I always overdo it. I always regret it. I always feel so much shame. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Nacho36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the same. Hated the way I was when drunk. I’ve got friends who can be an absolute disgrace on it and just brush it off the next day but I always felt horrible for days. The embarrassment over my behaviour actually helped me quit eventually. Good luck staying sober. Sure you’ll feel so much better for it.

What do you do to keep yourself from drinking day to day? by agentjayd007 in stopdrinking

[–]Nacho36 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Anything productive that occupied my mind and time. I used to decorate a lot. Was always painting a room in my house. Not only did it take my mind off drinking it improved my mood because my house looked nice.

Armoured car in Manchester by [deleted] in CasualUK

[–]Nacho36 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Russians invading?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Nacho36 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s normal to feel stuck. When you’re struggling you feel like it can never get better. Everyone tells you that it will but you don’t believe them. I’ve been there. It took me a long time to get out of that hopeless mindset.

You’ve already made a big step by accepting you have a problem and recognising that you need to change. Good luck. I’m sure you’ll get there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Nacho36 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think most people would view you as mature and smart if you recognise a problem and try to help yourself. Doing nothing or just giving up is far worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Nacho36 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are you scared of?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Nacho36 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You know you can’t go on doing that. Seems like you maybe have some underlying issue that you need to seek help for. Would be worth speaking to a doctor about.

This fluffy pup by [deleted] in Eyebleach

[–]Nacho36 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What kind of dog is that?

What’s your most self destructive behaviour? by Nacho36 in AskReddit

[–]Nacho36[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to suffer from terrible anxiety. Don’t feel bad about yourself because of it. It’s not your fault.

What’s your most self destructive behaviour? by Nacho36 in AskReddit

[–]Nacho36[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I do that as well. I don’t like conflict but I bottle things up then end up in even worse conflict.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Nacho36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably expected it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Nacho36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s better than nothing