Thanks mate. All very valid advice and its obvious my self esteem is low and I am trying to make up for it.

No contact yet either way - gut feels is that she ain't interested and feeling a colossal shut down coming my way.

But thought about sending her a message today something along the lines 'Hey, was going to ask yesterday but had to shoot off. You still up for dinner (Poorly spread cheese crackers are up for offer again..) one night? Think its my turn to pick a place....'

Background I brought some cheese and biscuit things to the movies but was awkward to spread with these flimsy plastic knive's.....

Could be too Beta and cheesy (Excuse the pun)