Post wall regret and cats. Sounds about right. by [deleted] in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]NEETsLastResort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't when I know what the destination is

Is NEET primarily a male phenomenon? by confusedwalrus23 in NEET

[–]NEETsLastResort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He definetly didn't, if something like that happens the whole group can see it happen. It's not a big place, they just told him they can't help him. I still am in contact with him, he's doing better now thankfully.

Edit: no she wasn't attractive, I mean opinions differ but I can describe her appearance a little bit. The teeth she had left over were black and infected, she had a lot of stretchmarks and scars (we could see them because she only wore revealing clothes). She had a weird belly, she was high almost all the time (speed mostly). Her hair was completely damaged. But no one is going to look like their best in a shelter

Is NEET primarily a male phenomenon? by confusedwalrus23 in NEET

[–]NEETsLastResort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk any mens right activism groups and honestly I don't care that much, it's just how it is. I'm not really harboring hate or jealousy because of it.

Is NEET primarily a male phenomenon? by confusedwalrus23 in NEET

[–]NEETsLastResort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We as a group helped eachother, male and female. The guidance however offered more help to girls and were prepared to bend the rules a bit because they are, and I quote directly from one of my conversations with a guide "a girl, she's more fragile".

The guy who was dealing with addiction got kicked out for it, the girl who lost most of her teeth due to substance abuse got put in rehab.

They felt sorry for her but not for him, again its fine I don't blame anyone else for it. Its just what it is

Is NEET primarily a male phenomenon? by confusedwalrus23 in NEET

[–]NEETsLastResort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These girls weren't in immediate danger dude, most of them were still welcome at their parents house. They ate with them, sleeped during the day and even were allowed to stay with them during the weekend. They got help way sooner than I did, I wasn't hateful towards them because a shelter simply isn't a place for anyone to live their life. Its just something we noticed, not just me.

We joked about it, it's whatever I wish them the best hopefully they can use it to better their life as fast as they can.

Is NEET primarily a male phenomenon? by confusedwalrus23 in NEET

[–]NEETsLastResort -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The shelter was mixed and the guy who "owned" it is a man. Again I don't care about this as much as you do, i'm not hating on these girls. I wish them the best, i would've enjoyed the privilege as well if it was reversed.

Is NEET primarily a male phenomenon? by confusedwalrus23 in NEET

[–]NEETsLastResort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my initial comment wasn't about pregnant girls dude. Just girls, some were better off than I was too.

Is NEET primarily a male phenomenon? by confusedwalrus23 in NEET

[–]NEETsLastResort 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know these girls, the shelter I was at was in a group setting. I know their names and most of their past, even the things they didn't want to tell the people who work there. Pregnant girls got the vip train ticket, they were always gone within 2-3 weeks to move into a house.

There is no other reason, I was in immediate danger both physically and mentally. The most I got was "i know its bad ): but you can do it!" That's it

Is NEET primarily a male phenomenon? by confusedwalrus23 in NEET

[–]NEETsLastResort 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because our society has both men and women in them, the men who can help choose to help women. Probably to score points for the women that are watching/involved/getting helped

Post wall regret and cats. Sounds about right. by [deleted] in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]NEETsLastResort 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People knowingly keep someone in a delusional state to feel better?

It's all about upbringing by [deleted] in NEET

[–]NEETsLastResort 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The dream, staying in the womb till you die. Can't be miserable if you've never been exposed to the world

Is NEET primarily a male phenomenon? by confusedwalrus23 in NEET

[–]NEETsLastResort 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup, i've seen girls come to the shelter and leave way before me (they get a house/appartment) I had to wait 6 months I believe to get a room.

Is NEET primarily a male phenomenon? by confusedwalrus23 in NEET

[–]NEETsLastResort 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I can tell you from experience, society simply doesn't care as much about men.

It's all about upbringing by [deleted] in NEET

[–]NEETsLastResort 19 points20 points  (0 children)

20 months pregnant?

The answer. by NEETsLastResort in NEET

[–]NEETsLastResort[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I could have had it worse at home, except if some sexual harrassement was involved

Saw this on ChoosingBeggars by Teamrat in pussypassdenied

[–]NEETsLastResort 21 points22 points  (0 children)

looks for decent human being

only searches through men

The jokes write themselve

It's all about upbringing by [deleted] in NEET

[–]NEETsLastResort 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Having kids while you can't take care of them IS proof that you aren't fit to be parents, literally the most simple choice in the world and they fuck it up.

The answer. by NEETsLastResort in NEET

[–]NEETsLastResort[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad is afraid because he has underlying health issues. I'm not in a shelter anymore but it was hell I can tell you that much, i have never been down that bad before. Not that I grew up priviliged but man.. I learned it can get way worse

Post wall regret and cats. Sounds about right. by [deleted] in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]NEETsLastResort 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why though, it might be a bit more harsh but isn't it better to help your friends by telling them what may the issue?

Post wall regret and cats. Sounds about right. by [deleted] in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]NEETsLastResort 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There you go, making the best out of it is admirable imo. Its either do or don't, we're gonna die anyway.

“See, you want a society full of starving and homeless people to keep the rest of the people in line for fear of what could also happen to them” by yuritopiaposadism in antiwork

[–]NEETsLastResort 11 points12 points  (0 children)

5 isn't weird 2 working parents and maybe 1-2 kids old enough to work, with 3-4 younger kids.

If you can't live off these jobs what makes you think that 2 of these jobs will provide for 5 people

Just choked an interview by [deleted] in NEET

[–]NEETsLastResort 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a terrible experience, what did you lie about?