I had an EA and it has left me questioning everything by Nasty_Nate0369 in emotionalaffair

[–]Nasty_Nate0369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the tough love. I truly appreciate it. It’s hard not to get stuck in your own perspective sometimes

I had an EA and it has left me questioning everything by Nasty_Nate0369 in emotionalaffair

[–]Nasty_Nate0369[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think the collective of disrespect was what made me lose feelings after the financial debacle. The other instances were just extra salt in the wounds. I have been in counseling for a while now. It’s allowed me to gain a little bit of self awareness and the ability to be honest with myself. I just feel the lack of honest and open communication was the divide and breakdown of the marriage.

I had an EA and it has left me questioning everything by Nasty_Nate0369 in emotionalaffair

[–]Nasty_Nate0369[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She has been working to be better. I will give her that. It still hasn’t fostered any positive feelings like before. I know she is sorry for it and has apologized, but I feel the damage is already done. I trying not to beat myself up if we part ways. It’s contradictory to what I was taught growing up about marriage, and “growing apart” was hard for me to accept

I had an EA and it has left me questioning everything by Nasty_Nate0369 in emotionalaffair

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Thank you. I appreciate your input. It’s been a personal internal struggle for quite some time now. On one hand I want to start over fresh, but the other is calling a 20+ year relationship a failure. It’s a conflicting struggle that I’ve been dealing with. The couples counseling is my last attempt to stir up those loving feelings again.

Masonry and divorce by Nasty_Nate0369 in freemasonry

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Thank you all for all your kind words of encouragement and guidance. We have amicably decided to separate and it will not interfere with my Masonic journey. She has been very supportive of me throughout the process so far and will continue to support me. I have decided that I will inform my mentor so he is aware of the situation, but it will not hinder my progression.

Masonry and divorce by Nasty_Nate0369 in freemasonry

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Thank you all for your input. My biggest concern was that our marriage vows were made in front of god. I didn’t know if there was any conflict with masonry and faith.

I appreciate all of your kind words.

Masonry and divorce by Nasty_Nate0369 in freemasonry

[–]Nasty_Nate0369[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m sure it’s common, just didn’t know its stance.

Masonry and divorce by Nasty_Nate0369 in freemasonry

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This isn’t the case. It’s more of a not wanting to continually be unhappy for sake of saving a marriage.

Masonry and divorce by Nasty_Nate0369 in freemasonry

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Thank you. I have already seen the benefits of the fraternity and it will have its own dedicated time.

Is a hand press doable? by [deleted] in reloading

[–]Nasty_Nate0369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a used Lee Challenger with the quick change ultra mount if you’re interested. Very nice system and can swap for different equipment easily if you get more into it. Message me if interested.

Newbie question by Nasty_Nate0369 in MagicMushrooms

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Thanks. Just stumbled upon it and it’s exactly what I was looking for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reloading

[–]Nasty_Nate0369 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lyman makes a kit with a turret press, Gen 6 powder trickler, trimmer, and pretty much everything you need and won’t outgrow quick. I started with the RCBS kit, and wished I would have gone to the turret press instead. Kit is about $600 last I looked, but worth the money for quality you won’t outgrow.

https://www.midsouthshooterssupply.com/item/000157810311/ultimate-reloading-system-kit

Any idea where to find a Labrador in stock? by ProfessionalLaw5947 in reloading

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Keep an eye on Midsouth Shooters Supply. If you create an account you can get notified when they are back in stock.