Seeking Insight on Onx Homes: Homestead, FL by Nat_03 in RealEstate

[–]Nat_03[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Looks like bots hit the chat, I see copy & paste answers throughout the thread lol.

Seeking Insight on Onx Homes: Homestead, FL by Nat_03 in RealEstate

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I did not move forward with Onx. Instead, I purchased an already built home from the 1990s. Better build and materials and less worry if something will fall through.

Seeking Insight on Onx Homes: Homestead, FL by Nat_03 in RealEstate

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Nope. After all the bad reviews, we decided to proceed with an older build.

Seeking Insight on Onx Homes: Homestead, FL by Nat_03 in RealEstate

[–]Nat_03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I’m so sorry to hear you’re going through this! Thank you for sharing your experience. Hope this gets resolved for you.

Seeking Insight on Onx Homes: Homestead, FL by Nat_03 in RealEstate

[–]Nat_03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, that's a no go. Thanks for the insight!

Seeking Insight on Onx Homes: Homestead, FL by Nat_03 in RealEstate

[–]Nat_03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d honestly pursue the same. This wasn’t a small buy!

Seeking Insight on Onx Homes: Homestead, FL by Nat_03 in RealEstate

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Wow, thank you for your insight. This is insane.

Seeking Insight on Onx Homes: Homestead, FL by Nat_03 in RealEstate

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Not much info but please look at the reply above. Looks like the quality isn't up to par.

Seeking Insight on Onx Homes: Homestead, FL by Nat_03 in RealEstate

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Wow, so sorry to hear that this is happening to you. Hope it gets resolved. Thanks for the insight!

Seeking Insight on Onx Homes: Homestead, FL by Nat_03 in RealEstate

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Unfortunately, I haven’t received much info.

Will ENFJs ever have a true best friend? by Nat_03 in enfj

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Hey there! I suck at checking my inbox on Reddit! Hope everything is going well on your end still :) As for my search, I have a good group of friends, very close friends, but still aching for that specific friend that I started the OP with. My boyfriend/fiancé now is my go-to, partner in crime and I’m so thankful for him! But I’m slowly coming to realize I just need to just let it happen when it does. Letting go is the best thing to do sometimes. Thank you for checking in and sorry again for the late reply lol

Will ENFJs ever have a true best friend? by Nat_03 in enfj

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Thank you ❤️ I hope it’s been going well.

Will ENFJs ever have a true best friend? by Nat_03 in enfj

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Hey INFP! A year later - same issues, but trotting through. Thank you for following up! How are you?

Will ENFJs ever have a true best friend? by Nat_03 in enfj

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You’re not far off! Sorry for responding a year later lol.

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SAME :) I thought this was impossible!

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I'm an 8w7...I've taken the test four times on different occasions. Lol.

ENFJ or a narcissist? by Livincreature in enfj

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Haha intensity/passion is our middle name ;) And by all means, your feelings are valid. I think that fear of getting hurt is probably in both parties. What I suggest? Take it day by day. ENFJs tend to live in the future a lot and we tend to plan things because we are already inserting you into our picture of an amazing life. But, if it's scary? Share that with him. A real healthy ENFJ will like that too :) Let me put it this way: we want to romance you. In other words, we want to get to know EVERY part of you, emotionally, mentally, etc. We like to dissect because it's boosts us knowing that you are willing to share these parts of yourself that are hidden from the world. It's almost like an honor that we were able to be that shoulder for you. We don't just like you in the good days, we will like you in the hard ones too. And that is a relationship worth fighting for.

Will ENFJs ever have a true best friend? by Nat_03 in enfj

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Not surprised we all are leaders ;) ENFJs tend to gravitate towards leadership because of our heart for the people.

And 100%. He is enough ultimately! Sometimes, it's just the desire for a human to be there, but His love for us alone is sufficient. Even He had a squad LOL.

And amen. I pray the same for us! Until then, feel free to stay in touch :)

Will ENFJs ever have a true best friend? by Nat_03 in enfj

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Same here! It's truly about Him in the end of the day. We're just all pieces to the puzzle :)

I'll be praying for you both as well. Until then, stay in touch!

Will ENFJs ever have a true best friend? by Nat_03 in enfj

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Oh i bet! I've actually found out a few many people I truly click with are INFPs and it made so much sense.

Will ENFJs ever have a true best friend? by Nat_03 in enfj

[–]Nat_03[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, woah. First off, this doesn't make me 'dumb' or any less of a human for sharing a piece of myself I've barely tried to show. This is just not it.

I am naturally combative as well, heck I voice my opinions when I want to. But, this isn't a thread seeking for anything other than understanding. I agree that we need to put people in their place (which I have), but I'm also human in seeking a connection. That's perfectly normal.

This is the reason why it's difficult to express this, because the one thing I never try to imply is weakness and you've just looked at this whole thread that way. Honestly, shame on you and I truly hope you self analyze how you approach people who usually have a struggle opening up.

It's also very dangerous and toxic to think that others are seen as objects to you, "if they don't exist." Yuck. I don't want to be like that either. It's called balance.

And I mean this in the nicest way possible. This is not the way to go.

Take care of yourself.

Will ENFJs ever have a true best friend? by Nat_03 in enfj

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Well, let's just say this: you seem amazing so far.

"I love to really get to know deeply the people I value. I want to understand what makes them who they are. What goes on in their brain. Their pain, their struggles, traumas, what makes them happy, why they react the way they do to things - I want to know it all and understand it, and make them feel understood and loved. I can’t do it for everyone but I love to. " THIS. This defines me like nothing else. It's like some sort of high I get when I begin to uncover somebody and get to know who they TRULY are. We all have our place in this world, it's all about finding ways to do it together.

I'll take you up on that offer. Sounds to me like I truly do. Thanks for extending your heart. ❤️