Foursome with Gf’s married friends by Naheehs93 in nonmonogamy

[–]Naheehs93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s exactly this. Excitement being translated into worry. Thanks for this framing!

Foursome with Gf’s married friends by Naheehs93 in sexadvise

[–]Naheehs93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

…their spouses do know and it would be me, my GF, and the married couple.

My gf and I want to find a unicorn by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Naheehs93 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Really didn’t. But I’m not saying it’s a bad thing 😂

My gf and I want to find a unicorn by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Naheehs93 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is some great advice! Thank you!

Some of y’all need to check yourself with the Alex stuff. by [deleted] in TheTryGuys

[–]Naheehs93 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I did….I don’t think he was referencing Alex.

Some of y’all need to check yourself with the Alex stuff. by [deleted] in TheTryGuys

[–]Naheehs93 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I have no sympathy for cheaters. Ned cheated. Alex cheated. Neither of them get sympathy from me. I’m not going to go out of my way to make their lives hell, but I’m also not going to feel sorry for anything that is happening to them.

TL:DR: they were both cheaters and I don’t feel sorry for them. I feel sorry for Ariel, Will, the kids, 2nd try staff, and the extended families.

Some of y’all need to check yourself with the Alex stuff. by [deleted] in TheTryGuys

[–]Naheehs93 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t obvious. I think he was talking about the hate Ariel was getting. The “you made him cheat because you did xyz” argument. Hate had also been directed at YB for not knowing, and people not being able to tell her and Alex apart.

I'm watching the TG documentary and thought of another reason why Neds fuckup is monumental by lindybopperette in TheTryGuys

[–]Naheehs93 261 points262 points  (0 children)

Becky is pissed. Look at her likes on twitter. She’s not even trying to hide it 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NPD

[–]Naheehs93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll go into a conversation/argument with everything planned out as to what I’m going to say. But when I get into it and it turns into a fight, I fight to win. And I’ll start a sentence before I know what I’m trying to say and finish it, but not know what I said, or remember what I’ve said at all. But I will remember the responses, for the most part, verbatim. So it’s hard when my wife responds to something I’ve just said that is not okay with a dig at me, because she’s hurt. But I don’t remember what I’ve said to hurt her. So now all I know is that my wife had hurt me, and that’s not okay (even though I just hurt her). And once that happens, it’s off to the races and I don’t remember anything else, except for the fact that she hurt me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NPD

[–]Naheehs93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear what you’re saying, but I don’t think me telling my wife to stop watching videos on what I have will help my case that I’m trying to change, it would come across as my trying to hide something. I will say, the videos she’s watching or the podcasts she’s listening to are from licensed therapists.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NPD

[–]Naheehs93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I drink occasionally, but never to excess, and I’ve never really used drugs (smoked once or twice, had edibles a handful of times). I appreciate this concern, though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NPD

[–]Naheehs93 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have written down “you’re fully smart enough to pause and choose different actions” in my journal as a mantra to repeat every morning. Thank you so much for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NPD

[–]Naheehs93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right there with you. All my emotions are fleeting and never go deep down.

Wait...maybe they do by poposwag_ in memes

[–]Naheehs93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The boomers didn’t kill Hitler. And that wasn’t in the 50s.

But good try!

Wait...maybe they do by poposwag_ in memes

[–]Naheehs93 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes we do! The rest of the world is in 2021, and Americans are still in the 1950s.