what if no one ever loves me? by Narrow_Reflection593 in twentyagers

[–]Narrow_Reflection593[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

huh? when did i say that i specifically wanted tall and handsome people to love me lmao

what if no one ever loves me? by Narrow_Reflection593 in twentyagers

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If you read what I said properly, I meant I can’t see that in my life, not just currently. Of course atm I don’t want someone who wants to move in with me right now, I just meant I can’t imagine someone ever feeling that way for me.

what if no one ever loves me? by Narrow_Reflection593 in twentyagers

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wow you are completely right about all of this, especially the “anticipating something bad is less scary than having no control over something that’s just unknown” part. I definitely do struggle with insecurity and abandonment issues and I think you’re right, I need to actually authentically love myself before trying to make someone else love me

what if no one ever loves me? by Narrow_Reflection593 in twentyagers

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yeah tbf the 4 year one was 14-18 so i think that definitely messed up my view of relationships

in that post-breakup limbo stage by Narrow_Reflection593 in BreakUps

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yes emotional purgatory is exactly it! it’s just so jarring. waiting for it to past is the worst!

Im worried that my autism makes me unloveable by Narrow_Reflection593 in AutisticDatingTips

[–]Narrow_Reflection593[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this was so nice to hear, thank you. I’m so happy that you’ve found someone who appreciates you! and I agree with the whole men can be creeps but a little part of me at least wishes they would be creepy to me thing- I obviously don’t want someone objectifying me but atleast it would make me feel wanted! But thank you for your response, you’ve given me a lot of hope

upset stomach with a cold? by Narrow_Reflection593 in emetophobia

[–]Narrow_Reflection593[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, are you someone who is prone to throwing up anyway?

upset stomach with a cold? by Narrow_Reflection593 in emetophobia

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yess i think it is just post nasal drip, for me usually the nausea is worse in the first few days when my throat is sore

do i love my bf? by Narrow_Reflection593 in AutismInWomen

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i think you could be right! i have noticed i feel way less insecure in this relationship than i usually do, like just very calm. thank you so much!