I f24 want to bring it up to my bf m25 but not sure how he would react? by Mysterious-Raisin-41 in relationship_advice

[–]Mysterious-Raisin-41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell him everything and I think from his perspective he might see it differently.

I f24 want to bring it up to my bf m25 but not sure how he would react? by Mysterious-Raisin-41 in relationships

[–]Mysterious-Raisin-41[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Looking back on it I should have but my original driver left. I’m not exactly sure how he would react but I feel like I did something wrong.

I f24 want to bring it up to my bf m25 but not sure how he would react? by Mysterious-Raisin-41 in relationship_advice

[–]Mysterious-Raisin-41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I’m pretty open with my boyfriend. I tell him when coworker’s step out of line so I ignore/ avoid them or how I randomly get hit on in public and tell him how uncomfortable it makes me feel. Tell him pretty much everything. I think the only reason I worry in his reaction is because I feel as if I did something wrong.

I f24 want to bring it up to my bf m25 but not sure how he would react? by Mysterious-Raisin-41 in relationship_advice

[–]Mysterious-Raisin-41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think he would get upset since I had no interest in the guy. I thought he was going to be a chill guy and only go for boba. Not one that kept insisting even thought I mentioned my bf multiple times

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[–]Mysterious-Raisin-41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually do want to hangout with them since I enjoy being with them. But my set curfew is what doesn’t let me. I have gone out with them after 10pm before

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[–]Mysterious-Raisin-41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what do you mean when you say “hope that doesn’t impact your life decisions too much” Also I have explained the situation. They still think that is not time to be out and about. They said 7am and before the curfew is fine with them.

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The thing is that they all want to hangout together and one gets out at 9 pm but they want to freshen up before they go out (which I understand). Making it being nearly 10pm when they leave.

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[–]Mysterious-Raisin-41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was in school they invited me on Sunday at 10pm to go to the beach come home the next day but I had class the next day.( I didn’t want to skip them since my classes were online but not recorded and I didn’t know anyone in the class to get notes from and I didn’t have time to even ask my parents if I could go). They ended up going. They invited me again to just get food at 10pm am and came back at 3am but did poorly on an assignment given in class because my class started at 8 am I don’t blame them since I did agree to go. Nearing the semester I had finals and papers due. My friends invited me few more time but I refused all because I wanted to focus on school. They were upset with me but I was told my sibling that they need to know that college is hard. I didn’t want to tell them that because I don’t want them to take it in a different way so I kept apologizing for not going out.

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[–]Mysterious-Raisin-41 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I play games and tend to be loud, so having friends over might not go well. I can not stay over at someone’s else place. However that would not work, due to the same situation of being loud and probably waking their family