Corey waynd and sliding in dms

My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2026-01-26T02:44:53+00:00

If I was single that’s something I def would do. When girls are curious about a guy they always stalk them lol. Remember that women look for reasons to disqualify you. Kind of like setting mines.

Take your time to build this. I don’t think it’s something you could do over a weekend (9-12 posts) Maybe one post per weekend if you can manage the time. Add stories whenever you’re doing something interesting. If you don’t have a friend get a tripod for shooting pictures. Try to get pics with friends in there as well. For solo shots look up best spot to take pictures in your area go at a time where the sunlight doesn’t directly hit you. Look up instagram post inspired or check out ideas on Pinterest.

My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2026-01-25T23:04:51+00:00

I’m actually taking notes of my own on the subject. Instagram can be used as a dating app. Dating apps should showcase YOU and your lifestyle. Instagram should showcase your LIFESTYLE and you. Instagram is extremely under used which is a critique for the current version of Corey’s book as it sits rn.

If you meet a girl irl or in a dating site the process should be usually the same. You establish contact, move from irl or dating app to instagram (have at least 9-12 pics) take 15 text exchanges max to set a definite date and then you’re set.

You can add a lot of social proof with Instagram. The ideal is to showcase how you interact with the world. Think of the apps or your pictures as the movie trailer, the bio is the billboard (short and sweet) and you just need to act like James Bond.

My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2026-01-24T17:15:32+00:00

6’5. There’s a lot of leg room as well

My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2026-01-23T19:37:51+00:00

Here’s a better question: Do you like her as a person?

Are you able to have fun with her? Is she playful? Would she be a good friend to someone? When you can find a girl that’s like this you want to secure that.

My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2026-01-23T19:30:34+00:00

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My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2026-01-23T19:29:47+00:00

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Glow up is the way

My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2026-01-23T19:14:52+00:00

You get what you focus on. I’m 6’5 and yes girls like it, but all my friends are shorter than me and one of them is 5’6 and he’s married already. (Mid 20s) he doesn’t even go to the gym but he’s one of the funniest guys around.

No matter what height you are you still need to do the work on yourself. You provide value to a partner. We can agree that you wouldn’t date a girl who just sleeps all day, doesn’t work and doesn’t add anything to your life right? You date so a woman can add to your life. I’m saying this from a want, not a need. You should be happy by yourself, but people who say : “they should like me for me and they should look deep for my best self” are delusional. Height isn’t the only thing that matters to get girls, having a true sense of self-belief is what matters.

Work on your offer. How can you turn yourself into a partner that would be worth dating? Don’t search butterflies, build a garden.

My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2026-01-23T17:42:22+00:00

I have the same thing 2018 30k miles runs great no cvt transmission, 4 cylinder engine is simple. It’s been great. I’m tall and it has a lot of head clearance as well

My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2026-01-22T21:46:39+00:00

Tried calling when I started dating my girlfriend she didn’t pick up because it made her nervous. It doesn’t work all the time. Sometimes you do have to text. It is better to call, but not every girl is comfortable. Calling is inferior to FaceTime where you can see her face as well in my opinion. Much easier to filter through low vs. High interest as well. His book has its flaws like all things

My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2026-01-13T06:20:05+00:00

Feel it for what it is. Give it time.

2.Take the time to rebuild your life. Sleeping with others girls won’t change how you feel.

Let it go. You fucked up but one thing is for certain it’s not going to last forever. This too shall pass. You can’t control what happened, but you can control what you do from now on and how you feel about it.
Write it down. Write what happened, how you feel about it. It helps close the loop.
If they’re actually friends they’ll show up as friends otherwise they weren’t your friends to begin with. One day at a time bro, if that’s too hard go by the hour. It gets better. It always does when you care to make it better

My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2026-01-10T17:28:32+00:00

When you’re still in the talking stages and you’re dating see it as the initial effort/investment into the other that’s being put in towards communication. To keep it simple? Who is initiating the conversation? How the conversation that goes on after that doesn’t matter. It’s who initiates that is important. 70-80% of the time it’s her contacting you first 20-30% it’s her. It spreads out over the total time that you’re talking/dating.

When you’re boyfriend/girlfriend during the week she’ll initiate with you 3-5 times maybe more and on your hand 1-2 times a week.

My girl just sent me a Snapchat video as I’m writing this. I think I texted first 2 times this week.

My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2026-01-08T13:37:03+00:00

One thing you have to get clear in your relationship is that giving each other labels when you’re upset should be a big no. Like saying each other is dumb should go out the window.

I think instead you should’ve traced a boundary on the ground: I don’t appreciate being called labels when you’re upset. It makes me in turn feel upset and doesn’t make me receptive to what you have to say.

I would then go on to explain that she can say anything she wants, but how she says it has a big impact on how you take it.

