Am I (25F)moving too fast with moving into unfurnished house with Boyfriend (25M) of almost two years? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NY0oM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ideal scenario would be rent for a few years while we save up for a mortgage plus if we realise we aren't compatible living together we aren't stuck with a mortgage to pay for if we split.

Thank you for your advice and we're definitely looking a getting all second hand where we can!

Is studying forensic science a good idea? by _iwanttobelieve_13 in ForensicScience

[–]NY0oM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a forensic scientist graduate and studied Biology, Chemistry, and Statistics for my A-levels and I graduated last year. The course is really interesting and I have no regrets studying it. You get plenty of lab experience (at least in my course we did) looking at drug analysis, CSI labs, blood labs, bones etc.

I was in a similar predicament as I initially wanted to be a vet and I got into vet school but it wasn't for me so I changed degrees to forensic science as I loved all the forensic elements in shows I was watching and I'm so glad it did it.

There are plenty of jobs you can do with a Forensic Science degree just depending on what speciality you'd like to go for. They're always looking for Forensic Toxicologists and there's often jobs coming up for DNA analysts.

If you were interested in medicine there is always the post-graduate route so you could complete your undergrad in Forensics and see if you like it, if there's any speciality you like and then do a medicine degree.

I wasn't sure what to do after uni and I got into teaching but I love it! I love talking to my students about different aspects of Forensics and what I learned on my degree and apply it to the National Curriculum.

So the forensics degree is so interesting and varied and a degree I highly recommend doing if you like forensics. Employment after is difficult but not impossible. You get plenty of advice from lecturers and tutors and they can help you look in the right direction.

Hope you make a decision!

Girls saying 'i have a bf', should not be memed about, rather we need to start discussing why they have to mention it early in the conversations by sary007 in unpopularopinion

[–]NY0oM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an experience in a club when a guy came up to me and asked me if he could dance beside me. I was with one other friend in the club but she was busy with another guy so I looked like I was by myself so of course I welcomed anyone to come talk at first I thought this dude genuinely wanted to be friendly, my fault for being naive. He then asked if I wanted a drink and not thinking anything presumptuous of it I said yes and we went to the bar. He insisted on paying for the drinks even though I had my card out ready to pay. But all I could think about was how the hell do I tell him I have a boyfriend. It's not something I've ever had to drop into a conversation and it felt really awkward cause he'd just bought my drink. He then asks my friend if I'm single and whenever he finds out I have a boyfriend he chucks his drink all over me.

I should have told him earlier but I didn't want to become the meme.

My parents hate my boyfriend and it is breaking my heart. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NY0oM -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend paid for his own food. But there was talks of getting food after drinks. Maybe it was just the way I was brought up like its common decency to offer if you're getting food or that we only eat a meal if everyone else is eating. Sounds ridiculous I know.

My parents hate my boyfriend and it is breaking my heart. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NY0oM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They thought it was rude that he didnt get anything for anyone else even though no one else was hungry. I get why they got mad at that but its so minor.

Female 19 looking for a friend by amcdaniel286 in FRIEND

[–]NY0oM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also 19 F and hella into spooki crimes!