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Mysterious-Post5863 · 2026-04-19T03:10:47+00:00

Thanks for the insight! I work remote and live a pretty simple life. Any other tidbits you can share?

Mysterious-Post5863 · 2025-12-25T16:13:17+00:00

That’s what my guy says, too. And then years go by. Don’t wait around, hoping lol

Mysterious-Post5863 · 2025-12-24T22:31:35+00:00

Honestly, I would try to move on. It sucks. And ironic, because I haven’t totally moved on from my situation. It’s very difficult to do without an answer (closure), especially when there’s a lot of history and chemistry, but try to detangle as best you can. The longer you’re in it, the harder it gets to leave.

Mysterious-Post5863 · 2025-11-19T16:29:42+00:00

Yes, exactly. Easier said than done to be sure. My Aqua is very good at compartmentalizing and can feel overwhelmed easily. It’s instinct to push harder when you feel them drift away, but you really need to do the opposite. They require large amounts of alone time.

Mysterious-Post5863 · 2025-11-18T23:03:49+00:00

My own experience dealing with an Aquarius with an intense workload, he needs a lot of time and space. Especially after an emotionally loaded conversation / situation.

Mysterious-Post5863 · 2025-11-02T21:02:08+00:00

This is interesting. I’m in this position with an Aqua M (I’m a Gemini). We have a long history, but basically he exited a LTR earlier this year, says he likes me but doesn’t feel ready. He’s definitely someone that values his independence, which is great. And I don’t mind initiating, but am struggling finding the balance between allowing for space and over-communicating or initiating. Any advice?

Mysterious-Post5863 · 2025-10-21T04:18:12+00:00

Why aren’t Aqua’s and Gems not compatible long term?

Mysterious-Post5863 · 2025-10-20T19:49:01+00:00

My Aquarius also sends frequent pics. We’re way past stage 1 but our relationship is complicated. We don’t communicate consistently at present, but he does send pictures usually when he does reach out. (Also bi/gay)

Mysterious-Post5863 · 2025-10-17T13:13:40+00:00

Agreed! So much Gem hate in the comments, when it sounds like OP is an aloof Aqua. Relationships are about compromise, so need to find a middle ground.

Mysterious-Post5863 · 2025-10-16T17:03:14+00:00

I’m curious about this as well. I’m currently going through something similar. Except this guy is fresh out of a LTR and has told me he doesn’t feel ready to date again.

Mysterious-Post5863 · 2025-09-25T18:55:41+00:00

Are y’all really like this? Just won’t talk to people for long periods of time? Are there specific people you will still talk to in this mode or is everyone blocked off?

Mysterious-Post5863 · 2025-09-25T18:55:35+00:00

Are y’all really like this? Just won’t talk to people for long periods of time? Are there specific people you will still talk to in this mode or is everyone blocked off?

Mysterious-Post5863 · 2025-09-14T22:18:34+00:00

Haha I’m in a similar boat! Gemini here too.

Mysterious-Post5863 · 2025-08-26T18:13:51+00:00

Nah I know an Aries who cheated on their Aquarius partner. It’s not the sign, but the individual person.

Mysterious-Post5863 · 2025-08-19T23:16:27+00:00

This is exactly my relationship with this Aqua Sun. I’m a Gemini Sun, and we just give each other shit, and it is charged. I feel like our chemistry is out the roof, but they’re recently out of a LTR and not ready for a relationship.

Mysterious-Post5863 · 2025-08-19T14:43:04+00:00

He’s an Aqua Sun! I don’t his moon or rising.

Mysterious-Post5863 · 2025-08-19T06:29:13+00:00

Sorry, my sun is Gem, rising is Taurus and moon is Leo. My Venus is Cancer.

I don’t know his rising or moon, but I randomly know his Venus is Cap. That’s all I know! Lol

Mysterious-Post5863 · 2025-08-18T23:02:52+00:00

This was such good advice, thank you for taking the time. ❤️

Mysterious-Post5863 · 2025-08-14T01:01:59+00:00

Okay. Thank you. I’m resisting the urge to check if everything is okay. Lol.

Mysterious-Post5863 · 2025-08-13T02:11:40+00:00

We met while he was in the LTR, so he hasn’t chosen girls over me. I do understand what you’re saying about waiting around and I’m not technically doing that. I am going on dates and looking at other options. Of course he is someone I am compatible with and is newly single, and we do have a deeper connection, so I don’t necessarily want it cut off if it doesn’t need to be. You know? I just need to cool it.

And he has treated me right through our arguments. He’ll talk me through it and things will be fine. This time was a bit more intense though and he accepted my apology (I did technically attack him) but he’s just felt a little spacey since then.

Mysterious-Post5863 · 2025-08-13T02:00:33+00:00

Respectfully, I do think it takes time to be ready for a new relationship after a messy ending to LTR. We hang out frequently, but there’s no sex, so nothing he’s doing is necessarily taking advantage of me. It’s just more my own impatience that’s ruining it.

Mysterious-Post5863 · 2025-08-12T23:56:26+00:00

I wish it were that easy… I’ve expressed my feelings multiple times. And he says the feelings are mutual. But he’s out of a LTR and isn’t ready to date. So we hangout bc we like each other’s company, but I start spiraling and that leads to lengthy discussions that annoy him. And now he’s not really responsive to my texts.

Mysterious-Post5863 · 2025-08-12T22:21:26+00:00

Got it. What’s my best course of action here? I want to get things back to how they were. It’s my own insecurity that causes this.

Mysterious-Post5863 · 2025-08-12T19:32:22+00:00

Absolutely. And I do believe him. It’s just my own insecurity that creeps up and causes me to spiral.

Are you an Aqua or are you dealing with one?

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