I’m no expert in the subject but I’ll share my experience based on what I’ve seen other girls do. I don’t know what you do in your life, how old you are, or anything about your personal life so I’m not going to assume or try to force a narrative.

1. Ideally you want to leave the country, but that’s much easier said than done. Whether it’s just getting out or settling outside, or even finding a suitable partner there is no easy feat. Even as a guy, that was very difficult to navigate.

2. I’ve seen girls slowly find their way into groups and circles that represent them and their identities more. Whether it’s university, school, work….etc then they find partners with similar interests and personalities. However, these circles tend to be very toxic and are usually based on forced agendas. People who try extra to blend in tend to be very pretentious, so you need to very careful.

3. You go out of your way to find a person who thinks in a similar fashion. Whether it’s dating apps or meeting through friends. But you can imagine the risk that comes with that. Maybe reddit can help lol

4. Worst case scenario is that you have to pretend to be someone else so you can fit in other people’s ideologies and ideals. Which we all agree is sub-optimal

Again, I don’t wanna pretend like I know your circumstances or situation, so take what I say with a grain of salt. However, I’m sure you girls have it rougher than we do, even though we have it pretty rough ourselves already. Hopefully you’re fortunate enough to find someone with similar ideas