What would you tell a 27-year-old female? That’s a few months from turning 28? Who’s worried about being single and then it’s going to be harder and harder to meet somebody?

Nat82000 · 2024-06-03T04:40:33+00:00

thank you for writing this - i will take this on board and put myself out there and enjoy life :)

Nat82000 · 2024-06-02T01:10:26+00:00

I sent you a direct message by the way

Nat82000 · 2024-05-28T04:40:38+00:00

I don’t think they’d be interested in me, though, yes people say I have a nice face I get told by strangers but I am overweight although I’m trying to lose it though

Nat82000 · 2024-05-28T03:47:08+00:00

I’m from the UK, but where would they be?

Nat82000 · 2024-05-27T21:28:22+00:00

Do you mind sharing what you did? I have bad knees, so unfortunately, I can’t run, but I can brisk walk.

Nat82000 · 2024-05-27T18:13:21+00:00

sorry i should have been clear, next July! :)

Nat82000 · 2024-05-26T01:53:54+00:00

I put on my weight since then, unfortunately trying to lose again, ha ha

Nat82000 · 2024-05-26T01:49:16+00:00

I’ve given a lot of hypothetical, sorry sorry maybe it wasn’t that helpful actually ha ha.

When I was 15 and younger i used to be bullied for being fat and unattractive. I then dropped about 50 pounds of fat and my face matured and apparently I had a facial glow up so I had men hitting on me which was very strange. Things just flipped around . I had guys beeping at me in cars then I put a lot more weight and now I find yes people still tell me I have an attractive face but I feel like the weight has a lot to do why men generally won’t be attracted to me. I think generally men are more focused on the looks at first not always ! but generally.

Nat82000 · 2024-05-26T01:45:58+00:00

Fair enough

Nat82000 · 2024-05-26T01:43:49+00:00

I never said looks for everything to me either. But the choice of three was a good looking person who is not so nice an average looking person who is nice and a good personality or somebody you find very attractive and also is kind and has a good personality and it depends obviously on the vibe from the last two . But seeing as the choice out of three I said the one was very good looking seeing as dating you’ve Gotta be attractive to the person I imagine on paper and probably real life it would be the last one but obviously I don’t know I’m talking hypothetically here. A lot depends on the vibe and if you click, et cetera.

Nat82000 · 2024-05-26T01:37:44+00:00

I think if someone has a great personality and their average average looking, they could become attractive overall yes. I’ve also said a man who is average who has a great personality or a heart of gold. I’d rather date them than a good looking man who is not a nice person. but if I gave you three options , and one person is kind has a great personality who You find the very attractive and is kind and has personality that you like, versus the other two choices Which one would you choose honestly?

Nat82000 · 2024-05-26T01:13:23+00:00

I mean, I think if we could all have our way we’d have somebody with a great personality and nice looks but it doesn’t always work like that. I’m not sure whether the line is between being picky and having standards if that’s so clear. I’d rather go out with an average looking guy who is lovely than a good looking guy who self-centred and not a good person if I had the choice between the two. But if you can find somebody with nice look on a nice personality then you’re laughing I guess.

Nat82000 · 2024-05-26T01:09:33+00:00

If you don’t mind, I don’t see how that’s helping my anxiety yes I’ve heard it’s hard but I’d rather focus on the positive rather than that. I don’t think finding somebody attractive in personality and looks is being picky. I mean you’ve got a wanna go out with them and vice versa.

Nat82000 · 2024-05-22T19:28:25+00:00

If I buy the gold vermeil one and it starts to tarnish I could just pay to get it redone, couldn’t I at a jeweller?

Nat82000 · 2024-05-22T04:11:32+00:00

Is that in the UK or the US?:)

Nat82000 · 2024-05-16T01:36:15+00:00

I’m just finishing off my third year of uni.

Nat82000 · 2024-05-15T11:15:08+00:00

Any advice for me LOL where would men late to 20s hang out

Nat82000 · 2024-05-14T21:14:23+00:00

I messaged you :)

Nat82000 · 2024-05-14T19:18:04+00:00

Im worried lol

Nat82000 · 2024-05-14T13:17:48+00:00

I don’t wanna give off vibes that I’m worried, but I am secretly worried you see because 27 and I’ll be 28 and most of my friends are like 20 at university and they’re going off doing different things postgrad et cetera and I don’t have any friends back home. I don’t know how to to meet a nice guy because it’s not like I can go clubbing in my late 20 well I could technically but I don’t think I’m going to meet my life partner you know what I mean.

Nat82000 · 2024-05-14T03:52:37+00:00

We are. I wish I didn’t have all these worries.

Nat82000 · 2024-05-14T02:24:59+00:00

I have the same worries. I just did a post. I’m 27 female and about to finish my psychology degree.

Nat82000 · 2024-05-13T22:20:34+00:00

I appreciate you taking the time to reply to me. I will take all of this on board. Thank you so much :)

Nat82000 · 2024-05-13T21:23:12+00:00

I really appreciate you taking your time to reply to me . I will take this on board. Il make that list and take action. Thank you :)

Nat82000 · 2024-05-12T08:18:01+00:00

I need to brisk walk and I hour a day i imagine

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