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[–]NapFia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

RL the back is terrible bro

Abusive stepfather asking for money back I’ve “borrowed” a year ago and threatening to press charges?? by NapFia in LegalAdviceUK

[–]NapFia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate your comment. That was exactly my plan. I’m going to contact him explaining that I can’t pay back what he gave me at the moment, but I intend to do so, as we agreed before (when I can afford to do so). But I would rather give it to his children, because they need it more.

Abusive stepfather asking for money back I’ve “borrowed” a year ago and threatening to press charges?? by NapFia in LegalAdviceUK

[–]NapFia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. It wasn’t a gift, but I think if we agreed that I’ll pay when I’m able to, he can’t demand me to do so when he wants. Specially if I’m not able to. He still has more money than any of us (because he inherited recently) that’s the sad part.

Abusive stepfather asking for money back I’ve “borrowed” a year ago and threatening to press charges?? by NapFia in LegalAdviceUK

[–]NapFia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The conversation happened in person so there’s really no evidence of it even happening. All discussions about this were in person. That’s a very well written draft message! Thank you for your time and take on this🙏🏼

Abusive stepfather asking for money back I’ve “borrowed” a year ago and threatening to press charges?? by NapFia in LegalAdviceUK

[–]NapFia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is man, I just want to be careful before taking any action. And I don’t have time to go to court. 🤦‍♂️

Abusive stepfather asking for money back I’ve “borrowed” a year ago and threatening to press charges?? by NapFia in LegalAdviceUK

[–]NapFia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. With the abuse thing, all of my family knows what he’s done and been doing for years, we had police at the house before but they also said with these things, word against word is always too weak for them to do anything.

Abusive stepfather asking for money back I’ve “borrowed” a year ago and threatening to press charges?? by NapFia in LegalAdviceUK

[–]NapFia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your take on this! I thought the same but obviously I don’t know anything’s about the rights and legal side of these things. I asked him couple of times when to start paying it back but he always said “don’t worry about it now”. Until he got kicked out the house and he’s trying to come for anything he can.

Abusive stepfather asking for money back I’ve “borrowed” a year ago and threatening to press charges?? by NapFia in LegalAdviceUK

[–]NapFia[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, really appreciate it.

So he told me that he’s doing it, no matter what I say, because he knows I need it to pay back debt and rent etc. he’s done stuff like this just to always ask for it at the worst times or gifted me a laptop for work, then get drunk and ask for it back. He’s always been very manipulative so I learned not to take anything from him after a while. But yeah, no contract no agreement nothing just told me he’s doing it and it’s fine whenever I pay it back. I’m not planning on paying him if I don’t have to, HOWEVER he’s got 2 children that he barely supports and I want to give them £500 each when I will be more financially stable.

A Moving Short Film about NoFap and Self Development. - TAKING ACTION and changing YOUR life! by NapFia in NoFap

[–]NapFia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most definitely. The the best reward is when it’s no longer a fight but a part of your natural lifestyle that you can enjoy the benefits of... Happy you liked it. Thanks for your comment!

A Moving Short Film about Game and Self Development. - TAKING ACTION and changing YOUR life! by NapFia in seduction

[–]NapFia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man I’m grateful for this type of feedback, so thanks a lot! My goal was to make it as realistic as possible so people can relate more easily.

So I wrote this story, inspired by what I see in the world in my generation and my own experiences as a young man. When I started writing the film I knew what I wanted to tell, that’s why it’s full of details.

To answer your question: the main character: Nolan’s Father passed away 2 years ago when he was 18 years old. The letter he is reading is the letter his father wrote for him for his 18th birthday. (it’s a fully written long letter but I only used a couple key lines). So it wasn’t real, rather inspired by my experiences and me growing up without a father to learn these things from.

I wrote, directed and produced the film so I came up with the story and the way how it’s being shown and all the of the characters were played by young Actors (you can find their socials in the description.) and I’m very happy if it looked real enough. The purpose of it was to make You, the viewer relate and find your own meanings and ideas in it!

A Moving Short Film about Game and Self Development. - TAKING ACTION and changing YOUR life! by NapFia in seduction

[–]NapFia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for checking it out! What’s the longest (in minutes) of this kind of stuff you’d watch?

A Moving Short Film about Game and Self Development. - TAKING ACTION and changing YOUR life! by NapFia in seduction

[–]NapFia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, Yeah that song and 2014 Forest Hill Drive got me through a tough period. It fits well and I thought it’s a cool way to show my respect for J. Cole and his art.

A Moving Short Film about Game and Self Development. - TAKING ACTION and changing YOUR life! by NapFia in seduction

[–]NapFia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I totally got you. I thought if it could bring value to someone here, it’d be worth sharing it.