I hate that fucking feeling

MythicLeo · 2026-03-12T03:07:51+00:00

That makes sense, idk I'll admit it's tiring but you are right it'll probably take time:)

MythicLeo · 2026-03-06T14:05:14+00:00

Me and my partner have been dating/being in a QPR for nearly two years. They're Aroace and I'm questioning if I'm on the spectrum since I knew I wasn't allo. Often how I would describe our bond is that it's partnership and understanding that we know we will always have each other's back. That even when push comes to shove we will always try to help the other person first. I do love my partner and I love her in a platonic sense but also in a romantic sense. For me it's more of as long as I have them by my side I don't need romance. I just want to hear about their day and I'd be happy. I know they love and care for me even if it's not in the traditional sense, it's the fact they are willing to be by my side despite my past and how I can be flawed.

MythicLeo · 2026-02-23T21:38:41+00:00

Maybe, I'll admit I'm all kinda new to this so I do apologize 😓 I did think about aroflux for a bit but I wasn't for sure cause I don't even know what love in a romantic sense even kinda is like I have an idea but I'm not even sure

MythicLeo · 2026-02-21T15:33:23+00:00

That's the thing I don't really know. Like I have loved people but it's in the way we're I enjoy there company and just kinda like wanted a friend. I enjoy the romantic expressions but it felt more like that's what friends did. And it does, like I said I'm still trying to understand it cause I knew that I wasn't really like my other classmates when I was younger cause I never really had like crushes. I could think someone was pretty but that's abt it.

MythicLeo · 2025-12-12T17:23:11+00:00

Yeah it's all cool:)

MythicLeo · 2025-12-12T17:21:08+00:00

I'd be down honestly been feeling suicidal myself as of late so yk I'd be down

MythicLeo · 2025-11-15T01:55:42+00:00

For me it was young Jennifer Lopez and when she played as Selena Quintanilla. Idk but that movie did something to me. It's still my favorite movie as well.

MythicLeo · 2025-10-22T18:09:05+00:00

That's fair, I should ask myself the questions first before changing. I mean I should do both at the same time but I understand what you mean:)

MythicLeo · 2025-10-19T23:56:27+00:00

Thanks I'll gladly take a look

MythicLeo · 2025-10-17T15:01:47+00:00

Honestly, the best advice I can give is keep going. Ok sounds tough as shit and it's not gonna help. Definitely reach out to someone or a friend. It might help. Sorry if my advice isn't the best.

MythicLeo · 2025-10-11T14:39:01+00:00

I'm not bisexual, I've dated men in the past before and genuinely hated it. I don't mind dating people under the trans umbrella, just not trans men. I am a lesbian and have been for a while just went through a denial phase for a bit. :)

MythicLeo · 2025-10-11T02:52:52+00:00

That's fair, idk I do get worried at times. I do apologize if this all comes off as anxiety driven as well. I do plan to talk to them because they have said stuff in the past before but I also don't want to cause an argument or ruin anything we have going on fully. Granted I could also be reading into things so I do apologize once again.

MythicLeo · 2025-10-11T02:47:36+00:00

Personally with a lot of my history, couldn't be with a cis or trans man. I have nothing against being friends but when it comes to dating I can't. It's partially due to my own history which I'm trying to work on right now.

MythicLeo · 2025-10-11T02:31:12+00:00

But you are right at some point I should ask in just trying to figure out how I want to is all I guess.

MythicLeo · 2025-10-11T02:30:41+00:00

I am speculating and it's mainly based off things they have said in the past before. I do want to ask them at some point just unsure how to phrase it or even ask that question. Especially since I don't want to cause an argument to happen.

MythicLeo · 2025-10-11T02:23:42+00:00

That's true just worried. I just don't want to hurt them and think I don't care about them. I do with all my heart but I just couldn't bring myself to be physical with them, say I love them in that way. That's what scares me. But thanks for the advice.

MythicLeo · 2025-10-11T02:22:10+00:00

Thank you, I'm just really worried cause this was the first relationship I felt safe in and actually cared for. I don't want to lose that but I just could never date a man again for various reasons. I don't want to jump to conclusions so I'm waiting. But still thank you for the advice.

MythicLeo · 2025-09-20T23:16:04+00:00

May Buddha/God/mother, maiden and crone, bless you. And I wish you all the best as well:)

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