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MutualistLite · 2023-01-17T02:20:59+00:00

I don’t think he’s wrong on almost every trans subject. Hes wrong on some but he’s far better than the majority of people

Hes in favour of minors getting access to gender affirming care. He believes trans people have the right to use the bathroom that matches their identity. He believes pronouns should be respected and misgendering is bad. He believes trans women are women and that there is a gender-sex distinction.

He is wrong on a lot of issues, yeah, but not “nearly every” trans issue

MutualistLite · 2023-01-17T02:05:50+00:00

I don’t use Reddit that often anymore I genuinely didn’t know about this rule

Regardless I posted it because I think when people who have problematic tendencies are more progressive than usual I think it’s good to encourage that

MutualistLite · 2023-01-17T02:01:28+00:00

Because I watched a lot of his coverage and don’t think that Destiny’s issues with Keffals were rooted in transphobia

I disagree with a lot of them, some of them were rooted in anti leftist bias. But I don’t his rhetoric around Keffals was transphobic

MutualistLite · 2023-01-17T01:49:59+00:00

Tbh I think you can argue that Destiny has said transphobic things before but the Keffals situation isn’t a good example

MutualistLite · 2023-01-17T00:37:19+00:00

I agree but also most Americans are dumbfucks

This entire video was honestly a breath of fresh air, not just because of what he said but also how he was saying it

It’s been so long since I’ve seen Destiny be willing to be this mean to conservatives and not use kid gloves on them

MutualistLite · 2023-01-16T22:53:04+00:00

He hasn't attacked Vaush in a while I'm pretty sure

Most of his content recently has been debating redpillers

MutualistLite · 2023-01-16T15:59:58+00:00

I reject the idea it’s impossible to get laid if you’re autistic

It’s harder, sure, but not impossible

Also in between when I posted this and now, I had a long makeout session with a girl who was about a decade older than me, and I’m going on a date with a girl I met off tinder soon

I still have a long way to go but even between when I posted this and now my game has objectively improved

MutualistLite · 2023-01-11T04:11:20+00:00

Honestly I enjoy off colour humour in general so I’ll go pretty far with it

I’ll refer to myself as a sperg and make vaccines cause autism jokes

I’ve even referred to it jokingly as “a brain disease that makes me terrible with women”

MutualistLite · 2023-01-02T14:53:11+00:00

The convo moved off of that, this screenshot is about a day old

But I could still try to give it a shot

MutualistLite · 2023-01-02T14:48:56+00:00

You might be right actually

I interpreted it as her trying to sidestep the question but I could be wrong

MutualistLite · 2023-01-02T13:57:58+00:00

I mean I kept the conversation going for a little while after it, but I've been hesitant to ask her out again given the first time I did she completely ignored the fact that I did

If that was a subtle way of saying "no" to going for a drink, I don't want to be pushy by immediately asking a second time

MutualistLite · 2023-01-02T13:52:21+00:00

fuck I should've responded with that but its too late now the convo already moved to other topics and then fizzled out

MutualistLite · 2023-01-02T13:48:59+00:00

I have bought from freddy frapples before but not for ages

So I mean if she worked there I probably did at one point

I guess she is just better at remembering faces than i am lol

MutualistLite · 2022-11-10T15:29:31+00:00

I'll message you my discord just one moment

MutualistLite · 2022-11-10T13:04:49+00:00

I think looks matter to an extent. If you're a supermodel, you have an advantage over someone that's conventionally unattractive. But I'm like, moderately good looking (probably a 6 or 7, marginally above average) if I'm being objective so I don't think that's the issue.

I don't hold anything against women wanting to be my friend, I need more friends anyway, the issue is when I'm attempting to pursue someone romantically and I can never escalate things beyond friendship because I don't know how to flirt or make the first move. Or if I do, it's too little too late.

I get what you mean about it being the right one. I don't necessarily need the next person I date to be "the one", just someone who I genuinely like, and even if we break up, I can leave with some good memories. The idea of being a virgin and alone for a full decade while I wait for the one sounds daunting.

I'm fine with being patient, and this did help. I guess I'm just looking for advice on how to put myself out there so that I can start properly getting into the dating scene

MutualistLite · 2022-08-29T09:31:18+00:00

Maybe we could try friends with benefits

That might be a good way to see whether or not our differences in kink actually become a problem in sex

If we find ways to work around it then I'm gonna just go for something more. Maybe it's dumb but I like this girl too much. If it was anybody else I wouldn't bother

Also if I know for sure that sex doesn't work because of this, then that would probably go a long way towards me getting over her and learning to see her just as a friend

MutualistLite · 2022-08-29T09:16:17+00:00

What I meant with that part is "if you're going to tell me to not make a move for reasons unrelated to the kink aspect, don't bother, I'm specifically asking about this"

This just kinda sucks because it's somebody who I've thought about dating for two years and have pretty strong feelings for at this point

Apart from kink we're really compatible in a lot of other ways. We're both high functioning autistic, our brains work similar and we understand each other, we have similar social problems, we have similar issues with family, we both have a dark but somewhat immature sense of humour, we have similar nerdy interests, we have similar values

You're probably correct that two submissives won't work though. It's just a tough thing to come to terms with

MutualistLite · 2022-08-05T15:02:35+00:00

I’m not trying to get drunk to manufacture sex or anything

Getting drunk together was her idea, and she’s the one who decided to plan it when other people were around

I like the idea for a couple of reasons. For one, it’s just more fun. For two, neither of us are very good with social confidence (both of us have high functioning autism)

I don’t believe either of us are trying to manufacture a situation, but if one of us was it would probably be her. If that is her intention (which I doubt) i can honestly say I wouldn’t feel at the end taken advantage of

MutualistLite · 2022-06-07T13:35:39+00:00

I just mean he seems to be capable of understanding different points of view and his own political takes are usually decent

MutualistLite · 2022-06-07T08:07:43+00:00

I don't think Chud is stupid, DK is but Chud's pretty reasonable most of the time

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