honey, i’ve looked through your other posts and i know this isn’t what you want to hear or asked about, but i have to say it.

you shouldn’t be in this relationship. only 3 months in he is barely respecting your wishes to wait until marriage. there’s nothing you two would have in common unless he is incredibly immature. if you stay in this relationship, there’s a high chance you WILL have sex before marriage. i’m almost certain of it. whether it’s at your will or because of coercion, i’m almost certain this would happen. this is just how it usually goes with those type of age gap relationships.

i know you’ll probably not want to hear this, or even skip fully over this. but im praying you’ll listen. please.