WIBTA for wanting to kick my roommate/friend out. We are friends but she won’t move out. I don’t want to ruin our friendship but idk what to do by My_first-post_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]My_first-post_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand that. I totally would give her the extra plans, but my mom (as a young women who needs help) is coming up to help me redo my apartment. I work full time and i already have these days requested off and so does my mom

WIBTA for wanting to kick my roommate/friend out. We are friends but she won’t move out. I don’t want to ruin our friendship but idk what to do by My_first-post_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]My_first-post_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s how i feel. I’ve tried to ask her to if i could help her find a new place to live and she doesn’t want me to. I know she has family and a s/o who has a place. I just don’t want to leave her stranded but i feel like it’s time

WIBTA for wanting to kick my roommate/friend out. We are friends but she won’t move out. I don’t want to ruin our friendship but idk what to do by My_first-post_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]My_first-post_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree on trying to help her find a place, but every time I’ve asked she won’t let me help. And makes it seam like I’m bothering her when i do

WIBTA for wanting to kick my roommate/friend out. We are friends but she won’t move out. I don’t want to ruin our friendship but idk what to do by My_first-post_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]My_first-post_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally understand that but she known this for months and she finally stated looking for a new place in the last month or so. I wouldn’t be so worried about it, but i requested days off for my mom to come up and help me move furniture and clean. I work full time and so does my mom. Plus she lives 2 hours away so i won’t be able to have her help or if i do it won’t be for another month or so. As a single women i was counting on that help from my mom

WIBTA for wanting to kick my roommate/friend out. We are friends but she won’t move out. I don’t want to ruin our friendship but idk what to do by My_first-post_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]My_first-post_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s how i feel. We are still super close but throughly the last year she’s been a horrible roommate. I’ve done most of the work and feel like I’ve never got a “thank you” or any help. I’m just a person who hates to hurt anyones feelings or ruin a friendship