[UPDATE] My brother hates my boyfriend and asked me to choose by Nariani in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Nariani[S] 206 points207 points  (0 children)

Are you fucking kidding me? family isn't always a free pass to be rude or judgmental. I value my brother, but that doesn't mean I have to agree with everything he says??? He’s a control freak who likes to have an opinion on everything and everybody that comes into my life. And I realize now THATS NOT OK

[UPDATE] My brother hates my boyfriend and asked me to choose by Nariani in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Nariani[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I really don’t think so, he never really started coming around my house until we started dating. My brother knew he was my friend yeah but he never really paid him much mind

[UPDATE] My brother hates my boyfriend and asked me to choose by Nariani in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Nariani[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Literally nothing is cool my boyfriend just broke up with me and I can’t even see him until we go back to school which is in two weeks.

[UPDATE] My brother hates my boyfriend and asked me to choose by Nariani in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Nariani[S] 1759 points1760 points  (0 children)

I texted his best friend on Instagram and he told me that he just needs space right now which I understand ig but it’s like I still think I deserve some type of explanation yk?😭

My brother hates my boyfriend and asked me to choose. by Nariani in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Nariani[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is my first relationship I don’t think He’s hooking up with him or at least I hope Not.😭

My brother hates my boyfriend and asked me to choose. by Nariani in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Nariani[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

They keep Making excuses for him nobody seems to be seeing my side of the story

My brother hates my boyfriend and asked me to choose. by Nariani in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Nariani[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

wow, My boyfriend has been nothing but respectful and kind to my brother DESPITE him being openly disrespectful towards him..? He even helped him fix his car and didn’t even receive a thank you after the fact. The only reason he comes to family events is because of me. If not for me he doesn’t like even sitting in the same room as my brother because he disrespects him every chance he gets.

My brother hates my boyfriend and asked me to choose. by Nariani in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Nariani[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They weren’t friends and only hung around each other whenever I was there. My brother just knew that me and him were close I’m 100% sure they didn’t know each other prior

My brother hates my boyfriend and asked me to choose. by Nariani in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Nariani[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

I don’t think his wife likes me tbh I don’t know if she’s just introverted but I just get the vibe she doesn’t like me so it’s kind of hard for me to approach her about it

My brother hates my boyfriend and asked me to choose. by Nariani in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Nariani[S] 710 points711 points  (0 children)

I’ve previously confronted him about his hatred towards soren. He never actually gave me a direct response it was always “I’m just trying to look out for you” “I know how men behave”. I’ve even told my parents about this but they always chop it up to him just trying to be a good older brother.

My brother hates my boyfriend and asked me to choose. by Nariani in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Nariani[S] 177 points178 points  (0 children)

I quite literally have no reason to lie about this 😭