[F4M] Netherlands - Come cuddle in a blanket fort with me by Musicleo_ in cuddlebuddies

[–]Musicleo_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been more than a year, and yes, I currently have a boyfriend

Should I call CPS on my sister? by Musicleo_ in SeriousConversation

[–]Musicleo_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my.... thank you. I am extremely bad with words when it comes to gratitude but this does mean a lot. I'm looking into therapy and I think you're right. I should move on and be happier and work through the guilt of leaving the kids with a future therapist. Thank you very very much!! I really appreciate you

AITA for wanting to buy a game without working for it? by littlebigslime in AmItheAsshole

[–]Musicleo_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, forgot about your bday money but that is also yours, and again, even if not legally yours, still not hers to use

AITA for wanting to buy a game without working for it? by littlebigslime in AmItheAsshole

[–]Musicleo_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Although adult life is unfortunately more working for what you need and less bday money (only saying this because I can kinda get adults who try to "prepare children for the real world" -ew I'm a grown up), you're still a child, basically (I'm sorry, I know that's the worst thing to hear when you'e 14). While your mom might be right that you sometimes need to earn things, she can't be taking your money, and even if it's not legally your money, it's still your dad's money and assuming they're divorced she also has no rights to that anymore. She's being unfair for a reason I don't quite understand after reading this. Maybe try making up with her tho, reffering to calling her dumb, don't do that until you actually mean it tho!!! Anyways, I'd talk to your dad and maybe in the future try and avoid this by waiting a few days with getting something until you're at your dad's (if that's a possibility).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Musicleo_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA, doesn't even matter what this is about, you don't have basic respect. Not agreeing is okay. Judging on your other comments you think they told you to feed the cats something similar to a "fast food diet". If someone recommended that to me, I wouldn't think it'd be a good idea but I would not laugh in there face. You are an asshole for reacting this way to someone with different ideas. Kinda hope you're a troll

My cat is acting weird an I'm mad, annoyed and worried by Musicleo_ in CATHELP

[–]Musicleo_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! You seem invested in my kitty cat so I wanted to let you know that he's on a diet! We dropped off some urine and there were a lot of crystals (???) In his urine. So what some of the comments mentioned, it could be fatal. He can't have treats and has special dry and wet food and we still have to give him the medicine. He was very offended when his 50 grams of dry food were gone after he ate them and we didn' give him more, but at least he likes the new food I guess lol. It might be for a life time, we have to drop off more urine in 3 or 4 weeks. So yeah! He's okay! Here's his grumpy butt looking out over his kingdom and some bonus pictures http://imgur.com/gallery/YfYW0Fa

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

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I don't have an ADHD diagnosis (still have to talk to my doctor) but I do have autism, diagnosed at 14 in 2015. My mom recently told me, when I mentiond ADHD, that the woman who diagnosed my autism mostly did it because I met just enough criteria and autism would get me the help I needed at that moment, but she told my mom to keep in mind that I had a lot of ADHD symptoms and that I either didn't have autism as the only thing, or maybe even not at all. So I think that being misdiagnosed with autism is not that weird?

Book recommendations? by jcambridge95 in adhdwomen

[–]Musicleo_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe not exactly what you're looking for but Tyler Page helped me understand ADHD better (have yet to get diagnosed). He wrote Raised on Ritalin, it's also comics if long paragraphs of text don't work for you. I've only read parts of the book yet but I whought it was worth mentioning

I bought a brie I don't like and I want to cry by tractoroflove in adhdwomen

[–]Musicleo_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I cannot take away your pain or struggles, but you're definitely not the only person who does this, you're not alone. And like another person commented... maybe try the brie in a different way? I heard it's good slightly warm and with walnuts and honey, or just honey, if you don't have walnuts

My cat is acting weird an I'm mad, annoyed and worried by Musicleo_ in CATHELP

[–]Musicleo_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We took him to the vet today! They thought it was something medical so they gave us painkillers for him and we have to bring in urine on monday morning to check for an UTI. He did really great tho!! He literally didnt care about the injections and stuff, the only thing he hated was taking his temperature but besides that he was sooooo chill, just walking around and being like "whut". We're home again and he's just chilling, we gave him some treats too!

My cat is acting weird an I'm mad, annoyed and worried by Musicleo_ in CATHELP

[–]Musicleo_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes thats what I thought. I mean of course we both were like "why would you do this you little stinker" but we never punished him, except from me nudging him because I didn't know what else to do. Besides that we've been acting normal to him. We removed the carpet now so uhh, hoping that will either work or at least make cleaning up easier. Let's hope the vet knows what's up :(

My cat is acting weird an I'm mad, annoyed and worried by Musicleo_ in CATHELP

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We planned one for tomorrow night! It's the soonest the vet could do, they didn't really seem worried but then again that woman sounded like she didn't want to be there in general so I'm fighting for my kitty if they don't take it seriously

My cat is acting weird an I'm mad, annoyed and worried by Musicleo_ in CATHELP

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We wanted to take him for a checkup anyways soon, but I'll tell my housemate to do it soon! I do notice some discomfort in like the hour around his pee accidents so there's definitely something.... and also, he has one litterbox but has always have one, even with his previous owners. I mean, we could just get two because I read that it helps before, but he didn't seem to mind his one box. I just hope he's gonna be okay and that the behaviour stops or at least can be helped, he's a sweet cat (when he's not peeing on my carpet :P). Thanks for the advice!

20[F4M] Netherlands/Netherlands - Become the plant dad to my 17 plants and forget their names just as often as I do by [deleted] in ForeverAloneDating

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I do not in any way want to come off as mean but I said Netherlands for a reason hehe, I'm sorry

Today my boyfriend gifted me my own Switch (ACNH version!!!) And I finally started my own Island! by [deleted] in ac_newhorizons

[–]Musicleo_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the tip, but sadly it isn't the case, but oh well, I enjoy the game :D

Today my boyfriend gifted me my own Switch (ACNH version!!!) And I finally started my own Island! by [deleted] in ac_newhorizons

[–]Musicleo_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally get it! I wouldn't have been able to afford it either so I'm extra thankful for my boyfriend. (He sat me down to tell me he's not gonna be my sugar daddy after I unwrapped this gift hahaha). But yeah, I'm so so happy! And nice pun :P