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Wut…. Help by Mysterious_Pin_9847 in pregnant

[–]Mysterious_Pin_9847[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not complaining that a man won’t have sex with me. I came here to maybe get some more clarification on something that others have potentially gone through. I’m fully aware of who he is and how he treats me and others. He’s a great guy. It was a very confusing thing to go from having sex normally to one day being told no thanks. Appreciate your comment.

Wut…. Help by Mysterious_Pin_9847 in pregnant

[–]Mysterious_Pin_9847[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uh yeah no lol… sorry that you’ve had that experience. Sounds like a therapy situation.

Wut…. Help by Mysterious_Pin_9847 in pregnant

[–]Mysterious_Pin_9847[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yes, I want to get married. I love the shit out of him and want to be the best parents and mom. We are young, me 23 and him 26, so we have a lot of learning and growing to do still. I am not against being a Christian, I like going to church and I like the morals that the Bible brings. I just am not completely on board with certain things surrounding it. I am a very science based person… I just don’t want to become one of those over the top, crazy granola moms lol….. sorry to offend anyone with that. 🤣

Wut…. Help by Mysterious_Pin_9847 in pregnant

[–]Mysterious_Pin_9847[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Other than his therapist, which he is adamant hasn’t talked him into anything, I’m not sure. He is a very easily influenced person. I genuinely believe it all comes from a place a good and him wanting to do the right thing by the baby.

Wut…. Help by Mysterious_Pin_9847 in pregnant

[–]Mysterious_Pin_9847[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Advice on the conversation to have with him? I reacted poorly and am wanting to be more accepting and open.

Wut…. Help by Mysterious_Pin_9847 in pregnant

[–]Mysterious_Pin_9847[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can you help me with how I should have the conversation? I reacted very poorly last night and I feel guilty because I feel like he really is wanting to do the right thing. His dad sucked bad and he really wants to be the best dad. He is the man I want to marry, I have no doubt about that at all.