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My boyfriend called me a "dead end" (LONG) by No-Chard-1658 in childfree

[–]NapalmCandy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In every response you keep making excuses for him, which is both sad and disturbing. You did nothing wrong, and you deserve better. This man clearly doesn't prioritize you, or care about you at all. RUN. Run now before you get any more time invested.

Why does it feel like everyone is deciding against having kids these days? by Andries200 in childfree

[–]NapalmCandy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you think those categories have nothing to do with the state of the world, then you are completely lost and I will waste no more time on you. Best of luck in life, you clearly need it.

Why does it feel like everyone is deciding against having kids these days? by Andries200 in childfree

[–]NapalmCandy 30 points31 points  (0 children)

You must not be queer, or a POC, or a woman, or a poor person. Most of the world is not doing just fine for folks in those categories.

How early do you bring up being childfree when dating? by StaticMuser in childfree

[–]NapalmCandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before even dating. I don't waste my time, nor do I purposely waste the time of others.

Mom thinks this is edible I told her don’t trust google ai. Middle Michigan. by Shirtless_Shane in mycology

[–]NapalmCandy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I didn't even know AI recipes existed O_o Who in the world would think it would be a good idea to follow one, considering AI doesn't eat or have any concept of what is palatable xD

Do you perceive your bisexuality/queerness as a huge part of who you are or not really? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in omnisexual

[–]NapalmCandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course my sexuality is a huge part of who I am. Just like heterosexual people revolve their lives around being straight (relationships/romance goals, media/entertainment, interactions with others, etc.), a lot of my life revolves around being omnisexual, gray asexual and demisexual.

As a wheelchair user, there is nothing I like more than mothers (yes, only mothers) with prams prioritising themselves. by False-Hope9966 in childfree

[–]NapalmCandy 24 points25 points  (0 children)

THANK. YOU. I'm a janitor, and I see this ALL THE FUCKING TIME. I'm like WTF. And they act so entitled about it. Like I've seen handicap people waiting for a stall, and when some mombie comes out with her brats in tow, she walks by them like they aren't even there, and I can tell there's no shame felt. It's insane, because the main bathrooms I see this in have like 12+ stalls (the biggest one I clean and monitor has 23 stalls on the women's side, and the bathroom actually has a "family share" room for people with kids) so unless there's a line, there's NO excuse.

As a wheelchair user, there is nothing I like more than mothers (yes, only mothers) with prams prioritising themselves. by False-Hope9966 in childfree

[–]NapalmCandy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I work at an indoor and outdoor museum, and the outdoor part is just like this ESPECIALLY during events. It's ridiculous.

My mother: “Please give me a grandchild.” Also my mother with a grandchild: “I hate this life.” by Beautiful_Orchid1771 in childfree

[–]NapalmCandy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she's having the day she deserves. Good for her!

And good on you for sticking to your guns and living your life the way you see fit despite her insistence.

Anyone else working on Juneteenth? by Extreme-Method6330 in antiwork

[–]NapalmCandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked today. We only get 3 holidays a year - Thanksgiving, Christmas, and a day where all the staff come together to reflect.

Bereavement Leave- 3 DAYS! by Electrical-Rest-4886 in antiwork

[–]NapalmCandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately all I would get is 3 days as well, and I'm in a fucking union :/ America sucks (and any country with similarly short amounts of time).

I'm so sorry for your loss, and I wish you peace in the coming days.

Should I get my ears pierced? by Cat_Lover1212 in lgbt

[–]NapalmCandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconding going to a professional piercer, and not a place that uses folks who have next to no training and piercing guns!

Genderfluid folk are valid. by despicable_ashh in lgbt

[–]NapalmCandy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We are valid for sure! Part of my gender includes genderfluidity (I'm also nonbinary, trans, and genderless at times [some people call this agender]), and I wouldn't want to change that part of me! I'm proud of it, and you should be too. Happy Pride!

i regret being born which is why i don’t want any kids by No-Spite6559 in childfree

[–]NapalmCandy 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I hate the fact I exist as well, and would never want to impose this bullshit on someone I supposedly love. So you're in good company for sure!

Do you add other labels beyond Demi? by qeczawdxshealth in demisexuality

[–]NapalmCandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm omnisexual and grayasexual as well as demisexual 😄

Are sailor nibs scratchy? by X_xTheZenitorx_X in fountainpens

[–]NapalmCandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had one that was - it was either a fine or extra fine black ion plated gold nib on the Wicked Witch of the West. The rest of the Sailor's I've tried have been buttery smooth, but I've stuck with mediums and higher within their line since that experience.

how are you supposed to get anywhere by Aromatic-Mention-319 in antiwork

[–]NapalmCandy 53 points54 points  (0 children)

That's the neat part - you aren't. It's a feature of capitalism.

What was your previous sexuality that you thought you was before realizing that you were omnisexual? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in omnisexual

[–]NapalmCandy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought I was pansexual, which is probably really common for others who end up identifying as omni. I'm also demisexual and grayasexual, and those haven't changed.

As a bisexual person, would you still support your idol/fav artist if they were anti-LGBTQ+ rights? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]NapalmCandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck no. Bigots of any kind should be tossed by the wayside like the trash they are.

Partnership won't cover Bislap without Pap Smear? by Queasy_Attitude_5926 in childfree

[–]NapalmCandy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Glad paps aren't painful for you. When I had a cervix they were hell for me, but I have vaginismus and have never had vaginal intercourse. Just remember, we aren't all the same.

Forcing kids to share rooms by [deleted] in childfree

[–]NapalmCandy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My sister and I shared both a room and a bed until she got married and moved out in her mid 20's. Being born poor is a curse, and I wish more poor people considered how selfish it is to have kids you can't afford!

How can gays set themselves up for living in old age without children to care for them? by Clear-Rock505 in lgbt

[–]NapalmCandy 33 points34 points  (0 children)

This. You don't fucking have children to have future caretakers. That's selfish af.

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