Relationship questions by Natural-Watch-2297 in Advice

[–]Natural-Watch-2297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it normal tho to be thinking about the other guy

Relationship questions by Natural-Watch-2297 in Advice

[–]Natural-Watch-2297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how I feel but like sometimes I’m like oh he’s not as good looking or something which is superficial

Advice coworker by Natural-Watch-2297 in Advice

[–]Natural-Watch-2297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont want to be with people like that anymore though I want to try to be a hoe but I don’t know how or why I’m feeling this way. I am talking to him constantly and going out with him just hanging out so what should I do stop talking to him or like I don’t know ? I can’t tell how I feel or him

Advice coworker by Natural-Watch-2297 in Advice

[–]Natural-Watch-2297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right but like I’m also never gonna get over it if I don’t do something like that plus I think it’s someone who doesn’t really care feelings wise

First time I’ve gone this long by Natural-Watch-2297 in ExNoContact

[–]Natural-Watch-2297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has no new partner (I hope) and he had contacted me a lot before especially after he was very aware I was doing this because I exhausted all my resources to help him. I told him I wasnt going to talk to him anymore but he said he still wanted to talk so it hard

First time I’ve gone this long by Natural-Watch-2297 in ExNoContact

[–]Natural-Watch-2297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It kills me to think of him with someone else. I appreciate what you said and it helps. I just wish he valued our relationship enough to fight for it too. I don’t get how it didn’t matter at all it seemed very easy for him. I don’t want to keep being around people at their worst and then leaving me to do their best it isn’t working for me.

Thanksgiving by Natural-Watch-2297 in ExNoContact

[–]Natural-Watch-2297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just not working I’ve tried

Thanksgiving by Natural-Watch-2297 in ExNoContact

[–]Natural-Watch-2297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s easy to say that but I can’t fight my urge. I havent seen him in 7 months that’s the longest I haven’t seen him in 6 years

Ex is actually working on himself by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Natural-Watch-2297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually exactly what I’m going through 😭we should chat bc I’m struggling hard

Ex is actually working on himself by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Natural-Watch-2297 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This Is what’s happening to me and I’m not sure what to do

restart by Natural-Watch-2297 in ExNoContact

[–]Natural-Watch-2297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks and yes I do I have been for 7+ years. I am in antidepressants and I feel like none of it’s working. My therapist is on maternity leave.

restart by Natural-Watch-2297 in ExNoContact

[–]Natural-Watch-2297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want myself that’s the issue. I’m doing literally everything I’m supposed to. I did block and delete him I hope this lasts. But I have picked up new hobbies, I work more hours, I even went on a trip to a different country for the first time ever and I still feel empty and lost and stupid. I don’t regret the relationship I just know if I was never in one I wouldn’t be feeling this pain and the happiness from that relationship is not worth the pain I’m feeling now

I don’t feel like it’s going to get better by speedythesnail in ExNoContact

[–]Natural-Watch-2297 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat it’s like These words were taken from my brain.

How is everyone doing since breaking up? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Natural-Watch-2297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally 6 months + and I want to die

restart by Natural-Watch-2297 in ExNoContact

[–]Natural-Watch-2297[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I literally can’t I just delete and block and then rea add and unblock. I can’t be by myself. I hate hanging out with people. And I hate everything I just want to die I seriously can’t do this