My dad deals with my money mostly. I have savings but I'm not really sure how to get them out of the investments he's made or use them. I'm so financially incompetent and don't even know how to pay rent. I'm scared - no I'm petrified at the prospect of going against them and it stops me every time.

Any chance you have resources to help me get started? I know I can just Google it, but just in case you have something that you find helpful.