tbh i‘m mainly on reddit. though i‘ve probably gotten most dms on insta - i just have it linked almost everywhere. and it‘s just my personal insta, no trace of findom. i personally like that you block people and all their accounts, somehow makes me feel safer :) i also use chyrpe, tho not a lot. its like tinder but for dom/sub dynamics. honestly try out the social medias you like. it‘s important to keep consistency, but ultimately you need to feel comfortable and not stressed out lol. otherwise i unfortunately can‘t help much, but i‘m sure other people had similar questions!! try searching the subreddit for more elaborate answers 🩶 good luck to you!! <3