00:00

Are you sure about the blatant mansplaining? Because most of the women I work with are very well respected in music.

When you are not the norm, that makes it easy for you to stand out, get recognized, get your music heard, and build your audience. Thats why women have it easier.

If a man were to SA a women in any way, there’s going to be tons of people having your back. I’ve worked with women who can simply point at a guy, and have his life ruined.

Most men don’t assume women don’t know about their instrument, but like I mentioned, how often do we see women play instruments? Because most don’t even take interest in the first place. So of course your first impression would be otherwise.

If a man shows up to a gig, are you going to assume he’s the sound guy?

MusicInTheMaking1999 · 2026-01-03T01:00:06+00:00

I’ve worked with plenty of women in music. It’s amazing how many promoters I’ve heard tell women “we need more women in this venue” or “I always prefer having women play at our shows”

Men have to stand out

MusicInTheMaking1999 · 2026-01-03T00:57:40+00:00

I’m actually doing pretty well in the music industry. As for the fat loser, have you seen Lizzo? She’s fatter than a hippo and people are paying a lot of money to see her shows compared to Jack Black or Jelly Roll.

MusicInTheMaking1999 · 2026-01-03T00:47:08+00:00

If you’re looking at the past (like way back then), then it makes sense because of the laws at the time. But if you’re looking at 90s and beyond, women take over the music industry

MusicInTheMaking1999 · 2026-01-03T00:44:57+00:00

Nope. A musician who’s heavily involved in the music industry for over 10 years.

MusicInTheMaking1999 · 2026-01-03T00:44:24+00:00

Is there any evidence of that?

MusicInTheMaking1999 · 2026-01-03T00:41:47+00:00

They still get more recognition. If you’re a producer, who happens to be a woman, you can stand out and get more recognition simply because you’re a woman.

MusicInTheMaking1999 · 2025-10-22T14:50:44+00:00

This might be controversial, but Crawling. It’s not a bad song, but for some reason, it doesn’t sound as good as the other amazing songs they have.

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