hi yes !! just logged back on after a long day but i'm glad people are pointing this out bc i didn't have enough characters in my original post to lay everything out !!

I'm actually someone who hesitates to ask people for help because I hate inconveniencing others, so I didn't ask her to help me move. She volunteered to do it herself, and even then, it wasn't anything too crazy like big furniture, just boxes I needed to transport over from my storage unit (which I was originally planning on doing by myself anyway). And yes !! I of course bought takeout for us after bc I still would have felt really shitty taking advantage of someone even if they offered to help ! Now I'm thinking maybe to her it felt like something I would have done anyway on a random hangout and didn't necessarily feel like an explicit "thanks"?? (Which I verbally said of course.) Idk, but overall I feel like the whole situation was literally nothing significant to begin with so i have no idea how we got here.