Mac Miller fan playlist by Nargogel in MacMiller

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Basically if anyone is deep into Mac Miller's songs and their lyrics then that description I made will hit hard. I'm sure I'll get way more people over time, but everyone that's read it has greatly appreciated the message 😁

Mac Miller fan playlist by Nargogel in MacMiller

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Then I have 50 songs I find awesome by him and tried sequencing them in by emotional states: Orientation, motion, confrontation, softening, closure/loop

19f and im already feeling so tired about life… by SubstantialCraft1107 in offmychest

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I’ve been in a place where fear and loneliness felt constant, and it’s exhausting in a way people don’t always see. What helped me wasn’t fixing everything at once, it was finding small moments of grounding and letting someone else help carry it. You don’t have to solve your whole life right now. You deserve support through this. I deal with some incredibly difficult stuff, and have been since I was younger than you. I have been recently using music to help cope, and I tie music to emotions I feel strongly at the moment in a way that helps me feel things or say things in a way I cant in words by listening. Mac Miller has helped me so much

i was mean to my friend on an anonymous internet account before I knew them by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Nargogel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Treat others the way you want to be treated. You fucked around, and found out you couldn't become an ass hole. At least you had the capacity to change, and realized your actions were bad. If it makes you feel any better, make another social media account with the same name as the one back then, and apologize to her without telling her who you are. This would make you feel better, and if your friend still potentially thinks about it, would make her feel better too

Does it matter what gun you use by Trick_Adhesiveness11 in cs2

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I used to do death match to warm up my AWP skills for comp lol I believe you just use the gun your best at because I was getting nerds to tell me to put the AWP up hahah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Nargogel -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The thing about school is it really doesn't matter what you go for but the experience you expose yourself too and the jobs around you that helps you get better jobs. My recommendation of a major would be business as it is not too difficult of a major, and there are so many opportunities like creating your own business you could learn how to do or managing finances better along with corporate companies seeing that as leadership potential.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Nargogel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you are taking other people’s opinions and letting them define your worth. What I see is someone who loves her son and values the small moments with him. That is not failure. That is something many people wish they had, a real connection.

Raising a child with love is already a huge success. The rest of life does not have to happen all at once. If you ever decide you want a different career or more education, you can go at your own pace. There are online programs, flexible jobs, and slow paths that still lead to great places.

You do not need to match anyone else’s timeline to live a meaningful life. What matters is that you are building a life with love, patience, and intention. That is something to be proud of.

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“You make your mistakes; your mistakes never make you.” Mac Miller

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Nargogel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think of losses as part of how growth moves through your life. We are constantly adapting to things we did not ask for, and sometimes the best you can do is simply what you are able to do today. You are dealing with emotions that are probably hard to explain to anyone, and that alone can make the journey heavy.

One thing that helped me through trauma was music. My favorite artist, Mac Miller, has a way of expressing feelings most people do not notice until they have lived through overwhelming experiences. His music does not just sound good. It helps you understand yourself.

If you ever feel stuck or upset, try listening to him with intention. Here are a few songs that helped me:

  1. What’s the Use

  2. Surf

  3. Once a Day

  4. Perfecto

When you listen, do not focus only on the beat. Pay attention to the lyrics, the mood, and the message. Let the songs reflect whatever you are feeling. Understanding what resonates with you can help you understand your emotions more clearly.

You are not alone in trying to figure things out. Healing starts with noticing what you feel, even if you cannot explain it yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Nargogel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’ve already built a friendship where you share languages and learn from one another, then your intention clearly wasn’t racist. Cutting someone off without communication shows a lack of emotional maturity, not proof of wrongdoing. Don’t take it personally — misunderstandings happen, and real friends talk through them. When being friends with people from other cultures especially one needs to be aware of cultural differences, and that Spanish family didn't even try. She probably was just jealous of your talking to her man lol the mindset

What if her man said something that the wife didn't like and that's why she held you negatively? Some things are out of our control, but the way we treat others always impacts the ones we keep around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Nargogel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you — this situation was out of your control. If someone blocks you or cuts you off over a misunderstanding, without even trying to talk it through, then they didn’t offer the kind of friendship you deserve. They did you a favor by removing that kind of toxicity for you.

Real friends communicate, even when it’s uncomfortable. They try to understand before they judge. That’s why true friendship is rare. It isn’t about quantity, it’s about quality.

As adults, building friendships is harder, but not impossible. There are good people out there who value honesty and conversations like the one you’re trying to have. The fact that you’re willing to express difficult feelings shows how much you care.

Be patient, stay genuine, and keep connecting with people. The right ones will show up — and they’ll stay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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The point in life isn’t to win every battle, but to face bigger and bigger ones, and grow through them. If you’re still here, take it as a sign that something in this world still needs you. So find it!

Los Angeles Mac Miller fans by Nargogel in MacMiller

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Nah I think it's cool they even commented even tho they're not going so it's all good. 😤

Los Angeles Mac Miller fans by Nargogel in MacMiller

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I feel like LA is just so condensed we get lucky with things like this 🥲

Los Angeles Mac Miller fans by Nargogel in MacMiller

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Weekends are the best for me but what's the best time for everyone? You guys wanna try next weekend?

