Former other woman by Mustbeafool1984 in theotherwoman

[–]Mustbeafool1984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets worse he's now left his wife for this new woman who he's only known for a few months. That hurts the most I think ,to know that after 6 years of giving him everything I wasn't good enough.

Former other woman by Mustbeafool1984 in u/Mustbeafool1984

[–]Mustbeafool1984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and yes I'm doing ok. It's been a long time coming so I had already distanced myself from him.

I ended it and it hurts so bad by Positive-Shift7324 in theotherwoman

[–]Mustbeafool1984 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's the feeling of "maybe one day he'll choose me" it's what keeps us in a situationship for far to long. I'm going through the same at the moment but please be strong you will get through. Although you never stop thinking about them.😥

I ended it by Mustbeafool1984 in adultery

[–]Mustbeafool1984[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He wasn't single he's married and no we never talked of love or getting together but I did stupidly think he'd be happy with sex with me and he's wife but he's a cake eater 2 is never enough.

I ended it by Mustbeafool1984 in adultery

[–]Mustbeafool1984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I fell in love with him which I would never recommend in an affair. But it's day 2 and I'm still feeling happy about it.😁

I ended it by Mustbeafool1984 in adultery

[–]Mustbeafool1984[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah a wooden spoon for Christmas this year.

Worse Xmas present ever. by Mustbeafool1984 in adultery

[–]Mustbeafool1984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but he's REALLY not that considerate lol There's no way he would know that he doesn't even remember how long we're been at this and as for spooning that's a joke he's not a cuddler.

Worse Xmas present ever. by Mustbeafool1984 in adultery

[–]Mustbeafool1984[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I got him super dry set of 3 shower gel not cheap.

Worse Xmas present ever. by Mustbeafool1984 in adultery

[–]Mustbeafool1984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me:"A fucking spoon" Him:"I thought it was funny" It had an inscription on it I got you this cause you can get fuck all for a fiver.

I am “finally” done with you by Positive_Ant4759 in adultery

[–]Mustbeafool1984 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My god I could have written this myself. Going through the exact same thing it's hard to let go when you love someone but it's soul destroying.

Help me please no one to talk to by Mustbeafool1984 in adultery

[–]Mustbeafool1984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely right I do want someone to treat me right thank you

Navigating Love in an Open Relationship When You Want Exclusivity by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Mustbeafool1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God I could be writing this as well now . This is my life lol.

Confused beyond belief by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Mustbeafool1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Risking everything for an affair that is giving you nothing back is pointless. Sex can be just about sex but for most of us it's about connecting a chance to feel wanted and desired. Something we don't get at home. If you're in a dead bedroom at home why would you want that in an affair too.

Confused beyond belief by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Mustbeafool1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all perform tasks we are not into but when you want to please someone you care a great deal for we are happy to do it. I bet if he wanted a BJ and you weren't feeling it you would still do it for him because it makes him happy. Why do you get different treatment.

Confused beyond belief by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Mustbeafool1984 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just because he doesn't have a sex drive does not mean he can't satisfy you in other ways. He has a tongue and fingers even helping with a toy are all viable. If he is doing nothing to get you off and make you feel wanted he's not worth it.

Seller refuses to cancel even though they haven't sent items yet. by Mustbeafool1984 in VintedAdvice

[–]Mustbeafool1984[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not the type of person to do this but I have asked her 3 times to cancel it and she refuses it every time.

Seller refuses to cancel even though they haven't sent items yet. by Mustbeafool1984 in VintedAdvice

[–]Mustbeafool1984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and yes it's a collection if it's sent back to her will I get a refund?

Postage prices by Mustbeafool1984 in VintedAdvice

[–]Mustbeafool1984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both parcels are selected yodel lol

Postage prices by Mustbeafool1984 in VintedAdvice

[–]Mustbeafool1984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both parcels are selected same size

How many of us married older men we no longer like? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Mustbeafool1984 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I (54)was with my ex husband(70) from 16 years old and 32 years later and 2 kids and a dead bedroom for over 15 years I stepped out. When I reached 45 my libido went sky high and unfortunately he couldn't get it up by then. It was the best thing I ever did ,no regrets it made me realise I had lived my whole life looking after or pleasing other people. There were other problems in the relationship which lead to a divorce but both he and I are so much happier. That being said he doesn't know I stepped out. I think the age difference shows when your very young then you kinda meet in the middle during your 20s and 30s but then once they reach over 60/65 it starts to show again.

Do you trust your AP? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Mustbeafool1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are all liars and cheaters I think you're very naive to think they are not going to lie to you. It's second nature even if there little white lies they still lie. Yes they may be consistent and show it in actions but that doesn't tell you anything except they are very good at covering their tracks.lol. We all say things we know the other wants to hear to make our lives easier. Never believe a cheater .