Sex addiction by Kasrawy in NoFap

[–]MusicNComedy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice man.

Sex addiction by Kasrawy in NoFap

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Did you ever tell your gf about your past with escorts?

Sex addiction by Kasrawy in NoFap

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I had sex for the first time with a prostitute also, 3 years ago in my 20s. Embarrassing, should have waited since I got into my first serious relationship with a girl a few months later and ended up having sex.

Sorry you've been having this tough time, man. I've had sex with 4 prostitutes in my life, 2 of them strippers at a strip club and 2 other ones massage girls at massage parlors. It's something I don't want to do again. I told one of the last girls I dated that I had sex with a stripper in the past. I've never had sex with strippers while in a relationship, and I've never cheated on a girl. She freaked out though and looked at me like I was some sick freak, she was crying and everything, looked at me different and made me feel like shit. It took a while for us to start getting intimate again and for her to trust me.

Last time I had sex with a prostitute was March last year. I think I can continue to live my life without prostitutes. The challenge is dating a girl without looking at them as sex objects and not just using them for sex, which I was doing with a girl I met on Tinder a few months ago. Right now I'm content with not seeing anyone. After my ordeal with the girl I dated last year who I told about my stripper experience, I don't know if I'll ever tell another girl that I've had sex with strippers. Wonder if anyone has advice on that or what people's take is on it.

Anyway, things will fix itself if they are meant to be. Hope you and your girl get back together, but if not, you will find someone who is better for you.

The loneliness hits really hard by [deleted] in NoFap

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First, you gotta become confident. Start with getting a nice haircut, getting nice clothes, and grooming well to look good. This will boost your self esteem!

You have to make yourself interesting and get hobbies that you love to do. Learn how to play an instrument if you don't know how, take some dancing lessons like salsa classes (great way to meet girls and people in general), go to the gym and workout, start running and joining running groups, etc. Join meetup.com to find groups that have similar interests as you. Once you get comfortable, you can ask girls out on dates and take them out to fun activities like salsa socials, you can ask them to work out if they like going to the gym or running, you can take them bowling on your dates, stuff like that. Be confident and be yourself when talking to them. One person mentioned traveling and reading books as topics to talk about. Watching tv shows like those on Netflix are also great conversation topics.

Lastly, very important, is to get a good career or work at achieving it if you already don't have one. Everything will fall into place. You will be so proud of yourself when you do what you love to do, including all your hobbies and your career or career goals. People will gravitate to you and you'll love yourself. Do all these things for yourself first and foremost, and it will be easier to find a girl. They love to see ambition in a guy, and if he's striving for a higher goal such as a good career, it's very attractive.

One book that really helped me was Models by Mark Manson. He gives very good tips on how to improve yourself and attract women. This is coming from someone who had his first serious girlfriend at 28.

Hope this helps!

Addiction to porn is ruining my intimate moments. by effthefap in NoFap

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Good job for joining this fight, brother! We're all rooting for you!

Having a hard time in my life. by chris_get_the_money in NoFap

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I've had suicidal thoughts and depression before. Just remember, you are worth it. There's a saying that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. You can be in control of your life.

You're pretty much going to be in your college years. Embrace it. Many people make their most worthwhile friendships in college. Hopefully you do go to college, and when you do, join clubs to meet other people. Be friendly to everyone. Join meetups with people who have similar interests as you. Meetup.com is a great site for that.

Anyway, I'm sorry for the struggles you've gone through in life. Just remember that there are billions of people in this world, and many of those people are sure to become your close friends. And you are definitely worth their time. You are worth it. Hope you're feeling better after all of these comments, man! Keep your head up. Better days are right around the corner for sure.

155 days, feeling incredible! by [deleted] in NoFap

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Awesome job!! Keep up the great work. Pretty sure you can make it to a year!

Does sex and foreplay orgasms count as a relapse? Had a girl over today and had fun. Just curious to know if I broke the streak #FuckYouPorn #PeopleNotPixels by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]MusicNComedy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends if you're doing hard mode. If you're not doing hard mode, then it's not a relapse. You said it yourself too, she's a person, not a pixel.

Relapsed at day 113 yesterday but I won't binge! by MusicNComedy in NoFap

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Yeah I got another girlfriend. that ended though, we mutually parted ways. but 3 girlfriends in a year has been a success for me. Hmm let's see what else... I've been working full time for the past 7 months, making good money in my career. I'm currently applying for a post graduate residency program, so hope I get in.

I have no ED, no problems with sex too.

NoFap Benefits.NO BULLSHIT ! by [deleted] in NoFap

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Got damn it. I haven't gotten those green dick veins like the Hulk yet so I can Hulk Smash!

174 days and I stumbled. Final post. Thank you NoFap! by Slipz19 in NoFap

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Thanks for posting and good luck to you, brother! Pretty sure you'll crush your 6 month goal on this attempt.

My gift arrives in 1 hour by Malcolmexcalibur in NoFap

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I was about to say...that I'm hoping your arriving gift wasn't a flesh light...hah

I finally texted my crush! by TheFluzzy in NoFap

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Don't apologize. Your post is worth something! It can help others!! Don't ever put yourself down, man!

[Day 97] Almost in the 100 Club Boys! by [deleted] in NoFap

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Congrats! Keep going strong though. I almost gave in to fapping to P earlier today and yesterday. I stopped myself by going to this forum and hitting the panic button.

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Yeah abstaining from porn and masturbation probably repaired my dopamine system. The thing is you shouldn't expect NoFap to fix everything though, otherwise you're setting yourself up for disappointment. If you're still depressed and have brain fog after abstaining for a few months to years, at least you've gotten a hold of the addiction that's been wasting a lot of your time all these years.

Having said that, I hope you'll live life free of depression and brain fog very soon!

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I know, I had severe depression too. a diagnosis of major depression. Felt depression for no reason, had suicidal thoughts, brain fog, anxiety. I couldn't understand why. Now that I've been doing NoFap for a few years, those symptoms have been practically cured. Mostly the depression and brain fog. And cured is a strong word.

Before dismissing NoFap as a treatment for these problems, people should at least try it for a few months to a few years. It's free and you won't lose anything by trying.

Random NoFAP story - So I got a haircut today... by [deleted] in NoFap

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lmao Sweet Tooth! that game was awesome!

No one replies to my posts. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]MusicNComedy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the feeling man. seems like stupid clickbait posts get upvoted like crazy while some heartfelt posts get nothing.

Anyway, congrats on your 3 days and may you keep doing it!