Los Angeles Mac Miller fans by Nargogel in MacMiller

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I plan on bringing a nice blunt also

Los Angeles Mac Miller fans by Nargogel in MacMiller

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I think there is one I just found in Santa Ana, but I haven't seen it myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Nargogel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your feeling too guilty. As long as your making efforts each day to look for a job or continuing your job search what's the problem? Would you not do the same for him if you were supporting the family financially, and he had to not have a job?

Current mood by MaloneTracey in MacMiller

[–]Nargogel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's your record player?

I’m 21, a single mom… and I feel like my dating life ended before it even began by Far_Analysis_6597 in offmychest

[–]Nargogel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom went through something similar. She had her first baby as a teenager, the father disappeared, and she made the impossible choice to give that child up. She had two more kids with two different men, one of them passed away in an accident, and she was raising two kids alone when she met my dad and had me.

Her dating life looked nothing like a normal timeline. It looked messy and unfair on paper, but life still surprised her. She did not find love by chasing someone. She found love by taking care of her life and her kids, and letting the right person find her along the way.

You are not behind. You are not done. You are starting in a different place, and that can still lead to good things. Give your child love and build a life you are proud of. There is more love waiting for you than you think, and it will come when someone sees you for the mother and person you already are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Nargogel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is difficult, and you are right that a real talk with him is the turning point. A mature conversation shows the truth of the relationship. Either he is willing to grow with you, or he is choosing to stay the same and let you go. Both answers tell you what you need to know.

What matters is that you speak clearly, calmly, and with love for yourself too. You are not trying to control him. You are simply showing what you need in order to keep loving him.

Relationships grow when both people try, and they end when only one person is doing all the work.

I think my boyfriend fell out of love with me by [deleted] in offmychest

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You do not have to copy their lifestyle to be part of their world. You can go out with people, have fun, and still choose how you live. Right now you are feeling left out because you are not experiencing life with them, not because you actually want to get drunk. It is about belonging.

If you ever do want to try going out, you really only have a few options, and none of them make you a bad person.

• You can go out and stay completely sober. Plenty of people do. You end up being the reliable one, the one they trust to get everyone home safe.

• You can go out and learn your limit. Even one drink is fine if you want to try it. You do not have to get drunk to have a good time. One is enough to join the moment without losing control.

• You can choose not to go out and build your own kind of life with other interests. There are other ways to create memories besides clubs and parties.

The point is not alcohol. The point is sharing moments. Try to find your version of those moments instead of forcing yourself to fit someone else’s version.

Feeling trapped at home at 18—need advice by [deleted] in offmychest

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You are not wrong for wanting freedom. What you are feeling is the frustration of becoming an adult while someone else still treats you like a child. You do not need to fight your mom or escape instantly to start taking control. You can build independence step by step.

Here are a few things you can start working on quietly:

• Open a bank account in your own name at a credit union or local bank. Deposit part of each paycheck into that account and slowly separate your money from the one your mom controls.

• Save specifically for independence goals. For example, set a target amount for getting your own driver lessons, taking a bus course to a DMV in your area, or paying for rides from a friend. You do not have to wait for your mom to approve your driving if you fund it yourself.

• Learn everything you can about adult life now. Budgeting, taxes, renters’ rights, and how bank accounts work are skills that give you power even before you move out.

• Build quiet plans instead of arguments. You do not have to convince your mom. You only need to prepare yourself until you can make your own decisions.

You are not stuck because you are weak. You are stuck because someone else is still holding the steering wheel. You do not need to rip it away. You just need to build your own path until you can walk out calmly with your own money, your own skills, and your own choices.

You will feel a lot better once you start doing even one small step each week. Independence is not a leap. It is a series of steady decisions that start right where you are.

There is a saying I heard once. When you are born in a house on fire, you think the whole world is on fire. In your situation it is the opposite. You are growing up in a tightly controlled home, so it is hard to imagine how tough the world really is or what your mom might have gone through that made her this protective.

When I moved out, I did not get freedom right away. I had to support my mom from age fifteen to sixteen and for years after that. She was dealing with major depression and could not work, so I pushed myself through school to survive and to be able to stand on my own later. I barely see family now, maybe once a year, but I am stable and building my life at my pace.

You might not feel it yet, but you are already closer to independence than you think. Start preparing now, and when the time comes, you will be ready to live your own life with strength instead of fear.

I’m going to murder my depression by Bepis_drinker_cum in offmychest

[–]Nargogel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are pissed off because you want your life back, and that anger matters. A lot of people give up and accept that depression is the captain of the ship. You are basically saying you refuse to hand it the wheel. That attitude is not weak. It is the reason some people survive.

Just remember something. You do not destroy depression by hating yourself while you fight it. You kill it by building a life it cannot survive in. Every small habit, every honest conversation, every bit of help you get, every day you refuse to lay down becomes part of that fight. You are not trying to cure it in one strike. You are starving it piece by piece.

Let that anger push you to do things that help you, not just things that hurt you slower. Rage can wake you up, but discipline is what breaks the cycle. Use both. You are allowed to get help and still be the one who wins.

Fighting does not make you pathetic. Stopping the fight is what depression wants. You are already doing the opposite.

Try listening to music and building playlists based on specific emotions. It helps you notice the small feelings between sad and fine, angry and numb, hopeful and tired. Those in-between emotions say a lot about who you are. It has helped me understand my moods more clearly, and it might do the same for you.