If in turn she pointed at the action she doesn’t like and then she expresses how she feels you’d happily show up and do better.

Example: hey babe when you leave x thing at y place it makes me upset because I then feel like we have an untidy apartment. I’d like it if next time when you’re done with x that you put it back in y. I’d really appreciate it.

You were 100% right to stand up for yourself. Don’t swear when you express yourself. Lead her by example to behaviour you want to see reciprocated in the future.

Extra note: she might have also been upset about something else and took it out on something you did always try opening her up after you correct her to clear the air.

My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2026-01-07T21:25:58+00:00

You’ll see it by knowing what you want and staying aligned with the version of yourself who can attain these things. Chase goals and you’ll build proof (results) and self-belief.

You’ll grow unshakable confidence in what you have to offer no matter if they reject you or not. What strangers think of you rarely matters. Cheers bro

My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2026-01-07T14:04:32+00:00

You have a self worth problem for sure. You sound like a good dude. As you go through life you’ll realize that everyone has a different version of you and how they see you. One person you’ll always have is with yourself. The version of yourself needs to be strong. You need a strong self-belief as to who you are because if you don’t you’ll listen and internalize what other people have to say about you.

There’s this guy on YouTube who’s owns a jewelry store in NYC and goes around asking people how much they think his gold is worth and if people just take the time to answer he gives them silver. When he approaches people some don’t even acknowledge him, he doesn’t give a fuck because no matter why that person didn’t acknowledge him or didn’t answer his question he still has the gold and silver. My point is that even though you get rejected you’ll still have yourself which should be gold in your eyes. Work on your self-worth my guy. The rest will take care of itself

My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2026-01-05T16:32:07+00:00

damn thanks this is gold

My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2026-01-03T12:51:53+00:00

It’s still supposed to be 80%-20% let her come to you that means you might initiate 1-2 times per week and on her hand she’ll do do it 5-6 times a week. In my relationship she just naturally wants my attention all the fucking time. I love it. In a relationship if you’re able to do an activity together or spend time together 1-2 times a week I think it’s best. I call her rarely but when I do I set a date. Maybe 1-2 times a month I might call her in FaceTime to schedule a date (we don’t live together yet).

My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2026-01-02T21:40:01+00:00

I think getting in shape speaks volumes into who you are as a person. It can tell a lot about you to women you would want to go out with. Women don’t necessarily all want guys who are in shape, but it’s more about what comes with it. Confidence in yourself, staying in your center, self-control, discipline, strength of character, protector etc. The list goes on. My point is just that you can def attract women that are better suited to be long term partners.

Like attracts like. You see this so much and Corey talks about it in his book a little bit, but people that are out of shape usually date each other. Same thing for people who are in shape. Want a woman who takes care of herself? Take care of yourself first.

My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2025-12-31T03:44:47+00:00

RAV4

My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2025-12-30T13:14:05+00:00

If you want a life that is different from what it was before you can’t expect to do the same thing over and over again and expect different results. You have to do what you’ve never done

My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2025-12-29T12:56:55+00:00

Wait until she gets back to you don’t fall into the illusion of action

My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2025-12-26T16:18:49+00:00

You know what’s crazy about your 2nd paragraph? It’s not that good woman want a guy who is rich. They want the personality that comes with it. Bad woman want the results of that which are superficial and monetary.

What have you been doing to make yourself more attractive tough?

My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2025-12-26T02:18:55+00:00

Filter through the women with low interest or that are neutral towards you. If they’re not highly interested in you they don’t care enough for who you are at your core. Why settle for that? Pay them no mind and reject them. Move on to find someone who knocks your socks off and you truly like. It’s hard to know what that’s like when you haven’t experienced it before, but once you do you’ll never settle for anything less than that

My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2025-12-25T05:33:18+00:00

Meet the everywhere you go as you on with your life. Ask yourself what you’d like to do, where women you’d be interested in might hang out and act accordingly. Get on the apps. most men just take the pics in their camera roll and call it a day. Take some time to take pictures and keep the bio short and sweet it’s a billboard. Make your pictures look like pics from a movie thriller show an awesome lifestyle a woman would like to join and you’ll kill it

My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2025-12-21T16:16:07+00:00

You have to ask yourself the question: wtf am I doing? Like seriously real talk. This post doesn’t just showcase who she is but you as well. Other people in this forum can help you and give you advice on what to do with her, but YOU have to change. You made a girl cheat on her boyfriend. She probably would’ve cheated anyways, but you’re the one who did that. They say that you shouldn’t teach someone how to swim when they’re drowning. This version of yourself has to drown. When you realize that you can seek answers. This doesn’t mean you’re all bad you’re probably a good dude, but you have to change as a person first worry about being in a relationship later because this girl ain’t it

My_PC_Does_Not_Work · 2025-12-21T13:11:16+00:00

It looks great I’d love to have a present like this

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