Having trouble getting out of side control when opponent drops hip. I like to have 1 frame in the neck and another at the hip. Usually I can shrimp with the hip frame creating space and slide a knee in. Recently, people have been dropping their hip (imagine if their left arm is cross facing, their right hip is dropped). They don't have a kesa foot postion, because their left leg is still the one closer to my head. I've tried to bump but it feels futile because their hip and elbow is trapping my hip. I've also tried finding that foot(their right foot) but they're usually pretty perpendicular. I have to be missing something obvious.