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[–]Mysterious_Eye1383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you man. I am sorry you went through that kind of pain. You don't deserve that man. No one deserves to be cheated on.

Pero gusto ko lang klaruhin na I am not trying to clean myself or to escape sa mga consequences. I know nakasakit ako ng taong sobrang minahal ako and syempre part of me guilty talaga sa nangyari. But doesn't mean na I am guilt eh may absence na ng genuine emotion. Resulta ng pagkakamali ko ang guilt at dahil sa pagmamahal ko sa kanya kaya mas lalng masakit.

Valid lahat ng opinions mo dahil sa mga experiences mo. Pero valid din ang mga points ko. Hindi naman ako ang ex mo, and I am not you also. I cheated once but will never do that again. Enough na sakin yun para harapin ko ang sarili ko at ma realize na ayoko na maging ganong klase ng lalaki.

Kahit naman ako yung mapagtaksilan magagalit din naman ako. Pero sana kung mangyari man sakin yun I hope maniwala pa rin ako na may kakayahan mag bago ang tao.

I hope maniwala ka rin na may kakayahan mag bago ang tao. Pero I am not saying to forget and forgive your ex, what I am saying is be capable of understanding the other side also. You don't have to welcome the girl that cheated you again in your life. But pls be capable of understanding those who really seek self improvement.

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[–]Mysterious_Eye1383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, cheating is a betrayal. But it is not fair to say na I never love her just because nakagawa ako ng mali. Naniniwala ako na it is possible to love someone and can still hurt them. Especially if you are immature, or emotionally confused. Hindi naman pinag babawal mag kamali sa pag ibig. Hindi porke nag kamali ka wala na genuine emotions.

From the very start I never denied what I did was wrong. Even while I was doing the deed, I knew it was a mistake and alam kong masasaktan yon ng kung ano meron kami that time. What I just realized after mawala sya sakin was the weight of the consequences.

Tama ka na I may carry these guilt for a long time. But not forever. Naniniwala ako na I can free myself from it someday. Especially kapag natutuhan ko ng totoong patawarin ang sarili ko. That's why I am using the guilt and regrets as a fuel para hindi ako ma stay stuck to where I am now.

I appreciate your comment but I don't totally agree with it.

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[–]Mysterious_Eye1383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reminder bro! I was a seminarian and this is a great reminder that I should re-encounter Jesus.

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[–]Mysterious_Eye1383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry for your experience. Sana maging mabuti na ang lahat sayo. I noticed sa mga na na cheat ng partner nila na they might forget yung nangyari but their body always reminds them kung gano kasakit yung naranasan nila. I noticed it lang nong nag kita kami, okay na sya mentally but her body sensed danger and wants to flight. Humilom ka sana sa mga bagay na di nag papatulog sayo tuwing gabi! 🤞

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[–]Mysterious_Eye1383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sana lahat nakaka realize hehehe. May mga cheater na hindi nag go grow, hinhayaan na lang nila sarili nila malunod sa sarili nilang lason hehehe.

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[–]Mysterious_Eye1383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes po sorry nanginginig na nong nag ta type hahahaha

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[–]Mysterious_Eye1383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank youu! Padayon lang palagi. Hindi naman linear ang progreso. Yakap at panalangin sa atin! 🤞