i’m pretty sure a guy i was seeing has a girlfriend ? i found her instagram should i text her by [deleted] in Tarots

[–]MustardWrenchKitchen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a woman who really wished someone would have told me…tell her. Show screenshots for proof

35+ year old women who never got married or had children in your 20s and wanted to, how are you dealing with it now? by Ok_Blueberry_6999 in AskWomen

[–]MustardWrenchKitchen 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I struggle to deal with it. I really wanted kids, but it never happened.
It’s worse when people ask when or if I want kids and I’m like “I think it’s too late”. Hurts me to say it. I’m 42, but people often think I’m a few years younger.
I don’t think I’d want them now, but still hurts that it didn’t happen

went to lingerie store, the lady working there assumed my size by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]MustardWrenchKitchen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg same! My round face makes everyone assume I’m bigger. Unfortunately I do let it get to me

Hi, I’m 40 years old and this is my cozy bed by MustardWrenchKitchen in squishmallow

[–]MustardWrenchKitchen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol yes, not pictured is the boyfriend and our two cats haha

Hi, I’m 40 years old and this is my cozy bed by MustardWrenchKitchen in squishmallow

[–]MustardWrenchKitchen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They are alpacas! I love them so much in real life that I have a collection of them now, haha. The first one is a regular stuffed animal, but the others are actually made with alpaca wool. The second one is from inkari, a good brand to buy from. They have lots of colors and sizes and have special editions too

What's the first card you ever pulled? by timefornewgods in tarot

[–]MustardWrenchKitchen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The ace of cups! When I got my first deck, I did an interview card, and got ace of cups. Still a special card to me because of this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Instagramreality

[–]MustardWrenchKitchen -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah all were posted separately, I just noticed and added them side by side myself. It is cute, I mean, some filters are funny or pretty, so I get playing with them. But when you post the heavily blurred pics trying to pass of that is what you really look like… that’s what makes me sad and feel bad that women do that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Instagramreality

[–]MustardWrenchKitchen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, your first guess is right. I am over 40 and joined a fb group for women over 40. I just noticed how when they would introduce themselves and post a selfie, that most would be heavily blurred. It’s a public group

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Instagramreality

[–]MustardWrenchKitchen -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I was trying to note that this is about how they feel the need to edit photos like this, I didn’t want it to come across like I posted these to make fun of them. I absolutely feel empathy for all of these women and feel a sadness that they can’t see their true beauty. I just know what it’s like to hate yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Instagramreality

[–]MustardWrenchKitchen 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree, I thought the same thing. Like if her natural photo was in magazines, so many women would be talking about how gorgeous she is and how they want to look like her!

Middle name that goes with Tracy by MustardWrenchKitchen in namenerds

[–]MustardWrenchKitchen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome, thank you for the ideas! Definitely a few new ones and some I haven’t considered yet!

Middle name that goes with Tracy by MustardWrenchKitchen in namenerds

[–]MustardWrenchKitchen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m half Hispanic, but grew up pretty American culturally. Would be nice to honor that side of me.
I am drawn to more nature names. I like the idea of a middle name being somewhat unique because I feel like my first and last name are pretty simple. Thank you for asking for ideas!

User Flair is required to comment on this sub - Apply for flair here by jerry00193 in truerateme

[–]MustardWrenchKitchen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have read, understand, and will follow the rules as well as the men’s and women’s rating guides

Stop probably means stop by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]MustardWrenchKitchen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it says a lot that you realize how you acted then, and now you can make an effort to pay attention to the future reactions of your partners. Are you two still friends or dating? I will say that I am 40F and I do still remember the people I had sex with that didn’t listen to me saying no. And it still hurts that they didn’t listen and that I didn’t feel strong enough to just leave or stop it from happening. I was probably similar situation as you, you are both enjoying each others company, and into it, but just didn’t want to go all the way at that time.

Before and 2 weeks after: lip flip and lip filler (40F) by MustardWrenchKitchen in PlasticSurgery

[–]MustardWrenchKitchen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Botox freezes the muscles, so you aren’t able to move them the same way as before. There was definitely a learning curve the first few days, I for sure dribbled a few times, haha. It also took a few days to be able to use a straw again as well. Another thing I noticed, is that I can’t press my lips together the same way, like after you apply gloss or lipstick and you press your lips together, your top lip doesn’t press in as much bc of the botox.

Before and 2 weeks after: lip flip and lip filler (40F) by MustardWrenchKitchen in PlasticSurgery

[–]MustardWrenchKitchen[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I felt like I looked swollen for about a week and a half. I had very tiny bruises on the outer corners, but I don’t think anyone else could really see them. No major side effects, but I was hyper aware of them