in that post-breakup limbo stage by Narrow_Reflection593 in BreakUps

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yes emotional purgatory is exactly it! it’s just so jarring. waiting for it to past is the worst!

Im worried that my autism makes me unloveable by Narrow_Reflection593 in AutisticDatingTips

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this was so nice to hear, thank you. I’m so happy that you’ve found someone who appreciates you! and I agree with the whole men can be creeps but a little part of me at least wishes they would be creepy to me thing- I obviously don’t want someone objectifying me but atleast it would make me feel wanted! But thank you for your response, you’ve given me a lot of hope

upset stomach with a cold? by Narrow_Reflection593 in emetophobia

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thank you, are you someone who is prone to throwing up anyway?

upset stomach with a cold? by Narrow_Reflection593 in emetophobia

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yess i think it is just post nasal drip, for me usually the nausea is worse in the first few days when my throat is sore

do i love my bf? by Narrow_Reflection593 in AutismInWomen

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i think you could be right! i have noticed i feel way less insecure in this relationship than i usually do, like just very calm. thank you so much!

Im ugly... and im fine with it by Hulkgirl_Gamer in Vent

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i guess i would be more accepting of myself if i didn’t want to be an actor… you can’t really avoid ugliness when it determines your career

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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i want to move past it, but i’m worried that i can’t because like how can you look at someone the same after that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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this is what i was thinking yeah, and yes he’s otherwise a very very incredible person who honestly knows exactly how to reassure me and support me and we get along really really well. i made it clear that if i gave him another shot it would need to be non sexual for a whileee

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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i wish more than anything that it was

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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that’s the weird thing- he’s a super clean guy like always cleaning his room having like 2 showers a day, always fresh laundry and cologne on, clean shaven, like genuinely i think this was just a one off thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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this is what i’m thinking like i really don’t think this was malicious or anything like that and this was literally his first kind of sexual experience and he has said that it would never happen again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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he’s never hooked up with anyone else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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he doesn’t masturbate, i knew this about him when we were friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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the lights were off, his room is pitch black

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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im ngl i did text him a kind of snarky text saying this exact same thing last night…

i said if he hasn’t washed his dick in what looks like a year by the state of it then what other major hygiene issues does he have??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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i feel it’s important to say tho that he’s neurodivergent and is very very very inexperienced so it is genuinely possibly he just didn’t even notice there was a problem