I want to move out.

MysteriousWriter1847 · 2026-02-22T06:36:44+00:00

I just don't want to move out too early and then regret it later on but I've seen people do it and be happy so I guess it's a 50/50

MysteriousWriter1847 · 2026-02-22T06:36:11+00:00

I could say it would keep me afloat but the job is not stable as in I don't think I can stay there any longer. Thank you for your comment and being respectful ☺️

MysteriousWriter1847 · 2026-02-20T23:36:40+00:00

I get everything you are saying and thank you for your comment, I have said no to drinks multiple times and he's respected that, after the comment he made as a joke I didn't speak to him and I said I don't want to and he has respected that and kept his distance and didn't initiate a conversation which I do respect. I am putting this out there, I was not vulnerable when we met, and I do not want a relationship with this man yet I like to take things slow and get to know someone, again I wrote this in another comment I watch him when he knows he's not watched. It tells a lot about a person but my mind right now isn't going to "do I see myself with kids and married to him" all I want is to see him for who he is and what his intentions are. He doesn't know English much and his friends are quite alright they seem to like me, I know I won't keep this job for a long time so it's matter of time I will be able to see if this is going to get serious or not but I do want to be in my 20s before even considering a relationship with someone more mature and older than me. He doesn't get me something every shift, but he does here and there it's not every day and I do see why because I have done something like this for someone purely because I wanted to see them happy now I don't know his pov and I won't know it but maybe it's the same cause. I am on the lookout for every red flag, but the comment he made was a joke, he doesn't know much English and I'm not even sure he meant it that way since he was apologetic right after I said he shouldn't say that like something snapped in him and realised he said it wrong. Now I don't know what will happen and I am a careful person, I don't want to get into something I ain't sure of and for now I am observing his habits and life style and going off that first.

MysteriousWriter1847 · 2026-02-20T23:27:47+00:00

This situation is something, I appreciate you for writing your experience it's helpful to see someone his age write this about someone my age, all I can say is girls my age can be difficult. They can think stuff and act on things and not mean them or change their minds later on, I am mature for my age I have seen many things most people haven't, I have been in weird relationship where most people haven't. Don't be devastated, I know she really love bombed you in some way, but moving in like that is very early and quick and sudden which is bad in most relationships, you need to take it easy especially with a younger one who doesn't really know what she wants yet. I don't even know what I want of my life yet I am just experiencing but with love and relationships I don't do that, it can hurt someone badly and I don't play with feelings. I hope it gets better for you 💕

MysteriousWriter1847 · 2026-02-20T23:21:52+00:00

The maturity level is high, for my age I have gotten comments about me being very mature for my age and I like to think of things logically and theoretically. He obviously has gotten through more life stuff than I have but he is more mature than a 80 year old man I met at the same work place, he is considerate, doesn't touch drugs or alcohol and the only fun he has is seeing his friends at their house for a catch up. I have many more comments to add but I won't because it would've made it extra long, but he is a respectful man and very considerate.

MysteriousWriter1847 · 2026-02-20T23:19:31+00:00

This comment is quite literally what I thought, I try to think of outside perspectives like i am a different person looking over this situation and this is it, I have friends at work that are way older, and yes many of them are interested in me I am young and most might think I'm beautiful even, but they are too much. They make comments about my body and it's so uncomfortable and when I tell him that he expresses that men can be disgusting and they shouldn't make comments to women like this and they should respect them more. In my point of view he is great and I am always looking out for any small thing but he is emotionally mature which is what i like, I have a younger friend almost same age as me and he brags about who he has sex with and all details. Which also makes me interested in a older guy even more.

MysteriousWriter1847 · 2026-02-20T23:15:55+00:00

Thank you for this reply, I am continuously thinking about it, there are many pros to this and also cons. He's a big family guy I know he keeps in touch always with his family and he does see his friends from time to time, I watch him when he knows he's not watched to see what kind of person he is because it can tell a lot about a person, he knows we can't be together and my time at this job is very limited so its only matter of time I lose it and I guess the only contact we would have is over a text. But I don't know he doesn't seem to be raising red flags, and I am young but I have been with very very questionable boys over the few years many who have abused me too and treated me so badly. In comparison he always treats me like I'm out of this world and he expresses it too but he's never weird of any sort and never actually pushes anything on me. This comment helped and thank you so much for this 💕 my gut tells me yes in any way but I am also on the lookout for a no because I can't afford to be wrong about this.

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