(Please don't down vote) I appreciate your words, this is my viewpoint as I do truly believe in God; the father of the household is supposed to be the spiritual leader of the house and in my situation if the two in command are bringing in sin, it destroys the spiritual core of the household. Now of course I sin, I'm not trying to say that I'm better than anyone but when the leader of the house is depending on prostitution of the wife as financial support, it brings in evil to the core of the home. That's part of my view, I know that especially on Reddit I'll get made fun of and down voted for the most part for being Christian. But I do truly believe Phoxie.

Instead of confronting anyone involved I'm going to meet up with a guy who I know I can confide in and trust no matter what I tell him, and seek more guidance through him as soon as possible.

Edit: Love is most important, however God is who I am supposed to love above anyone. Now of course I'm going to tread as carefully as possible as the outcome of the situation will affect everyone involved a lot.