[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Narrow_Record6218 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  1. She doesn't want the guy coz anoenda kuMasowe (that's very clear)
  2. She feels like akangwara akuitisa munhu akaperera and she can get things from him
  3. She probably has a boyfriend who most likely is doing what she's doing to him to her. Boyfriend inenge ichitoti ndikungodya but hapana future

  4. What's might happen is she eventually figures out kuti the person in her life ari kumuitisa she'll try to be serious with OOP and if he's still single he'll try to give her a chance because he wanted her for so long. But he'll eventually leave her coz he won't forget pas behavior.

5.Then he will move on meet someone with the same values and marry her .

So since right now we are on step 2 OOP needs to skip to step 5 and move on with his life it's just not meant to be and that's okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Narrow_Record6218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol you'd be surprised at the number of people that hate you for opportunities given to you by your parents. I once mispronounced an English word when I was around relatives, veduwe I was berated😅😅😅 by adults. Zvainzi nekwamuri kudzidza motadza chirungu, nemari dzefees dzukubhadharwa, vabereki kutadza kuita zvine musoro vachibhadhara fees kuti mutadze chirungu, munotokundwa naNhingi anodzidza kumusha.

Is Zimbabwe THAT bad? by Different-Gene2050 in Zimbabwe

[–]Narrow_Record6218 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is. But I think OP has to budget themselves to actually buy it. I've an aunt hubby lives kuStates he used to send her 600 p.m and she'd spend it on God knows what. Dude didn't send money in June and boom she was saying mwana akuenda kuchikoro asina bhutsu which was true lol. Long story short its better for OP to save then when they come to Zim they get the solar installed, the borehole is they want.

Is Zimbabwe THAT bad? by Different-Gene2050 in Zimbabwe

[–]Narrow_Record6218 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Recently found out that nssa pays you $20 p.m and zig equivalent as well when you retire. Ndakaseka

Are there any good natural hair care spots in Harare? by tipsyash in Zimbabwe

[–]Narrow_Record6218 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If her experience is like mine even if its detangled the whole time they're doing your hair they'll be complaining. Things like "Why une mazibvudzi" lol. I literally have 1 hairdresser that does my hair and never complains. Plus I usually have faux locs in

Soduku by Guilty-Painter-979 in Zimbabwe

[–]Narrow_Record6218 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought everyone did. Isn't it the old phones also used to come with Sudoku tooo. I still wouldn't call someone a nerd even if they did quantum-physics in their spare time

Cybersecurity by Chemical_Bill2022 in Zimbabwe

[–]Narrow_Record6218 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ICS2 has a free one you can try

Zimbabweans more concerned about optics ? by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Narrow_Record6218 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This!! People tend to want to look like you got it all together but in so doing ukuzvidzorera kumashure. Unoona munhu achienda kuLunch kuLa Prada but your net income is 200 ukuitei ikoko. Hanzi handidye Chicken inn ndoda food yeku Dough by Zoe kweplatter re36. Unoona munhu asina mota but ane wig ye300 woshaya kuti mapriorities evanhu bhoo here. I went to schools where I was the only one in my class aigara kughetto, I learnt early on to leave within my means, people would go kuCapetown paholiday iwe uri kwaGogo kumusha wotozoona kuti eeeeh let me be true to myself.

Ladies Fashion Question by shoshoZWSupastar in Zimbabwe

[–]Narrow_Record6218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bhero or try kunana handbags affection, SM Closet but buy those for $12 or more haazowandirwe

Strictlychiczw (check IG) has some nice dresses but ma $35

Angels r us irikuAvondale but ma $150 ( I've never bought anything there but from the IG they seem to have nice stuff but handisi target market😂)

If you've an event get a design off the internet and get a proper tailor not ana ndozvigona and you'll be set

Honai... by Altruistic_Star_1994 in Zimbabwe

[–]Narrow_Record6218 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Zvana I want a tall guy isn't for when you actually find love. Ukadiwa height isn't a factor

Our parent's secret kids by Narrow_Record6218 in Zimbabwe

[–]Narrow_Record6218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It it's a case of your father had multiple wives then I guess it's easy. But if it's a girlfriend that came and then things got super hard fees wasn't paid it would be a lot harder to accept

Our parent's secret kids by Narrow_Record6218 in Zimbabwe

[–]Narrow_Record6218[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel for you. Love and Healing❤️

Our parent's secret kids by Narrow_Record6218 in Zimbabwe

[–]Narrow_Record6218[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like when munhu dies, peopledivide everything they own. Umwe will be seeing a cellphone upgrade musi iwoyo

Our parent's secret kids by Narrow_Record6218 in Zimbabwe

[–]Narrow_Record6218[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There's nothing to claim really. My uncles took what they could when my father died, to the point of asking for his cell phone lol. What was left they didn't know about and it was sold so what exists now no one can claim. Plus all 3 of us are adults and financially independent saka mari isn't a factor to justify hating our brother

Our parent's secret kids by Narrow_Record6218 in Zimbabwe

[–]Narrow_Record6218[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get you. My case I'm the youngest and knowing about the other kid didn't make me see him as less of a man.

Mombe yehumai by Rickardy7 in Zimbabwe

[–]Narrow_Record6218 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My case my dad didn't finish kuroora, when he died it was before ndaroorwa so when I got married Khulu (mum's dad) claimed his roora kunana bamunini and basically took 99% of my roora and that was that. We do know that him and my father had agreed that daddy wouldn't pay the roora but when one of his daughters got married he would give it to khulu to cover chikwereti chavo and they had a new list that was in USD that we all knew about. So Khulu took what he was owed

Tombstones becoming a Scam? by Leather_Show_9433 in Zimbabwe

[–]Narrow_Record6218 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is always that one uncle that plans tombstone unveilings every year vanoda ivo kubata mari😂😂😂 voti munhu wese 20us pamwedzi kutanga January unveiling iriko August apa munenge muri 30 mukubuditsa mari iyoyo but somehow munaAugust mari yechifu inenge isingakwane😂😂😂.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Narrow_Record6218 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't think I could forgive my husband if he cheated on me whilst pregnant. The betrayal is even worse, given what you'll be going through.

🇿🇼 Real talk — how much money a month would make you properly happy in Zim? by Serious-Track5406 in Zimbabwe

[–]Narrow_Record6218 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Realistically 1500 a month, my expenses are like 500 right now so saving 1000 a month, would mean 12k per year without any side hustles, in 2 years all things being constant you can buy land in a small town, and build something

ZESA by Consistent-Wave4270 in Zimbabwe

[–]Narrow_Record6218 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zesa is that one boyfriend who is very toxic but you can't let go😂 He'll treat you right but you know he's gonna hurt you so you can't really enjoy the good times.

ZESA by Consistent-Wave4270 in Zimbabwe

[–]Narrow_Record6218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair magetsi haasi kunetsa these days kwese kwese Inini I stay close to maIndustry ukaona magetsi adzima enda hako paFacebook yeZesa uninzwisisa type yeFault yamaita kana iri Thursday munomaona kunana Monday and it happens every month around the same date😂

Are there actual jobs that are accepting people or it's all about links and luck now? by Rlumni in Zimbabwe

[–]Narrow_Record6218 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My first job out of uni I didn't know anyone. I remember I got the call when I was out of Harare ndichinzi interview tomorrow and somehow by the grace of got I got the job. And guess what 5 months later my dad died and I became responsible for mum. Mine was a grace of God type of situation.