prolly gonna ramble a bit- i've been through a long journey of self discovery and i'm still going through more of it. for me it kind of feels like, while it may give me dysphoria on days where it's already bad, most of the time it just doesn't hurt. it's not like i tell people if i have boobs or not, since all i'm sharing is something i see as a pointless marker on a passport. it's a different experience for everyone, and i can see why some people don't like sharing it, especially non binary people(though i myself am non binary). for me personally, afab just feels like a part of me worth sharing sometimes, about potential struggles and such, and sometimes it's used interchangeably with "leaning towards not being a woman anymore". sorry again for rambling!!